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My Wife Refused To Give Me Sex After Giving Birth – What Should I Do?

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My wife and I met in a club while we were in school. She knows I can’t go a week or even a day without intimacy, and she was okay with it. In fact, she enjoyed it even more than I did. After school, we dated for two years, and I eventually proposed to her

One of the reasons I married her was because of our compatibility in bed. Since we got married, we’ve had intimacy like clockwork—three times a day, sometimes five, depending on our energy levels…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

My wife doesn’t work; I provide everything for our family. We agreed not to have children because she hated the idea of pregnancy and its effects on her body, and I also didn’t want children due to my own childhood experiences.

However, I discovered some pills under the bed, which I knew were for preventing pregnancy. When I confronted her, she admitted she was one month pregnant and wanted to keep the baby despite our agreement. She said she only agreed not to have children to keep me, hoping that marriage would change my mind. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

I reluctantly agreed to keep the baby, but since then, things have changed drastically. My wife’s body has changed, and I find her unattractive. It has even come to the point where I need to drink or get high to be intimate with her. She’s also been neglecting her duties at home, claiming she’s too busy with the baby, which has added to my frustration.

Now, it’s been ten days since she gave birth, and she refuses to be intimate with me, saying she’s busy with the baby. I’m annoyed that I can’t even touch my wife without feeling irritated by her milk. I’m considering looking elsewhere if she doesn’t return to her duties as my wife soon.

I want advice on how to handle this situation. Should I wait for her to recover, or is it time to seek other options? I’m also curious why women often seem to change their behavior drastically after marriage and childbirth

 

 

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5 reasons why men always cheat

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Cheating occurs when one partner betrays the other’s confidence and violates the promise of emotional and sexual exclusivity with them.

Being betrayed by someone you love deeply can be painful. People who are defrauded suffer greatly. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

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How and Why “Unknown Soldiers” Attacked Fela’s Home, Kalakuta Republic, in 1977

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Kalakuta Republic was the home of the late musician and political activist, Fela Anikulapo Kuti. The commune, located at No. 6 Agege Motor Rd., Moshalashi, Lagos, enclosed Fela’s recording studio, nightclub and a private clinic which was operated by his younger brother, Beko Ransome-Kuti. The two‐storey yellow building also housed Fela’s family and band members…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>> READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

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How The People of Ara-Ekiti Committed Mass Suicide To Avoid Enslavement in 1855?

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As at 1850, Ara was one of the most powerful towns in Ekiti with a settlement spanning as big as that of Ijaye in Egbaland. In August 1855, the people of Ara (also called Ara-Ekiti) committed mass suicide to avoid getting enslaved by Ibadan.

The mass suicide was initiated by the leader of Ara town, Alara Elejofi, who (with the help of his first son) destroyed his properties, killed his family and himself. Many other households in the town replicated this act, and when the Ibadan army arrived with their wide array of weaponry, they turned back at the gory sight of dead bodies that littered the town…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

Earlier, the people of Ara had rebelled against their former Alara (ruler) because of his bad governance and the grevious offences he had committed against his townspeople. He was exiled. It was during his exile that Chief Elejofi took over the rulership of the town.

The exiled Alara was not willing to let go of his throne and thus sought help from Ibadan. His request was granted because Ibadan, which as at then was gradually filling the vacuum created by the fall of Oyo, was hungry for towns to shove under its administration. The Ibadan army had just returned from an expedition in Ijebu-Ere and with their help, the deposed Alara returned to Ara and was fearfully accepted.

Shortly after Ibadan restored the deposed Alara of Ara, its army attacked Ikoro, another town in Ekiti, because they prevented Ibadan army from foraging on their crops, and also because there were rumours that Ikoro was planning to attack the Ibadan army. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

During the attack on Ikoro, some other towns in Ekiti, including Ara-Ekiti, tried to defended Ikoro. The restored Alara prevented his townspeople from joining the fight against Ibadan, hence another unrest ensued in the town. Ibadan eventually defeated Ikoro and went ahead to punish the towns that helped Ikoro during the war, including Ara.

During this period, Chief Elejofi had again taken over the rulership of Ara and held on to it for some months before it eventually crumbled due to starvation, and to avoid being enslaved by Ibadan, the people of Ara-Ekiti committed an unprecedented mass suicide. This incident is quite similar to the mass suicide of Igbo slaves off the U.S. coast in 1803.

The town of Ara was left deserted for many years before some of its exiled descendants returned home. Ara suicide remains one of the most disturbing chapters in the history of Ekiti and the entire Yoruba land.

 

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