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He Traveled Abroad And Came Back With A Baby –

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I had completed SHS and was still figuring out what to do with my life when I met him. Before him, my future looked very bleak. I had dreams. I had big plans. But I didn’t have the push I needed to execute them. He gave me that push.

He was the one who gave me money to buy tertiary school forms. When I gained admission he said, “Don’t worry about your school fees. I will take care of it.” I couldn’t believe that someone who was only my boyfriend was willing to invest so much into my future, but he was serious. Before I went to school, he sat me down one night and told me he had a baby with one of his secondary schoolmates. “I have nothing to do with the mother of the child, but I want you to be part of the baby’s life…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

I was surprised that he kept something this big from him since I met him in 2010 till 2011, but I didn’t make an issue out of it. I understood him and tried to involve myself in the child’s life. I got in touch with his baby mama and we started talking. When the child needed something, she would tell me and I would collect the money from my boyfriend for her.

This arrangement worked perfectly for us. Then I went to school and everything continued to flow smoothly. He paid my school fees, and hostel fees, and made sure I never lacked anything. Along the line, he got the opportunity to travel outside Ghana. It was difficult for me to agree to let him go, but I had to. “However long you will be gone for,” I will wait for you.

He also made a lot of promises to me before he left. He kept his promise. He continued to take care of me. And we kept in touch. It wasn’t easy to maintain our unbridled passion because of the distance but we fought and made it work. After three years overseas, he decided to come back home. I met him at the airport the day he arrived. It was all fun and nostalgic. I couldn’t believe that after all these years, he was back in my arms. We spent the first few days catching up and making up for lost time. On the third day, I was going through pictures on his phone when I saw a photo of a newborn baby.

I ignored it and kept on scrolling, but I kept seeing more of the baby’s photos. He even had a video of when the baby’s navel was removed. That was when I knew something wasn’t right. I closed the photos app and dived into his WhatsApp chats. It was then I came across a chat between him and a lady. She was telling him that the baby could now touch something.

I kept on scrolling and saw more conversations about the baby. Some had to do with money. I deduced from their chat the lady lived in Ghana. So I took her number and called her. I introduced myself as my boyfriend’s sister. I told her, “Mike gave your number to me to call you. I’m just checking up on you because he is not in town. In due time I will come and visit you.” We had a lengthy chat that day. She confirmed that the baby was Mike’s. They met overseas and got together. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

And when she got pregnant, he persuaded her to move back to Ghana and have the baby. The baby was three months old and the naming ceremony was already done at the time we spoke. I didn’t ask Mike about any of it until the lady told him that his sister called.

He knew then that I was the one. He actually got angry at me and accused me of planning evil against him. He then called the lady, insulted her, and warned her never to call him again. After his outburst, he stepped out and came home later in the evening.

He was calm and started explaining himself to me. He said it was a mistake. He didn’t plan for things to go that way. He said he was sorry. Then he took my phone and deleted the lady’s number. “You have nothing to worry about. Her parents have even warned her not to marry me so it’s a win-win.” He never went to see the baby.

I told him countless times to go and see his son but he didn’t do it before he left Ghana again. He said they planned that when the baby is a year old, she should leave him with her mother so he would sponsor her to return abroad. Mike still keeps in touch with me.

Nothing has changed between us. He is still the same man I fell in love with in 2010. However, I feel insecure right now. When I hear about the lady and the baby, all I think about is the pain his betrayal caused me. I don’t think I can be with him anymore. The fact that he is over there and I am here does not put my mind at ease at all. What should I do, please?

 

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If Thieves Break Into Your House, Do These 5 Things Immediately To Secure Yourself

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In light of the recent economic downturn, some individuals with dishonest intentions have resorted to breaking into homes and stealing belongings, despite their claims of desperate need for food and money. To ensure your safety in the event of a burglary or armed robbery, here are six precautions you can take. I kindly request you to spare a moment from your busy schedule to read this valuable information.

1. If you suspect someone is attempting to break into your house or climb over your fence, it is crucial to turn off all lights. This includes the living room, dining area, and master bedroom. By doing so, you make it difficult for the intruder to locate or identify you from outside the premises, providing a significant advantage…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

2. It is essential to clarify that the following precautionary measure should not involve any form of yelling, as it might lead to misunderstandings. Instead, consider installing alarms in your home and vehicles, which can act as a strong deterrent against fraudulent activities or crimes.

3. In the case of a car with a longer range, you can utilize your key fob to trigger a sudden and unexpected horn honking. This unexpected reaction can catch the trespasser off guard and draw attention to your residence. If your car doesn’t have a long-range capability, the same can be done by using your key fob from a closer proximity.

