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May Edochie’s Lawyer Slams Yul Edochie’s Views On Walking Away From Marriage

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An accusation has been made against Yul Edochie by May Edochie’s lawyer.

This followed actor Yul Edochie’s viral statement about walking out of marriage.

Yul had claimed that marriage shouldn’t be a do-or-die affair and one should easily walk out when they are no longer interested.

He had said:

“Marriage is not a do or die thing. No! It could work. If you see it’s not working, walk away. Respectfully. You don’t have to hurt each other, you don’t have to…Once you walk away and you see the next person you want to marry, marry. If it doesn’t work again, go. See another one again, marry. You can marry fifty times. You can’t control how people react towards you. What makes me happy is different from what makes is going to make you happy and do not let anyone tell you do this and it will be good for you. No! Find out what works for you. And if you decide in this life that you will not marry till you die, please don’t marry. Be happy”

May Edochie’s lawyer tackled his view, noting that marriage isn’t a beer parlor arrangement but an institution created by law. Its dissolution equally takes some certain laid down procedures.

He remarked that in the case of Yul Edochie, he didn’t walk out of the marriage, but had brought in another wife, to fit his image as a ‘proud polygamist’.

May Edochie’s lawyer wrote …

“YUL EDOCHIE IS AGAIN WRONG: WHEN YOU NO LONGER LIKE YOUR MARRIAGE, YOU DON’T JUST WALK AWAY. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Yul Edochie’s recent interview has been generating attention on social media. In it, he said as follows:

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“If Your Marriage Is Not Working, Walk Away And Marry Someone Else; If The New Marriage Still Doesn’t Work, Walk Away. You Can Marry Up To 50 Times” — Yul Edochie

But he is doubly wrong on this. First, this was not what he did in respect of his marriage to Queen May. He didn’t walk away with an intent to end his marriage with May. Instead, he wanted to add a second wife and remain married to May as “a proud polygamist”. So, one wonders when Yul came upon the theory he is now bandying about.

Second, Yul is wrong because what you do when you are no longer interested in your marriage is not to walk away. Rather, you take steps to properly end such a marriage. Marriage is not a beer parlour where you can just walk in or walk out. It is an institution created by law. As an institution, it takes legal ceremonies to create a marriage, which then transform into a family. Also, marriage results in many cases, including his, children could be born to the marriage and marital properties jointly acquired by husband and wife during the marriage. So, when you want to end your marriage, you should take steps to undo the first legal ceremony that created the marriage through another legal ceremony that dissolves it. Also, you ought to address issues of the custody of children, access to the children, maintenance of the children and the sharing of the marital properties.

Having your so-called second wife spread lies and falsehood against your wife in order to tarnish her image and isolate her from society is not “walking away”. It is a dumb and wicket act.

So, in his recent interview, Yul, again disappointed all those who once saw him as an intelligent person. They need to remind him that what he said on the interview was not what he did, and tell him that no reasonable person can just walk away from his family. It is the height of irresponsibility to try to walk away from a marriage without caring about the children or by trying to force your wife into a polygamy. Besides, he needs to be reminded that he can’t “marry someone else” until he has divorced the first wife.”

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The Full Story Of The Rivalry Between Fuji Icons Barrister And Kollington

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Those who grew up in the 1990s with songs from Tupac and Biggie would think music rivalry started with ‘Get Money’ and ‘Hit em all’, but for old school peeps, the rivalry between the two fuji musical taliban, Sikiru Ayinde Barrister and Ayinla Kollington, supersedes that of the former duo in a thousand times.

Barrister and Kollington took rivalry a higher level. Before them, people had speculated that there were some rivalry between Juju musical icons, Chief commander Ebenezer Obey and King Sunny Ade, but that was just a light and fun catching competition and neither did both of them dish out insults in the open…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

But Kebe n Kwara (Ayinla Kollington) and Alhaji Agba (Sikiru Ayinde Barrister) threw tantrums in well woven musical lines that sent fans wild in the dancing square. They battled for years, decades, their rivalry stoked in part by fans, rumors, banters and controversial recordings, especially by Kollington.

