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5 Things you should never tell your man until you get married

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December 2, 2024

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There is no question that partners in a relationship shouldn’t deceive or keep secrets from one another; nevertheless, there are always exceptions to any rule. If you care about your spouse and the relationship you have with him or her, I don’t think you should tell them the following.

1. You shouldn’t tell your significant other about your attractive friends.

I have a lot of fun chatting with my potential partners about which of my friends they think are the most “beautiful.” It’s possible that your partner will start to find defects in your appearance when comparing it to those of your friends, but it doesn’t mean you’re envious of their attractiveness…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

It is not necessary to inform him of the terrible state of affairs that prevailed prior to his arrival; 2.

2. If you tell a new acquaintance that your life was in disarray before you met them, there is a possibility that they will take offense at what you have to say. If you tell him that you’ve had several abortions prior to meeting him, he may get concerned that you won’t be able to have children of your own.

And if he is a horrible person, he may start devising methods to use you to promote his own objectives, such as destroying you, in order to further his own ends.

3. Do not let him know how much you despise your exes by bringing it up in conversation. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Resist the impulse to rant about how much you detest your ex-girlfriend to your current spouse about how much you hate her.

4. If you make your current partner hear nothing but negative comments about your previous partner, he will start to fear you. When they decide to stop their relationship, he might be concerned about what she will say about him to the people they have in common.

4. When you’re having a good time with him, it’s best not to gloat about how wonderful your former partner is.

When you are out having fun with your present boyfriend, it is unacceptable to talk about any former relationships you may have had. It’s best not to fawn about your previous partner to your present lover, lest he worry that you’ll dump him if he doesn’t live up to the ideal standards set by your previous partner. You shouldn’t tell him because he might think that you’re just like “those women,” who are only interested in having fun and doing the same thing to him. This is another reason why you shouldn’t tell him.

5 Don’t let him know you’re a virgin until after you’ve tied the knot.

It’s probable that telling a potential date that you’re still a virgin will make them less interested in dating you. If he finds out that you are a virgin, you shouldn’t give him the assurance that you won’t lose him till you are married; he might not want to continue with you. To acquire his respect, you must first educate yourself about him, then win his friendship, and then demonstrate mature behavior whenever you are in his presence. You will be taken aback by how much respect he has for you and the decisions you make.

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40-Year-Old SAPS Officer in trouble for allegedly raping a female prisoner, See what happened

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December 4, 2024

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A 40-year-old police constable, Siyabonga Morris Mbane, appeared in the Blue Downs Magistrate’s Court following allegations of rape at the Mfuleni Police Station. The accused, who was on duty as a cell guard at the time, allegedly assaulted a female detainee, raising serious concerns about the safety of individuals in police custody.

This distressing event occurs against a backdrop of widespread police misconduct in South Africa, where public trust in law enforcement has been severely eroded. Recent statistics paint a grim picture, with 61% of citizens believing that “most” or “all” police officers are involved in corrupt activities. The country also grapples with alarmingly high rates of sexual offenses, with approximately 53,500 cases reported in the 2022/2023 fiscal year, 80% of which were rape cases…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

The incident at Mfuleni Police Station underscores the inadequacies in existing protocols and safety measures for detainees in South African police lockups. These facilities, intended for short-term stays, often suffer from overcrowding, poor lighting, and inadequate ventilation. More critically, they lack essential safety features such as emergency buzzers, leaving detainees vulnerable and reliant on shouting for help in emergencies. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

The impact of such incidents on community trust is profound. Only about one-third of South Africans express trust in the police, with the percentage of those who do not trust the police at all increasing significantly over the years. This lack of trust is particularly concerning in cases of sexual assault, where victims may be reluctant to report crimes due to fear of further victimization or inaction by the police.

In response to the pervasive issue of sexual assault, South Africa has established various support services for victims. These include Thuthuzela Care Centres, which provide comprehensive medical, counseling, and legal assistance, and organizations like Rape Crisis and POWA, offering free counseling and support. However, the effectiveness of these services is undermined by the very institutions meant to protect citizens.

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A Cop Who Slept With A Woman Twice In A Cell Has Been Arrested

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A police constable, Siyabonga Mbane, has been arrested and charged with the rape of a 26-year-old woman detained at the Mfuleni SAPS police station. The incident occurred on Thursday, November 28, 2024, when Mbane allegedly removed the woman from her holding cell and took her to an empty cell where he raped her twice.

