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One Night I went Through My Husband Phone, What I Saw Left Me In Tears –

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When you know someone for as long as you’ve known my husband, you are sure to understand what makes them tick. You recognize when they’re hiding secrets and notice the subtle changes in their breathing. After fourteen years together, if I didn’t know the little things that made him the man I married, do I really love him? That’s why I could always tell when he was up to something suspicious. A slight change in his demeanor would concern me.

The first time I noticed a change in him was after four years together, before we were married. The change was subtle, and I could have missed it if I wasn’t attentive. He was still the loving and caring boyfriend I had always known, but something was different. I couldn’t pinpoint it. I didn’t see anything suspicious to direct me, so I remained silent until something happened one day.

He called me, sounding distressed. That’s one of the things that made me fall in love with him. William is an open book, not someone who hides his emotions. He was almost in tears when I asked him what was wrong. “I have been transferred from Accra to work in another region.” They didn’t give him enough time to prepare for the transfer, demanding he move as soon as possible. He was distraught about leaving his life here and moving to a new town.

I comforted him and promised to visit him the next day. When I got there, I found two used condoms in his room. I wasn’t even looking for them. I had just gone to offer my man some comfort. When I asked him about it, he didn’t lie. He admitted he had a girl over the previous night and they ended up having sex. My heart was shattered. You should see him. He doesn’t look like the kind of man who would cheat. The way he treats me, I was sure I was his world. That’s why it hurt so badly. The trust I had in him was broken. I cannot stand to share my man with another woman. So, I broke up with him there and then. He was a mess, and so was I. “Forgive me,” he begged, “If you give me one more chance, I won’t do anything like this again.” I thought about his apology but more about his betrayal. Then I shook my head and said, “No, I can’t forgive this.”

He involved both our families. They all told me, “Sometimes these things happen. He didn’t do well but his transfer has badly affected him. If you leave him now, he will be miserable. Find it in your heart to forgive him.” It took months before I finally let go of the hurt and got back together with him. Before I agreed to give him another chance, I asked for the other lady’s number, and he gave it to me. I called her and introduced myself as William’s woman.

As soon as she heard my name, she said, “Oh it’s so good to finally talk to you. I have heard so much about you. Your boyfriend and I are very good friends.” I was surprised she even knew about me. She told me many things she had heard about me, even where I worked. So I asked her, “If you knew all this, then why did you sleep with him?” All of a sudden, her tone changed. She got aggressive and denied everything. At the end of the conversation, she promised to keep her distance from him. Truly, I didn’t see any sign of her in his life after that. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

In our sixth year together, we got married and started our lives together officially. William continued to be the amazing man I married until after I had our firstborn. All of a sudden, I sensed a change in him. It was subtle, but I knew him too well not to notice. One night I went through his phone and stumbled upon his WhatsApp chat with this same lady from our past. They were exchanging flirtatious messages. She initiated the conversation, asking if he hadn’t missed her after all these years. Then she followed up with a photo of her naked breasts. Instead of my husband shutting the conversation down, he indulged her. From the chat, I could tell they had met and done things to each other.

Things I didn’t expect him to do with another woman. I was shaking while the phone was still in my hand. At some point, I couldn’t see past the tears in my eyes. I confronted him about it, and he didn’t deny it. I told him, “I forgave you the last time but not this time. I am done.” I took our child to my aunt, packed some stuff, and went to live with a friend. I didn’t breathe a word of his adulterous ways to my family. One thing I learned is that if your partner hurts you and you tell your family, you may forgive them later, but your family may not. So, I reported him to his mother.

She is a marriage counsellor. I also have a good relationship with her, so it was easier to talk to her. She was just as disappointed as I was. She even took the other lady’s number and spoke to her. She asked the girl if there was anything binding her to my husband that after all these years, they wouldn’t let each other go. The girl said there was nothing. “Not even a child?” The lady said no. My mother-in-law advised her as she would a daughter. “No matter what you do, my son is married. So leave him and find your own man.” Although the lady agreed, I still wasn’t ready to return to the marriage.

My husband had to go to my best friend’s father, a man I highly respect, and asked him to talk to me. That was when I agreed to give him one last chance. Eight years of marriage and two kids later, I found out recently that my husband is still talking to this lady. I asked him, “What at all is it about this girl that you won’t let her go? You tell me you are done with her, only to turn around and go back to her.” Do you two have a child together? If that’s the case, it would make sense.” He couldn’t give me any answers. I feel so disrespected. I have noticed that the girl is not married.

