Connect with us

METRO

Mum Abandoned Baby Born Without Eyes, Then Something Unbelievable Happened To Him! –

Published

on

By

 

When her baby was born without eyes, a young Russian mom made the heartbreaking decision to abandon him, fearing that the little boy would never have a loving family. The orphanage began a campaign to set Sasha up for adoption. Then something unbelievable happened to him that would change his life forever.

At 31 weeks pregnant, Sasha’s birth mother went for a regular checkup. She was excited but nervous about bringing a child into the world. She didn’t have much and had no experience in looking after children. She worried whether being a mother would come naturally to her. Throughout her pregnancy, she had been concerned about whether she would be able to properly provide for her child…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

During the checkup, she noticed that the nurses had concerned looks on their faces as they called a doctor into the room. She began to feel panicked, but she wasn’t prepared for the news the medical professional was about to give her. The doctor told her that there seemed to be a problem with her baby’s eyes. He told the young woman that she should prepare herself for the likelihood that her little boy would be born without eyeballs.

The young woman stumbled out of the hospital, feeling lost. All the way home, she contemplated what life would be like for her and her son. As the weeks passed by and it got closer to the due date, the young woman made a difficult and painful decision. She just didn’t think she had the skills to properly take care of the little boy in the way he would need. She would have to put her baby up for adoption. She didn’t feel happy about the decision, but she felt she had no choice. She didn’t have any family and friends to help her, and dealing with such a rare medical condition overwhelmed her.

When the young woman gave birth, she couldn’t even look at her son, fearing that she might form an attachment to a child she couldn’t care for. As much as it broke her heart, she handed over her baby to the care of the doctors and nurses, abandoning him to an unknown fate. She walked away from the hospital with tears in her eyes, still unsure if she had done the right thing.

It would seem that the worst-case scenario had come true. Little Sasha was indeed born without eyeballs—an extremely rare medical condition, making him only one of three children in Russia with the same syndrome. There was a glimmer of hope, though. Sasha amazed doctors.

His condition, known as SOX2 anophthalmia syndrome, usually came with lots of other severe medical issues, such as cognitive impairments, speech difficulties, and hearing loss, and it only affected one in every 250,000 births. Despite this, Sasha had defied all odds and was actually a healthy and resilient little boy with no other health issues. He soon captured the hearts of all the staff at the hospital, who marveled at how special he was. The boy wouldn’t stop smiling.

Sasha had two benign cysts on his forehead, but doctors weren’t concerned and quickly and easily removed them. It was quite remarkable that the little boy didn’t seem to have anything else wrong with him beyond having no eyeballs. Once doctors were sure that little Sasha was completely healthy, he was handed over to a local orphanage in Tomsk, Russia.

Doctors and nurses were saddened to see Sasha leave and were deeply concerned about what life would hold for him. They knew that even though he was healthy, a medical condition like his wouldn’t make it easy for him to get adopted. As the medical staff waved goodbye to Sasha, they couldn’t help but feel heartbroken at his sad situation.

Sasha soon charmed all the staff at the orphanage, who were pleased to see that he was a very smiley little boy despite his difficult start in life. On days when things felt tough, a bright smile from Sasha could soon lift the mood of the orphanage. The orphanage knew that Sasha would thrive in the care of a loving family, but finding him that special family would be incredibly hard.

The hospital where Sasha was born stayed in close contact with the orphanage as they began to formulate a care plan for him. Due to having no eyeballs, the little boy would need tiny orbs implanted to stop any facial deformities as he grew. The implants would have to be replaced every six months to adapt to Sasha’s changing face.

There was no chance that Sasha would ever see, but being born blind meant it would be easier for him to adapt in the right environment. There was no reason why Sasha couldn’t thrive the same as a child without his condition. The eye orb implants would ensure that Sasha’s face looked the same as any other child’s, giving him the most normal life possible in his circumstances.

One particular nurse at the orphanage had grown very attached to Sasha, and the thought of him not finding a home broke her heart. Being a loving and compassionate person, she decided to travel to St. Petersburg with Sasha when he had his operation. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

That way, a familiar person would be present when the little boy woke up. She knew he wouldn’t be able to see her, and he was still a baby, but she felt sure that he would sense her presence and be comforted by it. The kind nurse patiently waited in the waiting room of the hospital. She said silent prayers, hoping that everything would go smoothly. It seemed like such a big operation for a tiny little boy.

