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A soldier returns home after 2 years away on a mission, unaware that his world is about to change completely. But when his daughter tells him that he needs to meet the new “Daddy,” he is completely shocked by what he discovers next.

Richard couldn’t wait to see his little daughter’s face again. “She must be so big now,” he thought, a smile forming on his lips. Richard was a Navy soldier and had spent a long time at sea, sailing remote waters and facing the challenges of his profession.

He was returning home after two long years without seeing his family. When he left on his mission, his daughter Sophie was just 2 years old, still learning to speak and take her first steps. Now, at the age of four, the little girl was anxiously awaiting her father’s return, eager to show him all the new things she had learned and the game she had invented…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

That morning, the sun was shining brightly through the cloudless blue sky, indicating perfect weather for a great flight. Richard, in his impeccable uniform, was waiting in the airport’s large departure lounge. He looked around, seeing people coming and going, each with their own story, but none seemed as exciting as his at that moment.

He carefully checked the presents he was carrying: a small, soft, and cuddly teddy bear for Sophie, and a beautiful necklace for his wife Vivien, something he knew she would love and that would show how much he appreciated her. “They’ll love them,” he thought, pleased with his choices and imagining the joy on their faces when they received the gifts.

Everything was in order, and Richard was anxiously awaiting the arrival of the plane. After almost an hour of waiting, it was announced that his flight was now boarding. He grabbed his things, feeling his heartbeat quicken with excitement and anticipation. As he boarded the plane, Richard settled comfortably into his seat, watching the movement around him as other passengers got settled in. He prepared himself for the 8-hour journey ahead.

He took advantage of the moment to rest—something he really needed. For the past two years, he had worked without any time off or vacations, trying to save enough money to buy the dream home he and Vivien had been planning. Their dream house represented more than just a home—it was the symbol of a future together, of stability and love.

The hours passed quickly, and when Richard woke from a deep sleep, the plane was already landing. “That was fast,” he said, rubbing his eyes and yawning. The elderly lady sitting next to him gave him a friendly smile and informed him, “Actually, dear, we arrived an hour early. The pilot warned us while you were asleep.”

Richard was glad to have arrived early. “Great, thanks,” he said to the old lady, feeling even more excited. He had arranged for Vivien to pick him up at the airport, but now that he was early, he could take a cab home and surprise her. The thought of arriving unexpectedly and seeing the expressions of amazement and joy on their faces made him smile even more.

After picking up his luggage, Richard headed for the cab rank. As the cab pulled away from the airport, he observed the familiar sights with a mixture of nostalgia and joy. Every street, every building seemed to welcome him. “I’m almost there,” he thought, feeling his heartbeat stronger with every mile he traveled.

The cab sped through the streets he knew so well, and the anticipation of reuniting with his family filled his heart with happiness. Arriving home, Richard paid the taxi driver and got out of the car, carrying his bags and the presents. He walked to the door, a smile growing on his face. Richard felt a wave of emotion wash over him. He was home at last, and his family was there, waiting for him. He couldn’t wait to hug Sophie and Vivien, to feel their warmth and share all the moments he had dreamed of during the long years at sea. “Finally, I’m home,” he thought, taking a deep breath before opening the door.

He could only imagine Sophie’s beaming smile and Vivien’s warm embrace, but little did Richard know that the one who would be surprised would be him.

Richard slowly opened the door and left his suitcases in the entry hall. Immediately, he heard a childish voice coming from upstairs—it was Sophie.

“I don’t want the pink bow, Mommy. I want the green one this time,” said Sophie in her usual lively voice.

Richard felt a rush of emotions when he finally heard his daughter’s voice after so long, and the longing grew even stronger when he heard Vivien’s voice.

“But the pink one goes better with the dress, honey. Don’t you want to try it?” Vivien’s voice, soft as ever, was music to Richard’s ears. He heard Sophie complain a little more and then settle for the pink bow.

Light footsteps followed as Sophie came down the stairs, entering the living room where Richard was waiting with tearful eyes.

“Daddy!” Sophie shouted as she ran into Richard’s open arms. The reunion was everything he had imagined. Richard felt the comfort of the embrace of the daughter he hadn’t seen for so long. He could hardly believe that he was back home with his family.

However, the moment that was supposed to be joyful quickly turned into something Richard never imagined. He heard more footsteps coming down the stairs, and then Vivien’s voice echoed through the house.

“You’re here, dear. It’s almost time to go to the airport. Did you get the car washed?”

Richard was a little confused by the question, but when Vivien entered the living room, his confusion deepened. As soon as Vivien laid eyes on Richard, her serene expression changed drastically to one of complete terror. She turned pale and began to stutter, searching for the words that eluded her.

But it was Richard who was in complete shock. He stared at Vivien as he tried to process what he was seeing—his wife’s giant belly. Vivien was pregnant.

Sophie, unable to understand the complexity of the situation between the adults, jumped up and down with joy. “Look, Mommy! Daddy’s here! He’s home!”

