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I was in His Bed One Day When He Came To Lie Over Me And Started Doing Things I Didn’t Expect –

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He pursued me for a very long time but I kept giving him no as an answer. He asked why. He talked about his dreams for me. He desperately wanted me to be his girlfriend. I didn’t want to because I didn’t see any fun in him.

His whole life was centred around the church. From work to church, from church to house. I wanted a man who had a fire in him. Who liked to have fun. I’m that kind of woman. I want to be taken out. A walk down the beach. A night stroll on an empty street just to catch up on things we missed during the day. I want to be all over the guy I’m dating but I didn’t see such things in the life of Aaron so I kept saying no to him…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

One day he told me, “I’m not here to waste your time or use you and dump you. I mean business. A year from now when you’re ready, we can settle down.”

From all the negative things I listed about him, there were positive things too. I wasn’t looking at those. I was fixated on what I didn’t like instead of looking at the good things in him. He had a good job. He was a good Christian. He was calm and was always measured when he talked to me. “I’ve been used and dumped before by those I thought had the qualities I wanted in a man. Why don’t I give this one a chance and see where the wind may take us?”

So one day I said yes to him. I went into the relationship with an open heart and a spirit to learn. It was new to me, the way he did his things but I was ready to learn.

I followed him to church sometimes and he called me at dawn to pray and do quiet time together. I didn’t know about quiet time. With him, I learned how to pray and how to meditate on the words and he made it clear at some point that we were not going to have sex until marriage. I didn’t like the idea but I was in the relationship to learn so I permitted myself to say yes to things that didn’t sit well with me.

I tried my best to also introduce him to things that I love. Like a stroll in the night and going to the beach at night just to put our footprints in the sand.

One night at the beach, he put his hand around my waist and pulled me to his side. We walked that way along the beach and when we finally sat down, he put his hand around my neck while we talked. It was the most romantic gesture he’d ever done since our relationship started four months ago.

I melted in his embrace. I wanted more but I was reminded every step of the way that my needs weren’t going to be met because he had told me no sex until marriage.

One day he kissed me. It was a lousy kiss that came out of nowhere but I took it as the greatest kiss I’d ever had since our relationship. I asked him why he kissed me and he said, “You mean I can’t kiss my girlfriend? My own girlfriend?” I answered, “Oh you can but you have to be firm with it. You don’t kiss your girlfriend as if you’re stealing a kiss from a stranger. Do it well if you want to.”

So we graduated from not doing anything at all to kissing once in a while. It was a step up but each time we did it, during our quiet time, we had to ask for forgiveness. In his eyes, it was a sin and we had allowed our carnalities to win so we had to apologize to God. Because of that, sometimes when he wanted to kiss me, I avoided it and reminded him not to sin.

I was in his bed one day when he came to lie over me and started doing things I didn’t expect him to do. He kissed and tried to touch me where he hadn’t touched me before. I wanted to be sure so I said, “Aaron, is that you? What are you trying to do?” He smiled and got off me. He said, “Sorry, I was trying to be naughty.”

It didn’t end there. Once in a while, he’ll try to have his way with me and I would remind him of his promise—his promise not to do it until marriage. He’ll stop.

I wanted it too. Every ounce of me wanted to be touched that way and be taken whichever way but I didn’t want to be called at dawn and ask to pray about it as if we committed a murder. I hate being made to feel guilty about things I enjoyed so I kept reminding him, putting him in line so he doesn’t go overboard. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

One night he tried again but I didn’t have the strength to say no. My hormones were all over the place because it’s been so long since I did such a thing. I felt starved so I let him go all the way until he fell off me with his sweaty skin. He was panting. He felt satisfied. He slept right after that. When he woke up he asked me, “What just happened?”

I answered, “Don’t ask me silly questions. Didn’t you see yourself doing what you were doing? Or you thought it was a dream?”

His mood went downhill. He didn’t talk again until I left his place. As expected, during quiet time, we prayed and asked for forgiveness of our sins. That prayer lasted longer than any prayer we’ve ever said. He was even crying on the phone, telling God it will never happen again. He made it sound like I was the temptress, the Eve who led her Adam to sin. I didn’t counter him because I knew God saw everything that happened. It wasn’t my initiative and God knew that.

From that day, anytime I tell him I’m coming around, he gives me reasons why I should not come to his place. Most of them were excuses and I saw through the lies. I asked, “What about a night stroll? We can go to the beach if you don’t want us to be alone in your room.” He answered, “Those are all grounds of temptation. It’s better we stay at our homes and watch TV and sleep.

For close to a month I didn’t see his face though we were not living far from each other. When I pushed him he told me, “You can come to church on Sunday if you want to see me.”

I went to church because of him and after church, I asked him questions. “How long are we going to remain this way? How long are you going to avoid me?”

