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We Agreed To Do It Only For Him To Deny The Pregnancy –

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He called to ask me, “Now that you’ve broken up with me, what should I tell your family when we come for the introduction?” The question made me angry. How was a grown man acting as if he did not have a mind of his own? Why did he expect me to feed him the information he should deliver to my parents? It felt like he didn’t want this. His actions during my pregnancy were all the proof I needed to know that he did not want me.

I didn’t want to be stuck with a man who would rather be free of me. So I called his mum and told her, “Please stop forcing your son to marry me. Everything shows your family wants him to be with me but his behavior has proven that I am not who he wants.” She told me to calm down. “Initially, our son had told us the baby was not his. We didn’t want to just take him at his word. This is the reason we came to visit you and the child. When we came, we saw for ourselves that the child looked like him. We reported what we saw to him and he is ready to pay your dowry. We are not the ones forcing him,” she explained…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

The part about this whole thing that pains me is that the man I had the baby with did not come to see his own child. He had to send his family to see the child and confirm if our son was his. This is not a pregnancy that happened by accident. The two of us decided to have the baby together after we had dated for nine months.

We were so in love and in a place where we both wanted a child. I trusted his love for me. I was sure that he would stick to the plan. Yes, usually people get married first and then have a baby. Ours was the other way around. We decided we would get pregnant, then he would meet my family for an introduction, and pay my dowry.

Let me clarify that I did not force this plan down his throat, nor did I manipulate him to agree to it. Two lovers sat together and agreed to this. We did what needed to be done and it did not take long for me to conceive.

I was happy when I missed my period that month and the test results read positive. While I celebrated the gift the heavens blessed us with, Roland was melancholic. “Babe what’s wrong? Why are you not happy that we got what we wanted without trying too hard?” I asked. “It happened too soon,” he responded, “Usually couples try for months before pregnancy happens. But this one was too fast. I don’t think the pregnancy is mine. Maybe you were already carrying another man’s child before we even decided to have a child.” I was shocked he would say this.

I had never cheated on him or even looked at another man since I met him. So why would I give him another man’s child? I tried to reason with him but he wouldn’t talk to me. I asked him to accompany me to the antenatal clinic but he refused. He rather shared his doubts with his mother and then ghosted me for three months.

When he came back, he apologized for his actions and I forgave him. We started talking but didn’t see each other physically. One time I asked him to support me financially, and he ghosted me again. I didn’t chase him. I didn’t call his mother to advise him to be responsible. I turned my attention to myself and my unborn child. I took good care of us. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

By God’s grace, everything went well and I had the baby safely. After delivery, this guy called me sounding angry. “Why didn’t you tell me and my family that you were going to give birth?” he demanded. Honestly, his inconsistency was annoying.

One moment, he was ghosting me because he didn’t want to provide for the care of a child he was sure was not his. Another moment he was accusing me of not telling his family I had the baby. I didn’t want any more of his problems so I stopped picking up his calls.

Two months after the delivery, his mother called to ask if they could visit to see their grandchild. I agreed. My family prepared and welcomed them well. We were expecting Roland to be with them but he didn’t show up. It was his mother and siblings who came to see the baby.

After the informal introductions, his mum told my dad, “Next week we will come with our son for an official introduction, and then we will pay the dowry.” My family didn’t have any objections although we hadn’t heard from the baby daddy himself.

I was tempted to send him a message to confirm what his mum said but I didn’t. He was the one who started texting me after his people left. I thought we were going to speak like two adults but he had something different in mind. Instead of apologising for his absence, he accused me of blocking him, something I didn’t do. He then asked what he should tell my parents now that I had broken up with him. I never broke up with him either. He was the one who decided our child was not his and then ghosted me.

As his mother explained, they’ve seen that the child looks like him so he is ready to pay the dowry. I keep asking myself what would have happened if the child came out looking like me instead. Would he still say the child is his? Would he still want to pay my dowry? I don’t trust him anymore, not after the way he neglected me. He left me to take care of a pregnancy we both agreed to conceive. How can I marry such a man?

This is why am I here with my story today. Is it a good idea to go ahead with the marriage? Or should count my losses and move on with my life as a single mum?

 

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If Thieves Break Into Your House, Do These 5 Things Immediately To Secure Yourself

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In light of the recent economic downturn, some individuals with dishonest intentions have resorted to breaking into homes and stealing belongings, despite their claims of desperate need for food and money. To ensure your safety in the event of a burglary or armed robbery, here are six precautions you can take. I kindly request you to spare a moment from your busy schedule to read this valuable information.

1. If you suspect someone is attempting to break into your house or climb over your fence, it is crucial to turn off all lights. This includes the living room, dining area, and master bedroom. By doing so, you make it difficult for the intruder to locate or identify you from outside the premises, providing a significant advantage…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

2. It is essential to clarify that the following precautionary measure should not involve any form of yelling, as it might lead to misunderstandings. Instead, consider installing alarms in your home and vehicles, which can act as a strong deterrent against fraudulent activities or crimes.