Vivien, still in complete shock, couldn’t say a word. Richard, incredulous, finally asked, “What the hell is going on here?”

Before she could say anything, a horn sounded from outside. Sophie ran to the window excitedly and announced in her sweet, peaceful voice, “He’s here!” Then she ran back to Richard and held his hand. “Daddy, you have to meet the new daddy.”

Richard’s heart froze, and he stood still, looking at Vivien’s even paler face. “I—It’s not what you think,” were the only words that escaped Vivien’s stiff lips.

The two of them stood there, staring at each other while the clock on the wall ticked away the agonizing seconds. Richard took a step back, his world crumbling around him. He pulled Sophie gently to him, trying to process the situation.

“Vivien, what’s going on?” he finally managed to ask, his voice shaking with emotion.

Vivien opened her mouth to reply, but the words seemed to escape her. She took a step toward Richard but stopped, looking desperately at the door. Sophie, still holding Richard’s hand, pulled him slightly. “Come on, Daddy, you have to meet the new daddy. He’s really nice! You’ll like him.”

Richard looked at his daughter, his heart squeezing. “New daddy?” he asked, his voice barely a whisper.

But before she could answer, the front door opened, and a man walked in. He was tall, with dark hair and a calm expression on his face. When he saw Richard, he stopped, surprise clearly evident on his face.

“Vivien, who is that?” Richard asked, his voice laden with pain and confusion.

Vivien finally found her voice. “Richard, I… I can explain.”

Richard felt as if the ground had disappeared beneath his feet. He looked at the man standing in front of him, dumbfounded, then back at Vivien, trying to make sense of the situation.

“What is going on? Is Vivien really pregnant with another man’s baby?”

To understand the story better, we need to go back two years. Richard and Vivien met at college, at a party organized by mutual friends. From the first moment, the connection between them was instantaneous—a spark of mutual understanding and attraction. Richard was charming and determined, with a passion for the sea that inspired the young Vivien. He would talk about his adventures and dreams of sailing to distant seas, his eyes sparkling with enthusiasm.

The young woman, for her part, was sweet and intelligent, always with a smile on her face that brightened any room. Vivien was known for her kindness and sharp mind, characteristics that captivated Richard from the start. They dated for two years before getting married, and this period was marked by many adventures and discoveries together, building a solid foundation of love and trust.

Richard and Vivien shared interests and life goals, further strengthening their bond. Shortly after their wedding, Sophie was born, bringing even more joy and meaning to their lives. The arrival of little Sophie was a moment of pure happiness and fulfillment for the young couple.

However, like many young couples, their financial life wasn’t easy. Richard, with his soldier’s salary, and Vivien, working as a teacher, struggled to make ends meet at the end of the month. The household expenses, Sophie’s education, and their dreams of a better future weighed heavily on their shoulders. They dreamed of a bigger house—a place where Sophie could grow up with more space and comfort, a home that represented stability and security

It was then that Richard made the difficult decision that would change their lives. He accepted a two-year mission in a confidential location, which promised a generous payment. This opportunity, though arduous, could give them the chance to finally buy the house of their dreams and provide a better life for Sophie.

“We’ll make it, love. Two years will go by quickly,” said Richard, holding Vivien’s hands firmly, his voice full of determination.

Vivien, with tears in her eyes, replied, “I know. I’m just going to miss you so much, and Sophie too. You know how much she loves you.”

The goodbyes were painful, marked by tight hugs and promises of a brief reunion. Richard left home, taking with him the promise to return soon, his heart heavy with the longing he already felt.

During the mission, the family communicated through letters since Richard’s location was secret and communication was limited. At first, Vivien’s letters were long and full of details about Sophie’s growth and the routine at home.

“Darling, Sophie is growing up so fast! She started to speak more and always asks for you. I can’t wait for you to come back and see how smart she is,” Vivien wrote enthusiastically, filling each letter with love and longing. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Over time, however, Vivien’s letters became less frequent. Richard understood that life as a solo mother was difficult, and he felt sorry that he couldn’t help with the burden of the daily routine. However, he missed her loving words and the updates on Sophie. He tried not to worry, concentrating on the mission and counting down the days until he could be home again. He knew that every day that passed brought him closer to the moment when he could embrace his family again.

Finally, after two long years, Richard was on his way home. He couldn’t wait to see his family, hold Sophie in his arms, and kiss Vivien. He imagined the expressions of joy on their faces, the warm hugs, and the moments of reconnection. But when he arrived, the surprise that awaited him was unimaginable.

Richard felt a mixture of emotions as he approached home—anxious and a little apprehensive. He couldn’t foresee the impact that two years of separation would have, but he was determined to recapture every lost moment and celebrate the reunion with his beloved family.

But instead, Richard found himself in a situation he would never have imagined—a nightmare straight out of a movie. Seeing Vivien next to that man, the soldier tried to contain himself, but the surprise and pain of potential betrayal hit him like a punch in the stomach.