That’s another one of my concerns. A single woman can go about sleeping with anyone and then sleep with my husband. If she gives him an STD, I am the innocent woman who will end up catching it. He is a selfless man. Our kids are crazy about him because he is a great dad. He is loving and everything good you could find in a partner. My only problem with him is his long-term affair with this side chick of his. The first time I caught them was ten years ago, yet she is still in the picture.

I know some women would say, if this is his only flaw, I should turn a blind eye, but I can’t share my man with anyone. So, I am preparing to inform his mother that my people will return their drinks soon. I am not looking for her to counsel me to reconsider my decision to leave him. Because of my relationship with her, I wouldn’t want her to find out about the dissolution of our marriage from my family first. In the meantime, I want to ask my fellow readers here, what would make a married man keep going back to the same side chick for ten years? That’s what I want to understand. He claims he doesn’t love her, but she is a constant problem in our marriage. Why risk everything you don’t want to lose for someone you say you don’t want?

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China Secretly Fueling Putin’s War Machine Through Hidden Shell Companies, Expert Reveals –

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China is secretly helping Russia get weapons by using fake companies to hide the deals, according to an expert named Stefan Bejan from Watchdog Moldova. He says China plays a big part in making sure Russia keeps getting the arms it needs to continue its war in Ukraine. Instead of sending weapons directly, China uses other companies to cover up what’s really going on. These companies ship drones and other military equipment to Russia, helping them get around international sanctions meant to stop the war.

Bejan explained how the money and weapons move. It starts with Promsvyazbank, which is the main bank supporting Russia’s military. Money from this bank is sent through a payment platform called A7. A7 is partly owned by Ilan Shor, a businessman with strong ties to helping Russia avoid sanctions. After that, the money goes into accounts at Capital Bank of Central Asia. There, it is turned into other currencies like Chinese yuan or US dollars. Then, it flows through fake companies and is used to buy weapons from Chinese businesses.

Even though China, under President Xi Jinping, officially denies helping Russia, Bejan believes Chinese leaders know exactly what is happening. China is careful not to sell arms directly to Russia. Instead, it uses third-party companies to create a layer of distance, giving it “plausible deniability” — meaning it can claim it’s not involved if caught. This setup reflects the close relationship between Russia and China, which both countries have described as a “limitless friendship.”

Bejan also said China is careful because it doesn’t want to face “secondary sanctions” from Western countries. These sanctions could hurt China’s economy if it is seen as openly helping Russia. That’s why China makes it look like the weapon sales are just private business deals, not government support. Still, China is providing Russia with important help, including technology, economic aid, and, as these findings show, weapons.

The trick of using shell companies and intermediaries makes it very hard for Western countries to directly stop these deals. However, Bejan believes that regulators around the world will start paying closer attention. He expects more sanctions will come, especially targeting the banks and companies involved in Central Asia.

Bejan explained that these hidden financial operations are one of the reasons Russia can keep fighting in Ukraine. Even though sanctions have hurt Russia’s economy and military, these secret money and arms channels keep them going. He warned that unless these operations are shut down, the war could continue for a very long time. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

A key player in this scheme is Ilan Shor, who owns part of A7 and is currently living in Moscow. He is already under sanctions by the US, UK, and EU. Shor has strong connections with political leaders in both Russia and Moldova, making him an important figure in keeping these operations running smoothly — and he profits from them.

Beyond Russia’s war, these secret financial moves could also impact nearby countries like Moldova, which borders Ukraine. Bejan warned that some of the money moving through these networks could end up funding pro-Russian political campaigns in Moldova, which would create even more instability, especially with upcoming elections there.

In the bigger picture, Bejan said the arms shipments are just one part of a larger web of financial and political cooperation between Russia and China. As the war in Ukraine drags on, he stressed that the West must work harder to disrupt these secret deals to avoid further chaos.

His warning adds to growing fears about China’s true role in the Ukraine conflict. Although China claims it is neutral, its actions tell a different story. As Russia and China grow even closer, the world will have to watch their alliance carefully, especially to see how it might affect the war and global stability in the future.

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Leaked Video Exposes Russian Commander Forcing Soldiers into Fight to the Death in War Punishment Pit –

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A disturbing video has surfaced online, supposedly showing a Russian commander forcing two of his own soldiers to fight each other to the death. This happened after the soldiers refused to join the war in Ukraine. The shocking scene is believed to have taken place in the Donbas region, which is under Russian control. The footage, though not yet verified, has spread across Russian social media and has shocked many viewers.