He didn’t have answers. All he said was, “It’s the best for us to stay this way than be together and commit fornication.” I said, “Come off it. You’re not a child and you’re not innocent after all so why are you behaving this way?”

He put the blame on me for what happened. He said I led him to temptation and asked why I didn’t say no when it was going too far, “You’re a woman. You should have said no knowing what was at stake, but you didn’t. You should be the pillar that holds us in these times but if you can’t say no then what kind of pillar would you be when we marry?”

The whole conversation was annoying but I bore it all because I wanted to be us again. I wanted us to come back to normal, take a stroll at night and laugh again but however hard a tried, Aaron kept pulling away from me. In the last conversation we had he told me, “My spiritual life is deeply affected since that day. It looks like God is far away from me. When I pray he doesn’t listen to me. I feel empty but I’m trying. I’ll get God on my side again. I need time.”

Eiii…

As I write this, I don’t know whether I’m in a relationship with him or I’m alone in the relationship. All I get from him are excuses. It looks like it’s over but he can’t open his mouth and say it. I feel cheated so I told him, “Aaron, you promised you won’t use me and dump me but the way you’re behaving, it looks like that’s exactly what’s happening. After what happened that day, everything is going downhill and I don’t like it. If that’s your strategy to use and dump me, be clear so I can move on.”

He said I was speaking from the flesh and he wasn’t going to descend into the flesh with me.

I don’t know if I should go left or go right. I’m stuck in a relationship that has been anchored for months. I don’t know but it looks like he wants to frustrate me until I say it’s over. I don’t know. I don’t even know what the question should be because I feel I know the truth but I’m being in denial. Someone should tell me what the truth is. I should move on, right?

 

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Teen Boy Accepts Stranger’s Offer For Ride Home Not Knowing He Will Change His Home

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Life is about survival. Many people will wait for something incredible to happen to them. Others, make it happen themselves.

When you’re pushed to the brink, you can do the unthinkable. Chauncey Black, a teenager, felt that enough was enough. It was time for him to look fate in the eye.

While inside the Highland Kroger in the affluent part of town, he asked a stranger for a request. This would alter the course of his life.

Chauncey Black had a rough upbringing. Even though he lived with his mother, he was often unable to feed himself. There was just nothing to eat. He was basically starving…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

Ultimately, he decided he could do only one thing, and that was to go to a grocery store in the rich part of town.

Almost penniless, the young man found enough to cover his bus fare. His original plan was to ask shoppers if they needed help in exchange for food.

What ended up happening was nothing like he expected.

Once in the store, he asked a shopper if he could help carry their groceries to their car. He said he would do it for a box of donuts.

Matt White was the man he approached. Matt noted that Chauncey’s demeanor wasn’t the best at the time, but he admired his perseverance.

He then decided to ask Chauncey some questions to get a better understanding of his situation.

Matt learned that Chauncey lacked a phone and food. All he had was his bus pass.Matt White felt that a box of donuts wasn’t enough. Chauncey was clearly in need of aid.

Matt White then went around the Highland Kroger and picked out groceries to send him with the teenager. Matt purchased a “bit of everything” ranging from soap to pizza.

As they were chatting and shopping together, Matt also found out that Chauncey was an excellent academic. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

He was earning straight As in school and was seeking a part-time job to help out at home.

Even though Chauncey was down on his luck, Matt felt the optimism radiate from the teenager. Chauncey spoke on his ambitions of wealth and success.

After their little shopping spree, Matt gave Chauncey a ride home. What he saw shocked him.

Things were exactly as Chauncey said. The house lacked proper furniture and bedding. The mother and her son using sleeping bags as a mattress. Matt also noticed the empty fridge.

Chauncey’s mother suffers from a number of medical ailments that made it tough for her to even walk.

After Matt White’s touching goodbye with Chauncey Black, he decided that what he had done still wasn’t enough. He ended up beginning a GoFundMe in Chauncey’s name.

What happened next was amazing.

The GoFundMe ended up raising $341,000!! Initially, Chauncey was only seeking money to help pay for new clothing. Everything he and his mother owned was in shambles.

The money also allowed him the opportunity to begin funding his own business and sleep on a proper bed.

Strangers can sometimes deliver true kindness to each other. Apart from Matt’s efforts, the social media campaign to help Chauncey was truly incredible.

Even though he was the recipient of thousands of dollars through the GoFundMe, Chauncey still believed in the need for financial independence.

He is truly inspiring!

 

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Surgeons said it’s the worst case they have seen to date, removed over 2 lbs from his body!

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Per reports, the doctors were stunned when the 16-year-old boy came into the hospital complaining of pains in his midsection. He didn’t know why he was suffering and asked the doctors for help.