“Sophie, go upstairs. Daddy will be there in a second,” Richard said, trying to protect his daughter from what was to come. His tone, however, betrayed the emotional storm raging inside him. Sophie ran up the stairs, her quick steps echoing through the house, leaving the adults behind to deal with their emotional drama.

Vivien, realizing the seriousness of the situation, began to speak rapidly, her voice shaky and desperate.

“My love, I can explain! It’s not what you think,” she pleaded, her eyes filling with tears, reflecting the emotional turmoil she was feeling.

The man next to her, sensing the tension in the air, raised his hands in a gesture of peace and tried to intervene.

“She’s right, Richard. It really isn’t what it seems,” said the young man.

But Richard’s anger boiled over, and he interrupted harshly. “My wife is pregnant. I’ve spent two years away, Vivien—how could you do this to me?”

His words came out like gunfire, full of pain and disbelief. He couldn’t believe his eyes, or his heart.

Vivien’s tears flowed freely down her face as she tried to explain. “Richard, it’s not what you think. This is Danny. He’s just a friend.”

But that only made Richard angrier. “Just a friend, Vivien? Because from what I can see, he’s much more than that. My daughter calls him ‘the new daddy,’ and you’re pregnant with his child!”

Richard was at his boiling point, his mind unable to process all the contradictory information. But what Vivien said next turned her husband’s anger into complete confusion.

“He’s gay!” Vivien suddenly shouted. “Danny and his boyfriend Alex—they’re gay.”

The confusion on Richard’s face gave way to a look of bewilderment.

“Gay? What do you mean? I don’t understand…”

Vivien looked at Danny, who stepped forward, trying to help explain.

“Richard, my boyfriend Alex and I have always dreamed of having a child, but the adoption process didn’t work out for us. So, we asked Vivien to be our surrogate.”

Richard blinked several times, his mind spinning with the flood of information. Danny’s words swirled around in his head as he tried to piece them together coherently.

“And why is my daughter calling you ‘the new daddy’? Explain that!” Richard demanded, his voice still tinged with disbelief.

Danny gave a small, relaxed laugh, which contrasted with the seriousness of the moment. “Sophie started calling me ‘the new daddy’ because Alex and I are going to be first-time parents, you see. We’ll be the new daddies,” he said with a slight smile.

Richard took a deep breath, trying to process everything. “So… what you’re saying is that Vivien is your surrogate?”

Vivien nodded, tears still streaming down her face. “Yes, Richard. I didn’t know how to tell you. I knew it would be difficult to explain by letter, and I wanted to tell you in person. We were going to pick you up at the airport and tell you everything, but you arrived early…”

Relief, mixed with disbelief, overtook Richard. He looked at Danny, who had an expression of sincere concern and friendship, and then at Vivien, who was in tears. Richard took a deep breath, trying to absorb everything. He felt like he was in an emotional whirlwind, pulled in all directions.

“So Sophie calls him ‘daddy’ because she and Alex are going to be the parents of this baby?”

“Yes, love. I know it sounds confusing, but I just wanted to help my friends. And I didn’t know how to tell you. I’m sorry I didn’t tell you sooner,” Vivien said, her voice shaking with emotion.

Vivien was visibly shaken, but there was a tone of sincerity in her voice that Richard couldn’t ignore. Richard closed his eyes for a moment, trying to calm the whirlwind of emotions inside him. When he opened his eyes, he met Vivien’s gaze—full of love and regret.

“Vivien, you should have told me. But I understand why you didn’t, and I… I’ll try to accept it. But it’s going to be hard seeing my wife pregnant,” Richard said, his voice softening.

Vivien ran into Richard’s arms, hugging him tightly. “Thank you, Richard. I knew you’d understand,” she sobbed, wrapping her arms around him, feeling relieved.

Danny, still standing in the doorway, gave a relieved smile. “Richard, thank you for understanding. It means a lot to me and Alex.”

Richard, still processing everything, looked at the man he had thought was his rival. “Danny, I… I just need a little time to come around, that’s all.”

Danny nodded understandingly. “Of course, Richard. We understand. And we’re here to support you both, believe me. It wasn’t easy for Vivien either—she did this out of love for our friendship.”

Little by little, Richard’s anger and confusion began to dissipate, replaced by a mixture of relief and understanding. He knew the road ahead would be difficult, but as he looked at Vivien and remembered the love they shared, he felt a spark of hope. They would face this together, as they always had.

With Richard back home, he and Vivien were finally able to buy their dream house—a cozy refuge with a spacious garden where Sophie could play freely. The house became a symbol of everything they had fought for, every corner filled with memories and fulfilled dreams. It was a place where the family could finally find peace and happiness, surrounded by the warmth of a home built with love and sacrifice.

Meanwhile, Danny and Alex also realized their dream of becoming parents. They welcomed into their arms an adorable baby boy, who filled their lives with joy and purpose. The arrival of their son brought a new dynamic to their relationship, and their home was filled with laughter and unconditional love. The baby, with his curious eyes and charming smile, brought the family and friends even closer together.

