I really need an advice. I’m not married but I have a child with a man based in Europe. We have been in a relationship known to our people. Our journey has been rough but we are still pushing. Why are we not married? Anytime I bring up the topic, he says he is scared that I don’t obey or listen to him. That I always want my will to be done and he feels we have not gotten to where we can marry with this attitude. Truly, I can be stubborn, especially when I know his suggestion won’t work and in almost all the time, my suggestion works…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

He recently applied for family reunion visa for me to join him with our child and the visa was approved. I will be moving in October. He wants us to live together but I declined that I won’t cohabit. I have made plans for my accommodation and he is aware.

The reason why I’m here is that I want the relationship to work but he has been distant emotionally with me. We don’t talk often anymore, just once a week. It feels like it’s only our child that is keeping us. I have asked him if all is well with us and he said yes, only that he does not want to be fighting or arguing with me anymore. I feel bad and I want to put the effort to make it work. How do I go about this READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>