Rahman, a diehard fan of fuji music wrote: “There was no other place this battle was more vicious than in my parents living room. You see, my Dad was a diehard Kollington fan, while my Mum loved Barrister to pieces. So as a child, I grew up listening to music from both of them and learnt the songs whether I wanted to or not. I had no choice in the matter. Whenever my Dad was home, we listened and danced to Kollington. When he went to work or traveled, Barristers music ruled the household.

Somehow, I took a liking to Barristers blend of Fuji music. I felt he was more philosophical, poetic and matured in his rendition. Kollington on the other hand was more expressive, vulgar but also more entertaining. His brand of music was more danceable and more of alujo in delivery, I think. Their styles was also reflected in the manner they named their albums.

A few examples: For Barrister, there was Barry @40, Fuji Funky, Fuji Garbage Series, Barry Wonder, and New Dimension. For Kollington: Fuji Ropopo, Ijo Yoyo, Fuji Megastar & American Yankee”.

At the peak of their (Barrister and Kollington) supremacy battle, Barrister, consistent with his style, was always diplomatic in his responses to Kollington. Kollington, on the other hand, couldn’t care less. Tact was not one of his strong points. He let Barrister have it at every given opportunity. Although, neither of them ever used the others name in their fights, it was very obvious to keen observers and Fuji aficionados who Kollington was talking to.
They battled over everything; who went on tour first? Who made it to the USA first?
Who slept with whom first? Everything! And one could tell what the latest bone of contention was. If it was not reflected in the latest album title, you don’t have to listen to more than 5 minutes into the new album to figure it out.

Ayinla Kollington
Ayinla Kollington

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Traveling Overseas on Tour:

Barrister beat Kollington to this one. He went on tour of the Europe and the US long before Kollington. But Kollington wasn’t going to allow him any victory party because of that. He promptly released an album and said: Ile yi la o ti la o (We will become wealthy in this land) X 2ce
Mosalasi won ti ni ko nibii re (The mosque doesn’t have to go anywhere to get filled)
Ile yi la o ti la o (We will become wealthy in this land)

However, when Kollington eventually secured VISAS and a sponsor for his overseas tour, he forgot what he said about not having to travel overseas to become wealthy and quickly picked on a part of his rivals American Tour welcome album and used it to spite him.

Also, Barrister had sung about one of his drummers getting lost in Atlanta:
Nigbati a wa Ballinger titi ni Atlanta, taori Ballinger, opelope body pass tomu dani, loje ka foju kan Ballinger. Paraphrased (But for the body pass that Ballinger had with him in Atlanta, it would have been very difficult to locate him when he got lost)
What was Kollington’s response?
Ko ma seni to soonu ninu wa
Ko mama se ni to soonu ninu wa o
Eja ka wo ran niwon se o
Eja ka wo ran niwon tori ti aba rajo
Ko ma seni to sonu ninu wa
Paraphrased (None of my band members got lost on tour. Never allow yourself to be carried away by sights when you are on a trip)

Titles & Aliases

This particular battle is still on and will keep going on forever. When Barrister visited Disney World, Orlando, Florida in the early 80s, he came back home and released an album, singing about all the wonderful things he saw over there. After the album, the management of Disney World saw an influx of Nigerian tourists at their resort and wondered why. They later learnt it was because of a song the people had heard back home about Disney world. This eventually led to a university in Orlando honoring Barrister with an honorary doctorate degree in Music. That was how Barrister became Dr. Sikiru Ayinde Barrister.
Not one to be left out, Kollington quickly took on the alias Professor Master after he returned from his trip to the US. However, no one knew how he got that title.
Over the years, they both have taken on several aliases and titles.