Over time, the friendship between the two couples grew stronger. Richard and Vivien became godparents to Danny and Alex’s son, and the two families began to share not only happy times but also the challenges and victories of everyday life. They organized dinners, trips, and celebrations together, creating a bond so deep that they became almost inseparable.

Sophie, now older, loved playing with the baby, and her laughter filled the house with contagious joy. The two families, brought together by an unexpected turn of fate, were living proof that love overcomes all barriers and always prevails in the end. Together, they created a circle of support and affection where each member felt valued and loved. They showed that, regardless of the adversities and surprises life can bring, the strength of love and friendship can overcome any obstacle, building a future full of happiness and unity.

As the years passed, both families continued to thrive in the love and support they had built together. Richard, reflecting on the events that had once seemed so devastating, now saw them as the foundation for a stronger, more resilient life. The soldier, once broken by the shock of betrayal, had found healing in understanding and acceptance. Vivien, too, grew stronger in her role as a mother, wife, and friend, her love for Richard deepening through the trials they had faced.

Danny and Alex, grateful for the gift Vivien had given them, embraced parenthood with joy and dedication, their son growing up surrounded by love from both his fathers and his extended family. Their bond with Richard and Vivien only strengthened, with both families finding comfort in each other’s companionship and support.

Sophie, no longer the little girl waiting for her father to return, had grown into a vibrant and confident young girl, thriving in the love and care of both her parents. She remained close to Danny and Alex, often referring to their son as her little brother, cementing the connection between the two families.

The dream house that Richard and Vivien had once longed for became a home filled with warmth, laughter, and shared memories. It was a place where friends and family gathered, where love and friendship were celebrated, and where the past pains were healed by the new beginnings they had all embraced.


And so, a story that began with separation, doubt, and pain transformed into a tale of forgiveness, understanding, and the unbreakable power of love. Two families, once strangers, became bound together by the most unexpected of circumstances, proving that even in the face of uncertainty, love always finds a way.

 

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Comprehensive History of Ilorin and the Reign of Afonja

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Before we begin with the history of Ilorin, here are few details that should be known. Ilorin is a city, traditional emirate and capital of Kwara State in Southwestern Nigeria. It is located on the Awun River, a minor tributary of the Niger. As of the 2006 census, Ilorin had a population of 777,667, making it the 7th largest city by population in Nigeria

 

History of Ilorin

The suzerainty of the old Oyo Empire on Ilorin, in the 17th Century, was directly influenced by Alaafin Ojigi’s interest to save the Igbomina Yoruba area that had been turned slave reservoirs by the Nupes. He established the first administrative structures to coordinate the scattered settlements later known as Ilorin. The first of the Oyo Ajele (Resident) to be appointed was Laderin. His son, Pasin, who was also succeeded by his own son, Alugbin, the father of Aare Afonja succeeded Laderin…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

The personal animosity between Aare Afonja and Alaafin Aole which degenerated to show of strength between the two leading figures in the administration of Oyo Empire culminated to the summary termination of Alaafin Aole and declaration of independence for Ilorin. Aare Afonja’s effort to consolidate his power and position as the supreme authority in Ilorin dictated two major actions that eventually played key roles in the historical changes witnessed in Ilorin.

One of such action of the Aare was his contact with Shehu Alimi through his friend Sholagberu. The second was the Aare’s decision to recruit slaves who ran to Ilorin from their masters in Oyo town, after Ilorin had been declared independent from Oyo. The first of the Aare’s steps was to seek spiritual support for his new position and status.

He, therefore, persuaded Shehu Alimi to migrate into Ilorin town from Kuwo (a suburb of Ilorin) where he had then settled, after his Islamic evangelical mission to parts of Yoruba land, such as Oshogbo and even Oyo Ile’. It was for Aare’s persuasions that Shehu Alimi eventually migrated to Ilorin town. On the recruitment of the slaves who ran to Ilorin as a sanctuary, the Aare saw their presence in Ilorin as an advantage to have soldiers who do not have any relations with the local environment.

Are Ona Kakanfo Afonja
Are-Ona-Kakanfo Afonja

Thereby, the question of betrayal would be out of the way. Given the circumstances of his declaration of independence for llorin from Oyo. Aare’s confidence and high regards for the slave soldiers soon result to its abuse. The slave soldiers saw themselves as an important element to the survival of llorin as an independent entity. Therefore they resorted to committing atrocities and rapacity that hii’boun, the left wing commander of the Aare’s army, had to draw Aare’s attention to the implications of the excesses of the slave soldiers, who were commonly referred to as Aare’s servant. Aare Afonja’s efforts to restructure the army with the aim of preventing further damages by the slave soldiers for their rapacity, mobilized the slave soldiers to organize a mutiny, which eventually resulted into Aare Afonja’s death.