4. Rather than panicking and shouting, it may be advantageous to observe the intruder cautiously from the safety of a window. By doing so, you can gather information and assess whether the individual is acting alone or as part of a group. This observation will assist you in devising a strategic plan and determining the opportune moment for any counterattack. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

5. As soon as possible, contact the police and provide them with all the pertinent details regarding the incident. While turning off the lights in your house is a wise initial step, it is equally important to promptly inform the authorities. Don’t wait until the trespasser is at your door demanding entry before seeking police assistance.

6. If you feel comfortable and it is safe to do so, turn off all lights to ensure that you remain unseen as you exit the house at night. This will help shield you from the intruder’s line of sight. If you have a discreet exit route that offers the highest level of safety, utilize it. Remember, if your life is at stake, it’s preferable to sustain injuries while fighting for survival than to succumb to the attacker.

Please have it in mind that these six steps should never involve taking the law into your own hands. Instead, focus on finding a secure hiding place and wait for an opportunity to evade or protect yourself until law enforcement arrives to handle the situation appropriately.

 

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Dear Men, No Matter How much You Love Your Wife, Never Tell Her These 5 Secrets.

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Marriage is a wonderful marriage between a man and his wife; nevertheless, many people who married years ago have separated, whereas others are celebrating their marriage.

To be honest, there is still a mystery behind any successful marriage that hundreds of thousands of married individuals around the globe are unaware of.

Some people think that money is more important that holds a marriage together, but they are unaware that Chelsea legend Didier Drogba, Usher, Ben Stiller, and a slew of other millionaires are split, proving that fortune does not ensure a happy marriage…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

1. Flirting Partners

When a woman hears or sees her man flirt with other ladies, she becomes enraged and jealous. While it is often recommended for married men to avoid sexual relationships with other girls after marriage, this is correct, there seem to be times when married men inadvertently flirt with other girls, and if you don’t tell your wife about it, she will underreact or overthink because you’re spending so much time with other women. If you don’t inquire in the comments section, I’ll assume you don’t want to know.

2. Kinsey

Someone may try to argue with me on this, but the fact is that if your nest of kin isn’t your mom, she has every right to know whomever you want, so if you make her your nest of kin, as many people will advise, it would be too dangerous to tell her. If your family isn’t on the same page, she might lose interest for them and she won’t need their support for anything related to her marriage.

Second, declaring her your nest of kin clearly demonstrates your level of confidence, reverence, and affection for her; once she realizes this, she won’t be afraid of loosing you, resulting in any naughty behavior around the home. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

3. Bad Habits of Your Friend’s Wife

When men get together, they have a habit of sharing their marital problems, particularly those involving their wives, with their mates. Leaking these secrets to your wife could be a ticking time bomb, particularly if she knows who she is.

4. If You’re in Love With Her Sister

Even married men have crushes on attractive women, but telling your spouse’s siblings can result in something you don’t want to happens between the two of them.

5. Your Flaws (Optional)

This number five is optional, as mentioned above; it all depends on how much of the woman you’re married to. If you trust her not to use it against you, let her know before she unwittingly joins in all of them, but if you really don’t trust her, keep it to yourself.

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Man Who Crushed Baby To Death Said He ‘Felt Better’ After Stepping On Her –

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Daniel Ruiz, 25, was watching television and used his foot to crush a 1-year-old girl to death! He is now facing 25 years to life in prison.

What would make a man do such a thing?

Well, Ruiz was babysitting two children so his girlfriend Terra and a friend of hers named Andrea could go shopping.

Both of the children were Andrea’s. At some point during his adventure in babysitting, Ruiz felt that the women were taking advantage of him – so, he committed murder.

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According to reports, Ruiz (weighing in at a whopping 230 pounds) took his foot and pushed down on Scarlett’s chest – and he pushed down with all his weight.

Then Ruiz stood up and turned on the television as Scarlett struggled to breathe. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Scarlett appeared to be having a seizure, and so Ruiz decided to tap her on the cheek to try and wake her up.

When the women returned home, Ruiz ran out to tell them Scarlett needed to go to the hospital.

Andrea and Terra had been gone for less than an hour. Scarlett died a short time later at the hospital.

Ruiz didn’t admit to crushing the baby at first, but the autopsy revealed the cause of her death.

Lead Deputy District Attorney Kathleen DiDonato said that Ruiz told police he felt better after crushing the child.

This man needs to rot in jail for the rest of his miserable life.

 

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