According to reports, the woman had been locked up with five other suspects on Friday, November 29, on allegations of kidnapping and attempted murder. Following the incident, Mbane allegedly returned the woman to her cell, where she reported the incident to the morning shift officers…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

The Independent Police Investigative Directorate (Ipid) has taken over the investigation, and Mbane appeared in the Blue Downs Magistrates Court on Monday, December 2. The case has been postponed to Monday, December 9, for a bail application.

Police spokesman, Lieutenant-Colonel Malcolm Pojie, confirmed the arrest and stated that the matter is being handled by Ipid. Ipid spokesman, Phaladi Shuping, also confirmed the arrest and appearance of Mbane in court ¹.

This incident raises serious concerns about the conduct of police officers and the safety of detainees in police custody. It is essential that the investigation is thorough and justice is served. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

The incident is a stark reminder of the need for accountability and transparency within the police service. It is crucial that police officers are held to the highest standards of conduct and that any allegations of misconduct are thoroughly investigated.

In a similar incident in the United States, a police officer, Maegan Hall, was fired and charged with sexual misconduct after it was alleged that she had sex with multiple male officers while on duty ².

The incident highlights the need for police departments to take allegations of misconduct seriously and to take swift action against officers who engage in such behavior.

In conclusion, the arrest of Constable Siyabonga Mbane is a step in the right direction towards holding police officers accountable for their actions. It is essential that the investigation is thorough and justice is served to ensure that the public has trust in the police service.

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Man who ravished and impregnated 12-year-old girl spent only 6 months in jail, but ‘when the victim heard the judge’s ruling she screamed in disbelief’!

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Per reports, the then-18-year-old defendant, Christopher, reportedly abducted 12-year-old girl, Tiffany, took her to an abandoned house, and r-ped her for 2 days.

Prosecutors said that the child ended up pregnant. Unfortuantely, her r-pist only spent 6 months in jail, but 9 years later, a judge made a new ruling and when the victim heard it, she screamed in horror and disbelief.

“She, her 13-year-old sister, and a friend all slipped out of their house one night to meet a boy and the boy’s older friend, Christopher, showed up and asked if they wanted to go for a ride,” explained the victim’s attorney, Rebeca. “They thought they were going to McDonald’s or somewhere…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

“Instead, he tossed their cellphones away, drove to another city where he stole gas from a station and then drove back, where he kept them captive for 2 days in a vacant house near a relative, finally releasing the older sister in a park,” Rebeca said. “He threatened to kill them if they told anyone what happened.” A month later, Christopher was arrested, and Tiffany was pregnant.

Although the assault potentially carried a penalty of life or a term no less than 25 years, the defendant was given a plea deal by the Prosecutor’s Office. He pleaded guilty to attempted third-degree criminal se-ual conduct and was only sentenced to one year in the county jail. He only served six and a half months, however, before being granted early release to care for his sick mother.

According to Rebeca, Tiffany and her family were told first-time se* offenders weren’t sent to prison because people come out worse after they go there. In Christopher’s case, however, he should have been kept locked up, which he proved shortly after, when he committed another se* assault, this time on a 14-year-old victim. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Sadly, he only served four years for his second offense, and it wouldn’t be the last Tiffany heard of him. After changing her entire life to care for her son, Tiffany’s frightening ordeal involving her abuser came back to haunt her when she applied for state aid.

While receiving government assistance, Tiffany was told that if she did not disclose who was the father of her child, she would lose her benefits. But, things got so much worse when she named Christopher.

Not only was her ra-ist given the rape victim’s address and his name ordered to be added to the child’s birth certificate, Christopher was awarded joint legal custody by Judge Ross after DNA testing established paternity of the child. The judge granted parenting time and joint legal custody of the now-8-year-old boy to a convicted se* offender who r-ped his mother nine years before.

“This is insane,” said Rebeca, who filed objections, seeking protection under the federal R-pe Survivor Child Custody Act. This entire custody case was initiated by the court, not the biological father.

“Chris was notified of the paternity matter and an order of filiation was issued last month by the court saying he had joint legal custody and reasonable visitation privileges,” Barbara, Christopher’s attorney, said, according to CBS News.

Luckily, Supreme Court spokesman Nevin later announced that Judge Ross didn’t know the man had two criminal s-xual conduct convictions, including one concerning the woman. The judge has rescinded the controversial order, but Christopher is still on the hook for child support.

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