Thankfully, after a few hours, doctors informed the nurse that everything had gone to plan, and Sasha was doing very well. As soon as she walked into the hospital room, a huge smile broke out on Sasha’s face. It seemed that nothing could dull the brave little boy’s spirit. The nurse couldn’t help but smile back. Even though she knew Sasha couldn’t see, she got the feeling that he would know how happy she was.

With a proper plan in place for Sasha’s medical care, the orphanage now began the difficult task of trying to find the little boy a loving family—one that could deal with the operations the little boy would need twice a year, but also a family that could see past his medical condition and love the little boy. No one anticipated just how heart-wrenching the task would be, though.

Every time a family came to the orphanage, Sasha was met with looks of pity and sometimes even disgust. Some families just weren’t interested in hearing Sasha’s story beyond the fact that he was born blind. They missed out on details about his beautiful smile, his loving nature, the way he loved playing with the other children, and how much joy he got from going swimming. All the little pieces of information that made Sasha who he was didn’t seem to matter. People saw a child with a disability and nothing else.

Christmas was fast approaching, and the orphanage had seen a lot of success with children getting new families in time for the festivities. As Christmas trees began to be placed around the orphanage and the decorations were hung, there was a sense of sadness that stopped everyone from truly getting into the spirit of the season. Everyone had one little boy on their minds: Sasha.

It was looking very likely that the happy and loving little boy would be spending his first-ever Christmas at the orphanage. Although staff always did their best to make the Christmas season as magical and happy as they could, they knew they could never match the Christmas joy that a family could provide. They wanted to see all the children in their care go to happy homes, but Sasha especially had charmed them, and for him to have a family for Christmas would be truly a miracle.

The staff at the orphanage got together to form a plan. They needed to do something that would actually get people to give Sasha a chance and not just overlook him. The nurse who had traveled to St. Petersburg with the little boy had an idea.

She wanted a journalist to do a piece on Sasha that could be shared on social media. Although most people agreed this would probably give Sasha the exposure he so desperately needed, they were also concerned about the little boy’s safety and about turning him into a media spectacle. It was a delicate situation that would have to be handled respectfully and kindly.

The search for a journalist who could tackle the sensitive situation began. Staff met with Svetlana and immediately knew that she was the right person to tell Sasha’s story. The team at the orphanage began to build a perfect adoption page for the little boy, painting a picture of a happy and smiley baby who responded with joy upon hearing familiar voices. Meanwhile, Svetlana began crafting the perfect article that would show the world how special Sasha was.

Just days after Svetlana published her piece on Sasha in the local paper, the story was picked up by global news outlets keen to share the story of a happy baby looking for a home for Christmas. The orphanage couldn’t believe how much interest Sasha was receiving. They hoped and prayed that the article would attract interested families in Russia, but they never imagined that they’d be met with prospective parents expressing interest from all over the world. Sasha had gone from having no one interested in him to the whole world falling in love with him overnight.

Staff at the orphanage were overwhelmed with the response to Sasha’s story and began the tough task of filtering through the adoption requests they had received for the little boy. They had received a large amount of interest from families outside of Russia, and although they were happy that people were finally interested in Sasha, they had been keen to see him go to a family in Russia where adoption authorities would be able to keep a close watch on him to ensure he was getting the right care.

Sifting through piles of adoption applications, authorities now had some very difficult decisions to make: let Sasha be adopted outside of Russia or keep him at the orphanage. However, in the middle of the challenges, Sasha’s fate took a miraculous

 

READ FULL STORY HERE>>...CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>
Continue Reading
Click to comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

METRO

5 reasons why men always cheat

Published

on

By

Cheating occurs when one partner betrays the other’s confidence and violates the promise of emotional and sexual exclusivity with them.

Being betrayed by someone you love deeply can be painful. People who are defrauded suffer greatly.

Let’s talk about the reasons why guys cheat in relationships and what you can do about it…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

Though both men and women cheat, data show that men are more likely than women to admit to having affairs after marriage.

Cheating is a complicated behavior impacted by personal preferences, attitudes, and circumstances. It is critical to avoid drawing sweeping conclusions about any group based on the acts of a few.