The history of Ilorin has it in its profile that the death of Aare Afonja in about 1813 naturally created a vacuum in the political leadership of Ilorin. Given the fact that his slave- recruited soldiers killed him, and publicly burnt his corpse, and there was no ready counter force to evolve a new political leader. Ilorin had to remain in a state of interregnum for some time. The Baba Isale, Agboin, was as at then very sick and could not mobilize a counterforce to arrest the confusing situation’.

On the part of Shehu Alimi, he concentrated on his cleric duties by leading a group of Muslims in daily prayers. The death of Shehu Alimi in about 1817. Four years after Aare Afonja’s death, was a turning point in the history of llorin. It opened a new course of events that culminated into the emergence of a new-political structure in the emirate.

Shehu Alimi, as a committed Islamic cleric, whose major duty was leading congregation in prayers as the Imam, certainly had no other position that could be inherited by his children. As an Imam, which is a religious position, was indeed not necessarily to be inherited by the family of the immediate past Imam.

Any Muslim could actually vie for the position”. This situation explains why the contest for the position of the Imam held by Shehu Alimi in Ilorin, was contested for by AbdulSalami, Shehu Alimi’s first son, and Bako from Serikin Gambari’s family. The support given to AbdulSalami by personalities such as Sholagberu and other prominent Yoruba group leaders close to Shehu Alimi, made AbdulSalami be victorious over Bako.

As the Imam of the mosque where the slave soldiers often congregate to perform their daily prayers, AbdulSalam and Shitta. His younger brother was fast at establishing close relations with them”. It was by these relations that the slave soldiers were turned to be used to attack those that were accused of being unfriendly to AbdulSalami’s leadership in the mosque.

They intimidate those considered to be influential within the Ilorin community and could checkmate their political ambition and attack settlements such as Okesuna, which on its own was an entity. The successful use of the slave soldiers by AbdulSalami and Shitta to terminate all form of oppositions to the realization of their political ambition in Ilorin actually paved the way for the declaration of Ilorin as an emirate in about 1823 ‘.

An army was raised under Toyeje, the Bale of Ogbomoso, who succeeded Aare Afonja as Kakanfo. The army camped at Ogele, expecting to easily run over the Fulani authority in Ilorin: The Fulani had anticipated and prepared for the attack. They demanded that each of the Ihdogun should raise an army among their respective linguistic group to complement the Jammah.

Having carefully studied the organizational weakness of the Yoruba army on the battled field, the Ilorin army concentrated on the use of calvary. This inflicted heavy human loses on the Yoruba army. A good number of Yoruba towns in the Ibolo areas were destroyed and some others were fully captured″.

According to the history of Ilorin, the defeat of the allied forces of the Yoruba was a morale booster for the emerging forces in Ilorin. On the other hand, the morale of the Yoruba allied forces waned because of the betrayal noticed amongst them. The tactical error on the part of the Yoruba allied forces was that they concentrated mainly on the military organization. They were not sufficiently diplomatic. Their situation would not have been as bad had they penetrated into the rank and file of Yoruba people that were aggrieved by acts of the Fulani, who imposed themselves as the authority in Ilorin.

The Mugbamugba War

After a short respite, the Yoruba re-organised and resolved to get rid of the Fulanis in Ilorin. This time, they went into alliance with Monjia, the King of Kabbah. The encounter took place between March and April when the locust fruits were ripe for harvest. The lingering effects of the previous war were apparent: A good number of places were still deserted, while there was not enough farm that could sustain the long camping of the army. Both the besiegers and the besieged soon resorted to living on the locust fruit (Igba). Hence the war took its title Mugba Mugba’.

Once again, the allied forces of the Yoruba were defeated. Their knowledge of how to deal with the power of Ilorin was still defective. The successive defeat of the Yoruba allied forces made them to lose the courage for launching a further attack. On the other hand, the emirate army grew to be more confident and aggressive. Consequently, many more Yoruba towns and villages were destroyed and the peoples’ properties were looted by the ravaging army of Ilorin.

Two major factors were responsible for the success of the llorin army: superior use of the calvary and effective use of diplomacy. They penetrated the ranks of the Yoruba leaders to cause disaffection and personality clash amongst them. There was, for instance, an intense rivalry between Toyese, the Kakanfo of Oyo at Ogbomoso and Adegun, the Onikoyi. The alliance of llorin with the Onikoyi eventually led to a war between the two.

The destruction of most of the Yoruba towns and villages by the victorious army of Ilorin. turned a good number of Yoruba who lived in them, refugees. They were scattered all over Yorubaland and this continued to be a source of worry for cities that had riot been touched by war. This explains why the Yoruba leaders could not live with the reality of Ilorin emirate army’s victories. Hence they recouped to launch another attack.

Kanla War

As a result of successive Ilorin victories over the Oyo forces, the powers and influence of the Alaafin of Oyo continued to dwindle to the point of their been limited to the capital. More and more of the old Oyo empire’s provinces declared their independence from Oyo’s authority and tributes were no longer paid to the Alaafin.