3. In the case of a car with a longer range, you can utilize your key fob to trigger a sudden and unexpected horn honking. This unexpected reaction can catch the trespasser off guard and draw attention to your residence. If your car doesn’t have a long-range capability, the same can be done by using your key fob from a closer proximity.

4. Rather than panicking and shouting, it may be advantageous to observe the intruder cautiously from the safety of a window. By doing so, you can gather information and assess whether the individual is acting alone or as part of a group. This observation will assist you in devising a strategic plan and determining the opportune moment for any counterattack. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

5. As soon as possible, contact the police and provide them with all the pertinent details regarding the incident. While turning off the lights in your house is a wise initial step, it is equally important to promptly inform the authorities. Don’t wait until the trespasser is at your door demanding entry before seeking police assistance.

6. If you feel comfortable and it is safe to do so, turn off all lights to ensure that you remain unseen as you exit the house at night. This will help shield you from the intruder’s line of sight. If you have a discreet exit route that offers the highest level of safety, utilize it. Remember, if your life is at stake, it’s preferable to sustain injuries while fighting for survival than to succumb to the attacker.

Please have it in mind that these six steps should never involve taking the law into your own hands. Instead, focus on finding a secure hiding place and wait for an opportunity to evade or protect yourself until law enforcement arrives to handle the situation appropriately.

 

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Dear Men, No Matter How much You Love Your Wife, Never Tell Her These 5 Secrets.

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Marriage is a wonderful marriage between a man and his wife; nevertheless, many people who married years ago have separated, whereas others are celebrating their marriage.

To be honest, there is still a mystery behind any successful marriage that hundreds of thousands of married individuals around the globe are unaware of.

Some people think that money is more important that holds a marriage together, but they are unaware that Chelsea legend Didier Drogba, Usher, Ben Stiller, and a slew of other millionaires are split, proving that fortune does not ensure a happy marriage…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

1. Flirting Partners

When a woman hears or sees her man flirt with other ladies, she becomes enraged and jealous. While it is often recommended for married men to avoid sexual relationships with other girls after marriage, this is correct, there seem to be times when married men inadvertently flirt with other girls, and if you don’t tell your wife about it, she will underreact or overthink because you’re spending so much time with other women. If you don’t inquire in the comments section, I’ll assume you don’t want to know.

2. Kinsey

Someone may try to argue with me on this, but the fact is that if your nest of kin isn’t your mom, she has every right to know whomever you want, so if you make her your nest of kin, as many people will advise, it would be too dangerous to tell her. If your family isn’t on the same page, she might lose interest for them and she won’t need their support for anything related to her marriage.

Second, declaring her your nest of kin clearly demonstrates your level of confidence, reverence, and affection for her; once she realizes this, she won’t be afraid of loosing you, resulting in any naughty behavior around the home. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

3. Bad Habits of Your Friend’s Wife

When men get together, they have a habit of sharing their marital problems, particularly those involving their wives, with their mates. Leaking these secrets to your wife could be a ticking time bomb, particularly if she knows who she is.

4. If You’re in Love With Her Sister

Even married men have crushes on attractive women, but telling your spouse’s siblings can result in something you don’t want to happens between the two of them.

5. Your Flaws (Optional)

This number five is optional, as mentioned above; it all depends on how much of the woman you’re married to. If you trust her not to use it against you, let her know before she unwittingly joins in all of them, but if you really don’t trust her, keep it to yourself.

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Man Who Crushed Baby To Death Said He ‘Felt Better’ After Stepping On Her –

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Daniel Ruiz, 25, was watching television and used his foot to crush a 1-year-old girl to death! He is now facing 25 years to life in prison.

What would make a man do such a thing?

Well, Ruiz was babysitting two children so his girlfriend Terra and a friend of hers named Andrea could go shopping.

Both of the children were Andrea’s. At some point during his adventure in babysitting, Ruiz felt that the women were taking advantage of him – so, he committed murder.

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According to reports, Ruiz (weighing in at a whopping 230 pounds) took his foot and pushed down on Scarlett’s chest – and he pushed down with all his weight.

Then Ruiz stood up and turned on the television as Scarlett struggled to breathe. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Scarlett appeared to be having a seizure, and so Ruiz decided to tap her on the cheek to try and wake her up.

When the women returned home, Ruiz ran out to tell them Scarlett needed to go to the hospital.

Andrea and Terra had been gone for less than an hour. Scarlett died a short time later at the hospital.

Ruiz didn’t admit to crushing the baby at first, but the autopsy revealed the cause of her death.

Lead Deputy District Attorney Kathleen DiDonato said that Ruiz told police he felt better after crushing the child.

This man needs to rot in jail for the rest of his miserable life.

 

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