After discovering the stunning cause of the boy’s, Arjun, pain, the doctors had no choice but to operate. The teen showed up at the hospital complaining of the pain in his stomach. When the professional performed an endoscopy, they discover the unusual cause of his suffering. They had never seen anything like it, and this teen’s body was filled with something very unusual.

According to the doctors, the teenager from India reportedly had more than 2 pounds or 300 grams of wood and plastic inside his body that he had apparently eaten. So much of this stuff had gotten inside the teen. Doctors needed to operate twice to get it all out…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

And he may not be done with his surgery yet. Arjun faces another operation so doctors can be sure that he no longer has any of these foreign objects inside of his digestive tract. After the truth came out, Arjun admitted to doctors that he was addicted to chewing on plastic and wood pieces.

“Whenever we spotted him eating rubber, we would stop him from doing so, but he wouldn’t mend his ways,” his father, Gurmeet, a farmer, said. “Away from our sight, my son continued ingesting these items.

As time passed by he became addicted to this, but never complained of any problem.” Although his family knew that he was chewing on rubbers and wood, they weren’t able to stop the teenager from his odd habit. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

But Arjun was smarter than them. He knew that his family did not approve of his fixation, so he simply started doing it in private where no one would be able to see him. “We thought the boy has grown up and kicked the habit by himself, but that was not the truth. One and a half years ago, Arjun first complained of stomach pain.

Since then he has been suffering from acute stomach ache. We took him to several doctors, but nobody could diagnose what was the actual problem of the pain.” Although his family seemed to be in on Arjun’s secret addiction to wood and plastics, they did not inform the doctors, Yahoo News reports.

So the professionals went on the assumption that the boy had an ulcer. And when he started to lose weight and had trouble breathing, the doctors knew his case was dire and he needed to be healed. “Around a week ago, his condition started deteriorating after he complained of breathlessness and stopped eating altogether,” the father added.

“I am thankful to the doctors that saved the life of my son.” Because he ate so much wood and plastic, the materials formed a knot inside his intestines. It became so thick not even water could pass through his body.

 

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Doctor Realizes That What Mother Gave Birth To Were Not..

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In the realm of medical mysteries, there are few stories as perplexing and emotional as that of Karen and Frank, a couple whose lives were forever altered when their triplets were born. What started as a typical trip to the hospital quickly spiraled into a whirlwind of confusion, secrecy, and ultimately, relief.

Today, we delve into the incredible story of Karen’s unusual birth, the shocking revelations that followed, and the unexpected turn of events that led to a heartwarming resolution.

It all began when Karen felt the telltale signs of labor, prompting a hasty trip to the hospital. Frank, her husband, was there by her side, ready to welcome their three new bundles of joy into the world. Little did they know that this journey would be far from ordinary…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

Medical Mystery Unveiled : Upon Karen’s delivery, the doctor’s reaction was nothing short of bizarre. His pale face and inability to speak left the new parents in a state of anxiety. It was clear that something was friends, and more tests were urgently needed to ensure the safety of their triplets.

Parental Determination : As the doctor seemed unwilling to share information with the parents, tension began to mount. Frank’s determination to see his children drove him to take matters into his own hands. He ventured into the hospital’s research section to uncover the truth.

Late-Night Revelation : Karen, on the other hand, found herself locked in a room, isolated from her infants. This separation only fueled her determination to understand the secrets surrounding her children’s birth. Her relentless pursuit led her to a daring act in the middle of the night – breaking into the nursery to see her babies. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

DNA Testing and Shocking Discoveries : The mystery deepened when DNA testing revealed that Frank was the biological father of the triplets, but Karen’s DNA was nowhere to be found. It was a revelation that left everyone bewildered and Karen in a state of shock. What could possibly explain this peculiar situation?

The Doctor’s Revelation : Desperate for answers, the doctor decided to bring Frank and Karen in for a face-to-face meeting. Karen’s growing anxiety and Frank’s concern for the infants’ well-being were palpable. The doctor revealed the shocking truth – Karen’s cramped uterus had stunted the infants’ growth, leading to their small size.

A Glimpse of Hope : While the explanation was unexpected and initially disconcerting, it offered a glimmer of hope for Karen and Frank. They learned that their babies would gradually grow into healthy, typical-sized children. The medical mystery that had loomed over their lives was finally solved.

Conclusion : Karen and Frank’s journey, marked by secrecy, confusion, and a rollercoaster of emotions, is a testament to the unpredictable nature of life. It reminds us that sometimes, the most bewildering mysteries have the simplest explanations. Their story is a powerful reminder of the importance of resilience, hope, and the unwavering love of parents for their children, no matter the circumstances.

As we reflect on their remarkable journey, it reinforces the notion that in the face of adversity and the unknown, love and determination can ultimately prevail, bringing us to a brighter tomorrow.

 

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