It was at this period of anarchy and confusion that Alaafin Amodo, one of the grandchildren of Alaafin Abiodun’s twin brother, came to the throne. Understanding the situation as it was, the Alaafin began his reign by trying to consolidate the remaining loyalists to his institution and stretching arm of friendship to prominent chiefs around Oyo.

Fulani Warriors

The Alaafin identified Lanloke. the Chief of Ogodo as one of such prominent and powerful chiefs. Ogodo, according to its historical origin used to be a Nupe town:”. But by the end of the 18th century, Yoruba migrants from Oyo had taken over the town for commercial reasons”‘. Ogodo grew to become a big commercial city that served as the exchange centre for the Yoruba and Nupe traders. They traded in different merchandise and thus the powers and influence of its ruler grew with its relevance.

Alaafin Amodo’s interest in Ogodo was to renew the blood ties with the Yoruba population in the town, use their influence and contacts to rebuild the powers of his institution. He gave out his daughter in marriage to Lanloke, the chief of Ogodo. Rather than appreciate this kind of gesture of Alaafin Amodo Lanloke grew to become more conscious of his new influence, powers and wealth. He treated Alaafin Amodo’s daughter with indignity and disrespect. This was deliberately to spite her father as the Alaafin. At one of such contemptuous treatment of Alaafin Amodo’s daughter, Lanloke nearly beat his wife to the point of death”.

Lanloke was neither remorseful for his act, nor appreciate the possible consequence of his action. He was rather boastful and care free about what the Alaafin would do. He allied with Ilorin, and assumed a more aggressive posture”. With the support of Ilorin soldiers. Chief Lanloke attacked Oyo town and the city was sacked. Oyo thus became an Ilorin tributary. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Alaafin Amodo became very bitter and depressed as a result of the humiliation he suffered and as a result of the destruction of Oyo. He remained very hopeful. He continued with the diplomatic efforts at fostering unity among the Yoruba chiefs that had been divided by jealousy and petty rivalry.

Alaafin Amodo eventually brought the divided Yoruba chiefs together and therefore raised a formidable force to engage the Ilorin army. The battle took place at Kanla. from where the battle took its name. The Yoruba chiefs were together physically, but they were spirits apart. The rivalry among them resulted in treachery. For instance, the Onikoyi was known to be sick and unfit to be on the field but the Edun of Gbogun deliberately encouraged him to man a weak point so that llorin army, which he had arranged with, could penetrate the Yoruba forces and rout them.

Already informed of the treachery in the Oyo camp, the Ilorin forces, merely mounted defences on the other fronts as they voraciously attacked from the Onikoyi’s front”‘. The Onikoyi was rounded up and killed. llorin quickly seized the opportunity to penetrate the Yoruba lines and drive the soldiers out of the battle field.

Many of the remaining towns and villages still loyal to the Alaafm were attacked, destroyed and deserted. Chief Oja, the first settler at Ago (the present-day Oyo town), was among those that were drowned in river Ogun as they fled from the invading llorin forces. The recurring victory of llorin army over the allied forces of the Alaafin was naturally bound to boost the morale of the emirate army and its allies, yet successive Alaafin of Oyo were undaunted. Consequently, they continued to recoup and re-launch attack against llorin.

The Eleduwe War and the history of Ilorin

The distress that followed the last defeat of Oyo empire and its allies by the ravaging army of llorin and its allies was attributed to the depression of Alaafin Amodo, who eventually got ill and died. Prince Oluewu was unanimously elected as the new Alaafin’. Going by the process of selecting the preceding Alaafin of Oyo before Oluewu. Potential candidates used to engage themselves in fierce contests that it was never possible to select an Alaafin by unanimous votes of the Oyomesi, (Oyo empire’s king makers). This explains the very low morale of both the royal families and people. The position of the Alaafin had been reduced to titular institution, rather than the historically known Alaafin that does not only reign but ruled.

Alaafin Oluewu was fully aware of the situation at the time of his enthronement but like his predecessors, he was full of” hope and determination to reverse the situation. Alaafin Oluewu as a person, could be described as haughty and irritable in temperament. He however, acceded to the call when Emir Shitta of Ilorin requested him (the Alaafin} to pay him the traditional homage of a vassal”. The chiefs of Oyo and members of the royal family prevailed on Alaafin Oluewu to accede to the call of Emir Shitta. to save the capital and the remnant towns that still paid their allegiance to Oyo””.

Afonja's Palace
The Palace of Are-Ona-Kakanfo Afonja

Emir Shitta received Alaafin Oluewu with every mark of honour and distinction; but he confiscated the Gbedu drum that was often beaten before an Alaafin to show his royalty. In the words of Emir Shitta: “there cannot be two kings in my dominion but one only, and that is myself. By Emir Shitta’s statement, the Alaafin and his institutions were reduced to mere subjects of the ravaging foreigners based in Ilorin. Alaafin Oluewu felt badly humiliated and insulted by the act of Emir Shitta.

