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I asked to be removed from my parents’ will after overhearing my brothers’ conversation

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Growing up in a loving and close-knit family, I never imagined that a conversation I overheard would lead to a life-altering decision. As the youngest and only daughter, I was surrounded by my parents and two older brothers, Kyle and Dean. Our childhood was full of happy memories that I will cherish forever…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

Our parents recently gathered us around the dining table, and their eyes shone with pleasure as they announced their decision. They wanted me to inherit the family home. The weight of their comments astonished me, but what really surprised me were the veiled looks on my brothers’ faces. There was a tinge of animosity, a private joke or concern that they shared without telling me.

Later that night, unable to sleep, I overheard my brothers talking in the kitchen. My heart fell as I listened to their mocking, sarcastic conversation. They assumed that by inheriting the house, I would be burdened with caring for our aging parents while they partied and had fun.

Feeling severely upset and betrayed, I took a difficult decision. The next morning, I addressed my parents and begged them to remove me from the will totally. I did not want the house or any of the inheritance. I wanted to care for them because I loved them, not out of obligation.

In the coming months, I kept my promises and dedicated myself to caring for my parents. Despite their infirmities and frailty, I ensured they felt loved and supported. Little did I know that life would present me with other hurdles. Within a short period, I lost both of my parents, leaving me in a world without them.

As expected, my brothers inherited the family home. Unfortunately, tragedy struck when a fire devoured the house during a party they hosted. I learned about the horrific occurrence, and while I was relieved that my brothers were okay, I couldn’t help but think about the intangible things I had decided to protect.

While sorting through my parents’ stuff, I came across a little box that contained a beautiful jewel. To my astonishment, it was rated as a rare and precious gemstone. This surprise present from my parents reminded me of our love and memories together. My brothers acquired a tangible home, but I received a symbol of their presence and the true meaning of inheritance. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Looking back on my path, I often wonder if I made the correct decision in requesting my parents to remove me from the will. But when I see the gem gleaming brightly with vivid reflections, I realize that the true value of life is in the deeper relationships we form and the love we share with those who matter the most.

So, my readers, how would you handle a similar situation? Sometimes the true significance and value of things can be discovered in their affection and memories rather than their look.

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5 reasons why men always cheat

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Cheating occurs when one partner betrays the other’s confidence and violates the promise of emotional and sexual exclusivity with them.

Being betrayed by someone you love deeply can be painful. People who are defrauded suffer greatly.

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Though both men and women cheat, data show that men are more likely than women to admit to having affairs after marriage.

Cheating is a complicated behavior impacted by personal preferences, attitudes, and circumstances. It is critical to avoid drawing sweeping conclusions about any group based on the acts of a few.

Trust and faithfulness differ from person to person, although many people are dedicated to monogamous and faithful relationships.

POSSIBLE REASON WHY MEN CHEAT

Men betray because they are immature.

What leads a man to cheat? Or, why do husbands cheat? Their emotional development could be the reason.

“Males engage in extramarital affairs for a variety of reasons. In my professional experience, I’ve found a consistent trend of emotional immaturity among persons who engage in the emotional and physical parts of infidelity.

1- One of the reasons men cheat is a lack of maturity in investing the time, dedication, and energy necessary to deal through key issues in their marital relationship. Instead, these guys frequently choose to participate in behaviors that harm their significant others, families, and themselves.

2- Men tend to cheat when they feel inadequate. A nagging feeling of inadequacy is a crucial precursor to the desire to cheat. Men (and women) cheat when they feel inadequate.

Men who cheat regularly are individuals who have been conditioned to feel inferior to others. They want to find someone who treats them like a priority. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

3- Men feel ashamed of their desire for pleasure.

“Why do good husbands have affairs?” The answer may be – Shame.

The reason men have emotional affairs rather than physical ones is shame; this is why people cheat.

I understand that sounds odd and like a catch-22, yet many people feel ashamed after being discovered cheating. However, shame is frequently the motivator for dishonest activities.

4- Men occasionally have an intimacy disorder.

Why guys cheat and lie in relationships can be attributed to a deeper problem in their romantic lives.

When considering why men cheat on their wives, any signs that your partner is struggling with intimacy issues may be a red flag.

Men betray because they have an intimacy disorder, whether they do it online or in person.

5- Men cheat because they chose to.

Nothing “makes” guys cheat on their partners; men cheat because they want to.

Cheating is a decision. He will chose to do it or not.

Cheating is the result of unsolved conflicts, an unmet void, and a failure to fully commit to the relationship and his partner.

 

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How and Why “Unknown Soldiers” Attacked Fela’s Home, Kalakuta Republic, in 1977

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Kalakuta Republic was the home of the late musician and political activist, Fela Anikulapo Kuti. The commune, located at No. 6 Agege Motor Rd., Moshalashi, Lagos, enclosed Fela’s recording studio, nightclub and a private clinic which was operated by his younger brother, Beko Ransome-Kuti. The two‐storey yellow building also housed Fela’s family and band members…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

The name ‘Kalakuta‘ was a parody of Calcutta prison in India where Fela served a sentence in 1974 for possessing marijuana which many believed was politically motivated. Fela declared Kalakuta an independent republic from Nigeria due to his hatred for the then military government which he believed ruled Nigerians with dishonesty. Having a republic inside a republic did not go down well with the military government.