Kollington was at a time General Kollington, a title bestowed on him by the military president Ibrahim Babangida after he sang about and created awareness for the Census. Barrister has been Alhaji Agba, Mr Fuji, Barry Wonder, Legend and he is not through yet.

Sikiru Ayinde Barrister
Sikiru Ayinde Barrister

Who Originated Fuji Music Between Barrister and Kollington?

This is a battle that will outlive both of them. In fact, at moment, practitioners in the Fuji music industry are divided into two camps: those who believe Barrister founded Fuji music and the others.

Barrister claimed that he evolved and modernized Fuji music, from were music in the early 70s. He once said that he came up with the name Fuji when he saw a poster at an airport advertising Mount Fuji, the highest peak in Japan. Kollington has another story of how Fuji started and it is completely different from Barrister’s account.

 

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HOT NEWS: Detective Sergeant Mabatho Siqwele Sent To Life Imprisonment Over Rape In Ladybrand Case

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In a landmark case, Detective Sergeant Mabatho Siqwele of the Ladybrand Family Violence, Child Protection, and Sexual Offences (FCS) Unit successfully secured a life sentence for Thabiso Lilele (34), convicted of raping a 13-year-old girl. The incident occurred in Manyatseng, near Ladybrand, in the Free State.

The attack took place in 2022, when the victim, a resident of Manyatseng, was assaulted by Lilele, a known community member. Following the crime, the victim bravely came forward, which led to an intensive investigation by Siqwele…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

Detective Sergeant Siqwele’s thorough investigative work and dedication were instrumental in bringing Lilele to justice. The case was brought to trial in the Ladybrand Magistrate’s Court, where Lilele was found guilty and handed a life sentence. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Siqwele, a long-serving member of the FCS Unit, expressed satisfaction with the outcome, emphasizing the importance of protecting vulnerable members of society, especially women and children. The conviction is seen as a victory for justice and a step forward in tackling the growing issue of gender-based violence in South Africa.

Community leaders and citizens of Ladybrand have praised the work of the FCS Unit, hailing it as a message that justice will be served.

 

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5 Fabulous Things you Didn’t Know About Chrissy Teigen

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If you’re on social media, you probably follow model, actress, mom, and superstar wife to John Legend, Chrissy Teigen. She’s beautiful, she’s bold and she’s the queen of the Twitter clapback. Here are 5 surprising facts you might not know about one of our favorite funny girls.

1. She met John on the set of his music video.
The gorgeous couple first laid eyes on each other behind-the-scenes of John’s music video shoot for his single ‘Stereo.’ Chrissy reportedly walked into the musician’s dressing room to find him ironing his shirt in his underwear. Her first words to him were, “You do your own ironing?” They caught a bite after the shoot and the rest, as they say, is history.

2. She wanted to be a teacher.
Before she was discovered working at a surf shop in California, the beauty had dreams of becoming a school teacher or a chef. Even today, Teigen takes issue with her A-list model status, claiming; “I still have trouble calling myself a model. I just never thought I was tall enough or skinny enough.”

3. She is a best-selling author.
If there is one thing that Chrissy Teigen fans all know, it’s that she is utterly obsessed with food. Her Snapchat channel is basically dedicated solely to sharing a behind-the-scenes look at her whipping up the most mouth-watering dishes. Her cookbook, Cravings, which features her favorite recipes, made it on to the New York Time’s Bestseller’s List.
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4. She had post-partum depression.
The model mum has always been known for candidness. She got real about her post-pregnancy battle with depression in a recent essay she penned for Glamour magazine. Fans praised the star for openly acknowledging her struggles surrounding the seemingly taboo topic.

5. She’s a meme.
Teigen’s social media presence is massive. With almost 10 million Twitter followers, her fans are always thrilled by her cheeky, relatable and often hilarious personal content. She has become a meme-worthy celeb, spawning major memes of her reactions at award shows as well as her taking a memorable nap at last year’s Oscars. Never change, girl!

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