Trust and faithfulness differ from person to person, although many people are dedicated to monogamous and faithful relationships.

POSSIBLE REASON WHY MEN CHEAT

Men betray because they are immature.

What leads a man to cheat? Or, why do husbands cheat? Their emotional development could be the reason.

“Males engage in extramarital affairs for a variety of reasons. In my professional experience, I’ve found a consistent trend of emotional immaturity among persons who engage in the emotional and physical parts of infidelity.

1- One of the reasons men cheat is a lack of maturity in investing the time, dedication, and energy necessary to deal through key issues in their marital relationship. Instead, these guys frequently choose to participate in behaviors that harm their significant others, families, and themselves.

2- Men tend to cheat when they feel inadequate. A nagging feeling of inadequacy is a crucial precursor to the desire to cheat. Men (and women) cheat when they feel inadequate.

Men who cheat regularly are individuals who have been conditioned to feel inferior to others. They want to find someone who treats them like a priority. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

3- Men feel ashamed of their desire for pleasure.

“Why do good husbands have affairs?” The answer may be – Shame.

The reason men have emotional affairs rather than physical ones is shame; this is why people cheat.

I understand that sounds odd and like a catch-22, yet many people feel ashamed after being discovered cheating. However, shame is frequently the motivator for dishonest activities.

4- Men occasionally have an intimacy disorder.

Why guys cheat and lie in relationships can be attributed to a deeper problem in their romantic lives.

When considering why men cheat on their wives, any signs that your partner is struggling with intimacy issues may be a red flag.

Men betray because they have an intimacy disorder, whether they do it online or in person.

5- Men cheat because they chose to.

Nothing “makes” guys cheat on their partners; men cheat because they want to.

Cheating is a decision. He will chose to do it or not.

Cheating is the result of unsolved conflicts, an unmet void, and a failure to fully commit to the relationship and his partner.

 

READ FULL STORY HERE>>...CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>
Continue Reading

METRO

How and Why “Unknown Soldiers” Attacked Fela’s Home, Kalakuta Republic, in 1977

Published

on

By

Kalakuta Republic was the home of the late musician and political activist, Fela Anikulapo Kuti. The commune, located at No. 6 Agege Motor Rd., Moshalashi, Lagos, enclosed Fela’s recording studio, nightclub and a private clinic which was operated by his younger brother, Beko Ransome-Kuti. The two‐storey yellow building also housed Fela’s family and band members…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

The name ‘Kalakuta‘ was a parody of Calcutta prison in India where Fela served a sentence in 1974 for possessing marijuana which many believed was politically motivated. Fela declared Kalakuta an independent republic from Nigeria due to his hatred for the then military government which he believed ruled Nigerians with dishonesty. Having a republic inside a republic did not go down well with the military government.

Military men outside Kalakuta republic
Military men outside Kalakuta Republic

Fela’s relationship with the military government deteriorated when he released a best-selling track titled ‘Zombie’ which mocked Nigerian soldiers. The song gained nationwide attention which angered the military government of Olusegun Obasanjo. A line of the song says, “Zombie no go walk unless you tell am to walk“, i.e., a zombie (fool) won’t walk unless commanded.

Download Zombie by Fela Kuti

Their already strained relationship got severed on a fateful day when two of Fela’s boys got in a heated argument with a military police officer for driving one of Fela’s vehicle which had no plate number at the front; this was on the 18th of February, 1977. Fela’s boys, identified as Segun Adams and Segun Ademola, argued that since there was a plate number at the back, they would not let the officer impound the vehicle.

Fela’s boys drove away as the argument got intense. Some military men chased them to Kalakuta Republic but were denied entrance. This infuriated the military men and they set fire to the generator that powered Kalakuta Republic and cut its electric fence as well, then called for back up to fully invade the commune.

Fela Kuti explaining a point to Mr. Justice Anya after the Kalakuta raid
Fela Kuti explaining a point to Mr. Justice Anya after the Kalakuta raid

Shortly after, about one thousand soldiers arrived with machine guns. Stampede ensued in Kalakuta Republic as the soldiers mercilessly beat its occupants including Fela and his brother. Fela’s brother, Beko, claimed they were almost killed during the attack. Women were beaten and molested. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Fela’s mother, Mrs. Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti was beaten and thrown from an upstairs window. She eventually died from the injuries she sustained during the attack. The soldiers set fire to the commune which razed to ashes in no time.