He refused to honour the second call on him by the Emir to come down to Ilorin. Not even the counsel by the both Basorun and Asipa could change his mind for the fear of the consequences on Oyo by Alaafin refusal to honour Emir Shitta’s call, both Akioso, the Basorun and Ailumo, the Asipa went against the express order of Alaafin Oluewu forbidding them to go.

The Emir was disturbed and, in fact, fell insulted by the refusal of Alaafin Oluewu to honour his call. The Emir therefore decided to punish the Alaafin. He ordered Lanloke the Chief of Ogodo to ravage the suburbs of Oyo and in fact threaten the city. Alaafin Oluewu was not unprepared. He had sought and got the support of the Bariba to subdue his enemies both within and without. Those within were the Basorun and the Asipa who defied his instruction not to go on his behalf to Emir Shitta in Ilorin and those outside were the Fulani authority in Ilorin and their allies.

With the alliance of the Bariba led by Eleduwe, Alaafin Oluewu was able to punish both the Asipa and the Basorun with death. He went further to attack Ogodo and raised down Gbodo. Ilorin army and its allies were defeated. They were pursued until they ran into the flooded Ogun River. Most of the Ilorin soldiers were drowned.

Alaafin Oluewu and his Bariba allies were naturally elated by their victory over the combined army of Ilorin and its allies. Therefore, he decided to summon warriors and chiefs all over the old Oyo empire’s territories. Alaafin Oluewu was unaware that some of these Yoruba chiefs he invited were, in alliance with Ilorin and all of them cherished their independence from Oyo’s authority. Alaafin Oluewu was of the belief that those in alliance with llorin were doing it out of necessity and not out of convenience. Hle held the opinion that there was a general resentment of foreigner’s rule over llorin.

The immediate response of the Yoruba chiefs to Alaafin Oluewu’s confirmed his feelings that they would be glad to be free from the foreigner’s yolk. At a meeting of the war council chaired by Alaafin Oluewu and in which Eleduwe. the Bariba warrior and invited Yoruba chiefs were present the modus operandi for prosecuting the war to overrun llorin and reclaim the old Oyo empire’s territories were concluded.

The Fulani authority in Ilorin was indeed distressed by the response to Oluewu’s assemblage of the Yoruba warriors and chiefs. Being fully alive to the seriousness and the extent of florin’s defeat at Gbodo encounter, the Emir was desperate to avert the impending calamity on his territory and people. Added to the desperate moves of the Emir was the fear of the Bariba warrior, Eleduwe or Waru Kura, the commander of the Bariba ally of Oyo Empire. The llorin people referred to him as Ikoko (Wolf) because he was commonly known for destroying every living being in the area he captured.

The Emir embarked on both internal and external moves to save the situation. On the external wing. Emir Shitta sent for assistance from the Sultan of Sokoto his suzerain. Ibrahim Khalil. the third Emir of Gwandu. personally led a joint force of Sokoto and Gwandu warriors to aid llorin.

On the local side, the Emir tried to identify individuals and groups of people among the Yoruba that had an axe to grind with the Alaafin. He was able to locate one Yusufu Bale, the progenitor of the present Alanamu family of llorin.

Yusufu was a renowned warrior specially known for the manner in which he overcame his enemies. He physically beat the enemy to capture them, and was therefore fondly referred to as Alana-mu.

Yusufu Bale or Alana-mu considered his invitation to join the llorin army against the organized team of Alaafin Oluewu, as good opportunity to revenge the unfortunate circumstances under which he packed out of Oyo town and settled at Reke, a village not too far from llorin”‘. He supported llorin with his army, and was also involved in the diplomatic game, employed by the authority in llorin to play the Yoruba chiefs against one another”‘.

At the time llorin was preparing for the impending war with the combined forces of the Yoruba and the Bariba’s from all fronts, old rivalry, sharp differences and fears of Bariba domination were seriously drumming in the war camp assembled by Alaafin Oluewu. For instance, special privileges accorded to the Bariba by Alaafin made the Yoruba warriors fear that the Bariba would only be replacing the established Fulani hegemony already in Ilorin and that the Bariba dominance or rule over them will be real rather than the mere rendering of assistance to engage Ilorin.

Most of the Yoruba chiefs assembled by Alaafin Oluewu to sack Ilorin, actually cherished their respective independence. Their fears were further compounded by the experience of their direct encounter with the Bariba, who had actually began to behave like the new lords of the Yoruba chiefs. They had no doubt that they would be treated later like a captured people after the war.

This explains why some of them made up their minds to undermine the proclaimed interest of the joint Yoruba forces against Ilorin. At the heat of the battle, Prince Atiba of Ago and Timi Bamgbaiye of Ede. deliberately left the wing of their command, to make the penetration of Ilorin army possible. Both Alaafin Oluewu and the Bariba warrior Wan kura were therefore rounded up. Both of them fell in the battle ‘.

