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I Found Out From My Child That My Husband Knows About My Other Man –

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After the birth of our second child, my husband fell sick. It was really bad. I feared we were going to lose him until we went to the hospital. The doctors stabilized him, ran some tests, and then discussed their diagnosis with me.

Your husband has depression and high blood pressure,” they declared. They assured us that he would be fine as long as he took his medications regularly. He was given a diet plan to manage the pressure. With time, he got better as the doctors assured us…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

 

I was ready for us to resume our marriage until I found out something was off about him. This man used to pounce on me at the slightest chance he got. That’s how passionate our love life was. We were always all over each other. All of that disappeared after his recovery. He started acting as if I wasn’t an attractive woman living with him.

I would undress before him but he wouldn’t be moved. It was painful for me to admit that my husband was losing interest in me sexually but that was the case. I reported the change to our doctors and they said, “It’s a side effect of his medications. It happens sometimes but don’t let it get to you. Eventually, he will return to the way he was.

They are the experts so I trusted them. I was filled with hope that things would get better but they only got worse. No matter how understanding I wanted to be, I am also a woman with needs. The sexual starvation got to me. I was doing my best to wait but how long could I wait? When it became too unbearable for me I had a conversation with my husband about my frustrations. With nonchalance, he said, “If you want it that bad then make the move.

I will do my best to meet you halfway.” It was something. Something that gave me hope. The first time I initiated intimacy, he rose to the occasion as promised. I was so happy until I wasn’t. The man who used to pound me into satisfaction now could not last beyond one minute.

I know some men finish fast during the first round, but when you get them going again they take you home during the second round. Unfortunately, my husband’s situation is nothing like that. The moment he is done with those few seconds of performance, there’s no rematch. He just gets up and goes about his business or nods off to sleep. It’s been like this with him for the past nine years.

I suffered a lot when it all began. I tried to make lemonade out of the lemons life dealt me. I told my husband that there are several ways to satisfy a woman that does not involve penile penetration. “You can use your tongue to get me there,” I suggested. He listened but refused to do it. I ended up developing an addiction to adult films as a result. I didn’t watch the ones with men doing it with women. I preferred the ones with women doing it with each other.

I would watch a woman go down on another woman and imagine I was the one at the receiving end of that pleasure. It was a harmless thing at first. All I wanted to do was live vicariously through women who were getting their needs met. Little did I know that I would soon graduate to wanting to participate in those acts. I thought about it often. I imagined how it would feel to experience the touch of a woman. I got pleasure from these thoughts.

If I knew any women who were into this kind of thing, I am sure I would have given myself to them. I didn’t so it all remained a fantasy that haunted me. To rid myself of my perverse desires, I spoke to a female doctor. I explained my struggles with intimacy in my marriage and the ways I tried to soothe my aches. She said no good would come out of me switching teams when it came to sexuality. We started some counseling sessions to help me overcome my addiction. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

It helped so we kept going. As we continued to talk, we got closer and closer. Sometimes she would invite me to social events. Other times we would hang out as friends, just the two of us. I found her friendship comforting. It helped me to clear my head whenever I felt overwhelmed. One time she invited me to a house party. It was a birthday party for a gentleman in her circle. As always, I showed up. Later at the party, she introduced me to the guy. We had a brief chat but that little moment felt like eternity. He is easy on the eyes, a great conversationalist, and I felt a spark with him.

He felt it too. If not, he wouldn’t have invited me to chill with him the weekend after our meeting. We went on to spend the next few weekends hanging out and getting acquainted. One day I was talking to the doctor when she asked me, “How are things going with Paul?” I shrugged and answered, “He is a nice guy and we enjoy each other’s company.” “He told me he likes you.” “Aww, that’s nice. I like him too.” “Do you understand what I mean? He said wants to have you.