Fela being rushed to the hospital after he was beaten by soldiers
Fela being rushed to the hospital after he was beaten by soldiers

Properties worth millions of Naira were destroyed; most of Kalakuta’s 60 occupants were in the hospital and so were a number of innocent bystanders who ran past the flames with their arms held straight in the air, a gesture of surrender, but were clubbed anyway by drunken, red-eyed soldiers. It was indeed a horrible day for Fela and his family. People believed that Fela’s beef with the military government culminated in the attack on Kalakuta Republic.

Fela and band members during a dance rehearsal at Kalakuta Republic | TheNetNG
Fela and band members during a dance rehearsal at Kalakuta Republic

However, the Kutis did not let the military go away with their assault. They filed a N25 Million lawsuit against the Nigerian military. The Kutis’ lawyer, Mr Tunji Braithwaite, handled the case brilliantly but eventually lost to the military government on the ground that the soldiers who attacked Kalakuta Republic were unknown soldiers. Thus the case was dismissed!

Kalakuta Republic in ashes
Kalakuta Republic in ashes

An infuriated Fela who later lost his mother as a result of the attack carried a replica of her coffin to the Dodan military barracks and dropped it off. He later released a song titled ‘Coffin for Head of State’ in 1980 which narrated the attack on Kalakuta and the death of his mother.

Fela and his mother, Olufunmilayo Ransome-Kuti
Sad faces of Fela Kuti and his mother, Mrs. Olufunmilayo Ransome Kuti, during the probe on the Kalakuta attack

The military government of Olusegun Obasanjo revoked the Kutis’ Certificate of Occupancy of the commune. The site of the demolished Kalakuta Republic is now occupied by a school, named after Fela’s original surname: Ransome-Kuti Memorial Grammar School.

 

READ FULL STORY HERE>>...CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>
Continue Reading

METRO

How The People of Ara-Ekiti Committed Mass Suicide To Avoid Enslavement in 1855?

Published

on

By

As at 1850, Ara was one of the most powerful towns in Ekiti with a settlement spanning as big as that of Ijaye in Egbaland. In August 1855, the people of Ara (also called Ara-Ekiti) committed mass suicide to avoid getting enslaved by Ibadan.

The mass suicide was initiated by the leader of Ara town, Alara Elejofi, who (with the help of his first son) destroyed his properties, killed his family and himself. Many other households in the town replicated this act, and when the Ibadan army arrived with their wide array of weaponry, they turned back at the gory sight of dead bodies that littered the town…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

Earlier, the people of Ara had rebelled against their former Alara (ruler) because of his bad governance and the grevious offences he had committed against his townspeople. He was exiled. It was during his exile that Chief Elejofi took over the rulership of the town.

The exiled Alara was not willing to let go of his throne and thus sought help from Ibadan. His request was granted because Ibadan, which as at then was gradually filling the vacuum created by the fall of Oyo, was hungry for towns to shove under its administration. The Ibadan army had just returned from an expedition in Ijebu-Ere and with their help, the deposed Alara returned to Ara and was fearfully accepted.

Shortly after Ibadan restored the deposed Alara of Ara, its army attacked Ikoro, another town in Ekiti, because they prevented Ibadan army from foraging on their crops, and also because there were rumours that Ikoro was planning to attack the Ibadan army. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

During the attack on Ikoro, some other towns in Ekiti, including Ara-Ekiti, tried to defended Ikoro. The restored Alara prevented his townspeople from joining the fight against Ibadan, hence another unrest ensued in the town. Ibadan eventually defeated Ikoro and went ahead to punish the towns that helped Ikoro during the war, including Ara.

During this period, Chief Elejofi had again taken over the rulership of Ara and held on to it for some months before it eventually crumbled due to starvation, and to avoid being enslaved by Ibadan, the people of Ara-Ekiti committed an unprecedented mass suicide. This incident is quite similar to the mass suicide of Igbo slaves off the U.S. coast in 1803.

The town of Ara was left deserted for many years before some of its exiled descendants returned home. Ara suicide remains one of the most disturbing chapters in the history of Ekiti and the entire Yoruba land.

 

READ FULL STORY HERE>>...CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>
Continue Reading

Trending

error: Content is protected !!