The commander, known only by his nickname “Kama,” reportedly made the two men fight in what he called a “gladiator-style battle.” According to reports, he told them that whoever won the fight would be set free. Fellow officers from their military unit, the 114th Motorised Rifle Brigade, are said to have placed bets on who would survive. A witness claimed that one of the soldiers ended up killing the other by choking him with his bare hands.

Both of the men had apparently refused to follow orders to fight in the war, which is why they were punished. Russian sources call such soldiers “refuseniks.” It’s believed that soldiers who resist or try to escape their duties are being locked up in underground pits, known as “punishment pits” or “zindans.” This brutal punishment is said to be happening more often, especially in army units that have lost many men during battles in the Donetsk area.

People on Russian social media reacted with horror after watching the video. One person commented that while it’s better for Russian soldiers to fight each other than to harm Ukrainians, the situation is still extremely disturbing and shows just how brutal the Russian army has become. Another user said this kind of cruelty isn’t rare in the Russian military and that without proper investigations, their justice system is meaningless.

One of the most alarming parts of the story is that these punishments are not new. Human rights groups and Russian journalists have already reported cases of beatings, mock killings, and torture being used against Russian soldiers who don’t obey orders. Many of these soldiers are imprisoned in basements or cages without a trial, sometimes for weeks, given barely any food or water. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

A lot of the soldiers in these units are either former prisoners, people forced into military service, or untrained volunteers from poor areas of Russia. These groups have suffered heavy losses in the war, especially during Russia’s large-scale attacks on strong Ukrainian defenses. This strategy, where poorly equipped troops are sent forward in huge numbers, has been called a “meatgrinder” by war analysts.

One recent example is the battle in Avdiivka, where thousands of Russian troops died just to gain a small amount of land. Now, a similar situation is starting near Chasiv Yar. These risky and costly operations are often led by lower-ranking commanders like Kama, who are allowed to use any method they want to keep soldiers under control, even if it means using fear or violence.

The Russian government has not responded to this video or the growing reports of illegal punishments in its army. Investigations into these kinds of abuses rarely happen, and the commanders responsible are almost never punished. Without outside pressure or public attention, such brutal treatment is likely to continue unchecked.

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Donald Trump leaves people baffled after seemingly taking credit for historical event and claiming he ‘invented’ common word –

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Donald Trump has once again left people scratching their heads after making two strange and surprising claims within a single day. First, he seemed to take some credit for the historic election of Pope Leo XIV, the first American to become Pope. Then, in an unrelated moment, he oddly claimed that he invented the word “equalize,” despite the word being centuries old.

After the recent death of Pope Francis, Cardinal Robert Francis Prevost was chosen as the new Pope, taking the name Pope Leo XIV. In response, Trump posted on his social media platform, Truth Social, congratulating the new Pope and saying it was “a great honor” for the United States. He even said he was looking forward to meeting Pope Leo, calling it a “very meaningful moment.”

But what really raised eyebrows was Trump’s follow-up message, where he implied that he somehow influenced the Pope’s election. He mocked ABC News journalist Martha Raddatz, accusing her of being “Trump-deranged” for suggesting he had nothing to do with the Pope’s rise. Trump argued that since he had won the Catholic vote by a large margin, his popularity may have played a role in Pope Leo’s appointment—though he gave no evidence for such a claim.

Then, during a White House press event about prescription drug pricing, Trump made another bizarre statement. While explaining how his plan would make Americans pay similar prices to those in other countries, he said, “Basically what we’re doing is equalizing. It’s a new word that I came up with… We’re gonna equalize.” He claimed it was the “best word” to describe the situation, seemingly unaware that “equalize” has been in the English language for over 400 years. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

The word “equalize” actually dates back to at least the year 1599, according to dictionaries. It has been used in everyday speech, literature, and even pop culture  like the 1980s TV series The Equalizer long before Trump was in office.

Social media users didn’t hold back their reactions. One person joked, “There was a TV show in the 80s named The Equalizer. Did he invent the word in 1983 and is just reminiscing?” Another commented, “If he made it up, how does everyone already know what it means?” And a third mocked the claim by saying, “Horses**t a word I just came up with, never used by anyone ever!”

While Trump’s supporters often appreciate his confidence and boldness, these latest claims have once again sparked laughter, disbelief, and plenty of memes online.

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