And let me tell you, his head game is good.” She didn’t say anything more. She didn’t have to. We are not children. I understood what she meant. And out of curiosity, I decided to give him a try. After years of starvation with my husband, my experience with Paul felt like the first rain after eight years of drought. It was orgasmic, literally. Although I was judging myself the entire time we were doing it, the one thought that kept running through my mind was, “Damn, this guy is good!” I had purposed in my mind that it was going to be a one-time thing, but I kept going back for more.

Each time I would tell myself, “This is the last time. I won’t do it again.” It’s been one year now and we are still going at it. When we started, it was all about getting my satisfaction from him but now things have changed. We’ve fallen in love. If you see me with him, you would think he is my husband. Meanwhile, I am in a fourteen-year-old marriage.

I think I got so caught up in my happiness that I forgot to cover my tracks. I am saying this because my first child recently told me that my husband knows about what I’m doing. I didn’t believe him until he asked, “Isn’t his name Paul? He knows him.

He says he hasn’t said anything to you because he knows he can’t do anything about it. But he doesn’t mind giving you a divorce if that’s what will make you happy.” I don’t know which one is worse: hearing that my husband knows about my affair but has been acting perfectly normal and fulfilling his duties as a husband, or hearing the news from my child?

If shame could kill, mine would have rendered me a corpse long ago. I can’t look my husband in the eyes anymore even though he still hasn’t confronted me. I feel so stupid for doing this to my family. Accepting the divorce seems like a reasonable way out but I don’t want my kids to stay away from their father.

I am already aware that people will judge and insult me but that’s fine with me. I know there are women here who have walked in my shoes and will understand what led me here. I am counting on understanding souls like them to see past my shortcomings and counsel me. Should I let my husband know that I know he knows about the affair?

 

 

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Woman Yells At Boy For Selling Candy Outside Target, Stranger Steps In To Defend Him

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You’ve probably been to a store when kids are selling candy outside to earn money for a special cause.

A brother and sister were outside a Target in a small community in California when they received an unexpected surprise.

Andy was a customer at the time who saw the interaction take place and posted the details on social media.

An older woman started yelling at the children when she saw them selling candy outside the store.

The older woman demanded to know where the license to sell candy was and why the children were standing outside the store trying to get money from people…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

The brother gently explained that he was trying to make money with his sister.

As the conversation continued, the older woman told the children that police officers would be there soon and that they would be arrested. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

The boy soon started crying because he couldn’t handle the yelling any longer.

Jay Lopez had been watching and approached the brother and sister. The man told the children that he would buy all of the candy that they were selling.

He then told the older woman that he would give it to the customers who were there and that she should be ashamed of how she was treating children.

Andy saw that there are still people in the world capable of doing good deeds.

 

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Mother Gives Birth To Twin Girls, Doctor Tells Her “I’m Sorry For You”

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Nicola and Todd Bailey, a British couple from Sheffield, had a cozy life with their four-year-old son, Lucas. However, a deep-seated desire to expand their family was always on their minds.

Nicola, who worked part-time as a nurse at a community health center, and Todd, an experienced real estate agent, were financially secure and eager to bring more children into their world.

One summer evening, sitting on their porch, Nicola and Todd found themselves discussing their future. Their conversation centered on Lucas, their beloved son, and the possibility of him having siblings.

Nicola had been an only child herself and understood the occasional loneliness that came with it. She didn’t want Lucas to grow up alone, and so the idea of having more children resonated strongly with her…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

Their hearts full of love for Lucas and a desire to see him enjoy the unique bond of having siblings, they decided to expand their family. Todd enthusiastically expressed his desire to build a larger family with Nicola, who he adored deeply.

The couple spent the rest of that night dreaming about their future children and how they would play together in their garden. Little did they know their dreams would soon become a reality.

The Baileys didn’t have to wait long for their lives to be filled with joy. A mere five months after that heartfelt conversation, Nicola had a dizzying moment. She collapsed to the floor and was immediately rushed to the hospital. While Todd was initially concerned, they quickly discovered the cause of her dizziness – she was pregnant.

Ecstatic, they returned home and immediately shared the joyful news with Lucas. He was thrilled to learn that he would soon be a big brother.