The death of Alaafin Oluewu. and the leader of the Bariba allied forces, Warikura, was indeed a turning point in the History of Ilorin as a sovereign state and power; the entire politics of Yorubaland and warfare that characterized the whole of the nineteenth century. The victory of Ilorin army in all its war encounters against Oyo army and its allies have subject of controversy among scholars and philosophers.

While some of them attributed the cause to high rate and degree of treachery exhibited by the Yoruba at a point of war, that their unity was crucial to their collective survival to the historical curse evoked by Alaafm Aole. that “Yoruba would never again be united and that they would be ruled by their slaves after his failure to get Aare Afonja and other prominent Oyo chiefs exterminated by sending them to attack Ilorin. Others see it as a normal trend in political evolution, that such rivalry, treachery and suspicion are prevalent in some other personal and group relations’.

The news of the death of Warukura and Alaafin Oluewu readily aggravated the confusion in old Oyo. This led to the exodus of its inhabitants. The attack on old Oyo and remnants of places that still paid allegiance to the Alaafin by Lanloke the Chief of Ogodo. who had always been an inveterate enemy of Oyo and an active ally of Ilorin. accelerated the people’s migration to different directions. While a good number of Oyo migrants went to Kisi. Some others went to Igboho. A noticeable number even went to Ilorin”. Thus, Oyo was deserted and it went into ruins.

 

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If You See These Three Lines In Your Palm Instead Of Four, This Is What It Means

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The lines on our palms, particularly the heart line, head line, life line, and fate line, have long been a subject of interest in palmistry, the ancient art of interpreting the palm to reveal information about an individual’s personality, life path, and future. While most people have four main lines in their palms, some may notice only three lines, and this can hold particular significance in palmistry.

The absence of the fourth line, commonly the fate line, can be one of the most intriguing observations. The fate line is believed to represent destiny or the influence of external factors on one’s life, such as significant life events or events out of one’s control…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

If you see three lines instead of four, it could indicate that you are someone who creates your own path, rather than being heavily influenced by fate. Palmists believe this suggests an individual who is more independent and in control of their destiny, making decisions based on personal choice and effort rather than external forces. The absence of the fate line might also point to someone who has experienced a life of free will, without clear guidance or obstacles that dictate the course of their life.

If your palm shows only three lines, it could also mean that you are adaptable and resilient, able to face challenges head-on without being overly reliant on fate or predetermined outcomes. This may symbolize an individual who embraces change and is capable of creating new opportunities, as opposed to being tied to a specific life plan or structure. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Moreover, palmists often associate this three-line configuration with individuals who possess a high degree of mental clarity and emotional stability. The reduction in lines may be viewed as a sign of focus and concentration, suggesting that the person is more pragmatic, relying on intellect and logic rather than emotional impulses or predestined paths.

Ultimately, while palmistry offers a fascinating way to reflect on personality traits and life directions, it’s important to remember that it is not a science. People should interpret these signs with an open mind, understanding that they are just one of many tools to explore human behavior and experiences.

 

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The Story of a Young Woman Who Tested Positive for Pregnancy Without Engaging in Sexual Intercourse

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In an incident that has captured widespread attention, a young woman shared her unique experience of discovering she was pregnant without engaging in any sexual activity. This revelation, initially met with skepticism, led to several hospital examinations where medical professionals confirmed her claims. The event, reported by Kessben Online, has sparked curiosity and debate, leaving many pondering the possibility of such a phenomenon.

The young woman, whose identity has been withheld for privacy reasons, recounted how she initially experienced the symptoms of pregnancy. Like any other person in her situation, she was confused and alarmed, knowing she had not been involved in any relationship that could lead to conception. Her family, equally baffled, decided to seek medical guidance to understand the situation…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

After visiting multiple hospitals and undergoing numerous examinations, doctors confirmed the pregnancy and validated her claims of not having engaged in any intimate activity. While such cases are exceedingly rare, medical science acknowledges the occurrence of virgin pregnancies, also known as parthenogenesis. This phenomenon, observed in certain animals, remains highly improbable in humans. However, the possibility of scientific anomalies or spiritual interpretations cannot be entirely ruled out.

Religious and spiritual communities have been quick to draw parallels between her experience and stories from sacred texts, such as the Virgin Mary in Christian teachings. Some believe this could be a sign of divine intervention, while others emphasize the need for scientific research to uncover the truth. The story has also reignited discussions around reproductive health, medical anomalies, and societal attitudes toward such extraordinary claims. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Kessben Online’s coverage of the event has attracted mixed reactions from readers and experts. Some argue that modern science should have definitive explanations for such cases, while others maintain that not every occurrence can be easily categorized or understood. This story also raises questions about the stigma attached to unconventional experiences and the importance of empathy when addressing such claims.

While the details surrounding the young woman’s pregnancy remain a mystery, her journey highlights the intersection of science, faith, and human curiosity. As her story continues to circulate, it serves as a reminder of the complexities of human life and the potential for the unexplained to challenge our understanding of the world.

 

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