Military men outside Kalakuta republic
Military men outside Kalakuta Republic

Fela’s relationship with the military government deteriorated when he released a best-selling track titled ‘Zombie’ which mocked Nigerian soldiers. The song gained nationwide attention which angered the military government of Olusegun Obasanjo. A line of the song says, “Zombie no go walk unless you tell am to walk“, i.e., a zombie (fool) won’t walk unless commanded.

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Their already strained relationship got severed on a fateful day when two of Fela’s boys got in a heated argument with a military police officer for driving one of Fela’s vehicle which had no plate number at the front; this was on the 18th of February, 1977. Fela’s boys, identified as Segun Adams and Segun Ademola, argued that since there was a plate number at the back, they would not let the officer impound the vehicle.

Fela’s boys drove away as the argument got intense. Some military men chased them to Kalakuta Republic but were denied entrance. This infuriated the military men and they set fire to the generator that powered Kalakuta Republic and cut its electric fence as well, then called for back up to fully invade the commune.

Fela Kuti explaining a point to Mr. Justice Anya after the Kalakuta raid
Fela Kuti explaining a point to Mr. Justice Anya after the Kalakuta raid

Shortly after, about one thousand soldiers arrived with machine guns. Stampede ensued in Kalakuta Republic as the soldiers mercilessly beat its occupants including Fela and his brother. Fela’s brother, Beko, claimed they were almost killed during the attack. Women were beaten and molested. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Fela’s mother, Mrs. Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti was beaten and thrown from an upstairs window. She eventually died from the injuries she sustained during the attack. The soldiers set fire to the commune which razed to ashes in no time.

Fela being rushed to the hospital after he was beaten by soldiers
Fela being rushed to the hospital after he was beaten by soldiers

Properties worth millions of Naira were destroyed; most of Kalakuta’s 60 occupants were in the hospital and so were a number of innocent bystanders who ran past the flames with their arms held straight in the air, a gesture of surrender, but were clubbed anyway by drunken, red-eyed soldiers. It was indeed a horrible day for Fela and his family. People believed that Fela’s beef with the military government culminated in the attack on Kalakuta Republic.

Fela and band members during a dance rehearsal at Kalakuta Republic | TheNetNG
Fela and band members during a dance rehearsal at Kalakuta Republic

However, the Kutis did not let the military go away with their assault. They filed a N25 Million lawsuit against the Nigerian military. The Kutis’ lawyer, Mr Tunji Braithwaite, handled the case brilliantly but eventually lost to the military government on the ground that the soldiers who attacked Kalakuta Republic were unknown soldiers. Thus the case was dismissed!

Kalakuta Republic in ashes
Kalakuta Republic in ashes

An infuriated Fela who later lost his mother as a result of the attack carried a replica of her coffin to the Dodan military barracks and dropped it off. He later released a song titled ‘Coffin for Head of State’ in 1980 which narrated the attack on Kalakuta and the death of his mother.

Fela and his mother, Olufunmilayo Ransome-Kuti
Sad faces of Fela Kuti and his mother, Mrs. Olufunmilayo Ransome Kuti, during the probe on the Kalakuta attack

The military government of Olusegun Obasanjo revoked the Kutis’ Certificate of Occupancy of the commune. The site of the demolished Kalakuta Republic is now occupied by a school, named after Fela’s original surname: Ransome-Kuti Memorial Grammar School.

 

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How The People of Ara-Ekiti Committed Mass Suicide To Avoid Enslavement in 1855?

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As at 1850, Ara was one of the most powerful towns in Ekiti with a settlement spanning as big as that of Ijaye in Egbaland. In August 1855, the people of Ara (also called Ara-Ekiti) committed mass suicide to avoid getting enslaved by Ibadan.

The mass suicide was initiated by the leader of Ara town, Alara Elejofi, who (with the help of his first son) destroyed his properties, killed his family and himself. Many other households in the town replicated this act, and when the Ibadan army arrived with their wide array of weaponry, they turned back at the gory sight of dead bodies that littered the town…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

Earlier, the people of Ara had rebelled against their former Alara (ruler) because of his bad governance and the grevious offences he had committed against his townspeople. He was exiled. It was during his exile that Chief Elejofi took over the rulership of the town.

The exiled Alara was not willing to let go of his throne and thus sought help from Ibadan. His request was granted because Ibadan, which as at then was gradually filling the vacuum created by the fall of Oyo, was hungry for towns to shove under its administration. The Ibadan army had just returned from an expedition in Ijebu-Ere and with their help, the deposed Alara returned to Ara and was fearfully accepted.

Shortly after Ibadan restored the deposed Alara of Ara, its army attacked Ikoro, another town in Ekiti, because they prevented Ibadan army from foraging on their crops, and also because there were rumours that Ikoro was planning to attack the Ibadan army. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

During the attack on Ikoro, some other towns in Ekiti, including Ara-Ekiti, tried to defended Ikoro. The restored Alara prevented his townspeople from joining the fight against Ibadan, hence another unrest ensued in the town. Ibadan eventually defeated Ikoro and went ahead to punish the towns that helped Ikoro during the war, including Ara.

During this period, Chief Elejofi had again taken over the rulership of Ara and held on to it for some months before it eventually crumbled due to starvation, and to avoid being enslaved by Ibadan, the people of Ara-Ekiti committed an unprecedented mass suicide. This incident is quite similar to the mass suicide of Igbo slaves off the U.S. coast in 1803.

The town of Ara was left deserted for many years before some of its exiled descendants returned home. Ara suicide remains one of the most disturbing chapters in the history of Ekiti and the entire Yoruba land.

 

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