The prospect of having a sibling filled him with excitement, and he bombarded his parents with questions about his unborn sibling. The family was enveloped in happiness, their hearts full of anticipation for the new addition.

However, their journey was not without its challenges. During her pregnancy, Nicola started to feel unwell. She became incredibly fatigued, experienced frequent dizziness, and her body felt unusually heavy.

As a nurse, she recognized that something was amiss and insisted that Todd take her to the hospital. This decision likely saved their unborn daughters’ lives. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

After a series of tests at the hospital, Nicola received unexpected news – she was pregnant with twins. The couple was overjoyed and promptly made the announcement to their son, Lucas. They explained that they were going to have twin sisters and received an enthusiastic response. Lucas was delighted by the thought of becoming a big brother to not one but two siblings.

Nicola’s pregnancy, however, became fraught with challenges. She had to be placed on bed rest, a tough task for someone as active as she was. The safety of both the mother and her twin daughters was of paramount concern, and the doctors ensured that she was in good hands.

Through her prenatal care, the Baileys learned the gender of their twins. They were to have two baby girls, and Nicola immediately knew what she wanted to name them – Harper and Quinn. Their hearts swelled with excitement as they envisioned the future of their family with their two daughters.

However, the story took an unexpected turn 38 minutes after Harper’s birth. The doctor returned to Nicola’s room with a solemn expression and revealed that Harper had Down syndrome, a genetic disorder. Nicola and Todd hadn’t known that their daughter had Down syndrome during the pregnancy, and this news was a revelation.

Though this revelation could have dampened their spirits, Nicola, a nurse with experience in caring for children with Down syndrome, welcomed it with open arms. Her knowledge and experience provided a unique perspective.

She knew that Harper would be unique in her own way and understood that Down syndrome would not limit her daughter’s potential or happiness. The couple decided to raise their daughters equally, ensuring Harper would receive the support she needed to thrive.

Despite the unexpected news, their love for Harper remained unconditional. Her condition didn’t change the way they saw her. Nicola and Todd went on to create an Instagram account to share their family’s journey. It became a platform for Nicola to raise awareness about Down syndrome, dispel societal prejudices, and, most importantly, share the joy of their growing family.

As they journeyed forward, the family embraced the uniqueness of their situation. Their story is a testament to the power of love and acceptance. Harper, Quinn, and Lucas are indeed a unique and loving family, demonstrating that love knows no genetic boundaries.

Nicola and Todd wouldn’t change their family for the world. They are proud of their unique and beautiful family, which has redefined their understanding of love and acceptance.

 

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Homeless Man Begs For Scrap Food Only To Have Chick-fil-A Manager Say “No” And Take Action

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Chick-fil-A is known for caring about the community wherever the restaurant is located.

Many of the managers hold fundraisers for organizations and people who are in need as well as those who are sick or who have lost family members and need a helping hand.

Meeting someone who is homeless often strikes a nerve to do something to try to help for many people. There are also those who tend to avoid helping the homeless.

One man stumbled into a Chick-fil-A in Tennessee, possibly looking for something to drink or just to get away from being outside for just a few moments.

The manager decided to do something a little special for the man.

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He wasn’t asking for money and didn’t ask the customers for any kind of assistance.

When he left the restaurant, he had a huge smile on his face because of the actions of the manager.

While the interaction was taking place, a father and his daughter were enjoying a meal at a nearby table. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

The father made a social media post about the story so that others might be able to see how the homeless are treated and how simple actions can make a difference.

The daughter decided to trade the toy from her meal for ice cream.

As they waited for a few minutes for her ice cream to be prepared, they saw the exchange between the manager and the homeless man.

The man was wearing muddy shoes and looked tired. Most of the people in the restaurant tried to stay away from him.

Soon after the man entered the building, the manager talked to him and explained that he wanted to help. He was given a full meal instead of the scraps that he wanted.

The manager also prayed with the homeless man, touching his shoulder so that he would feel as though someone cared.

For some managers, they could have sent the man away, but this manager made a difference if only for a few moments in time.

 

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