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I Married The Perfect Man But My Body Doesn’t Want Him –

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He ticked all my boxes. He was exactly everything I wanted in a man. I looked at all his amazing qualities and said, “Finally, I have met the man I want to spend the rest of my life with.” Our connection was beautiful. I was so excited about the kind of intimacy we shared that I did not pay attention to physical attraction. What I mean is, that I did not stop to consider whether or not I felt aroused by him.

We courted for ten months and got married in the eleventh month. Before we tied the knot, we had Shuperu a few times. All those times we did it, I was not properly lubricated. He did all the right things but my body just did not react to him enough to secrete the juices needed to make the experience pleasurable. I ended up getting hurt every time…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

I did not take it seriously when this happened. I just convinced myself that I was experiencing low sex drive. It happens when there’s a lot going on in a person’s life. And with the marriage preparations and everything I was handling, I just labeled my lack of arousal as stress-induced. When we finally got married too, I didn’t feel anything when he touched me. The only time my body reacted to him was when I had drunk alcohol. So I became reluctant whenever he wanted to have intimacy.

I would tell him, “I can’t do it today. I have a headache.” On other days I would use the classic excuse, “My red river is flowing so we can’t do it.” He got suspicious when the excuses kept getting unreasonable as time passed. I could get my “period” two weeks apart. This continued until I got pregnant and had a baby. After the baby arrived, I even stopped yearning for intimacy. I look at the beautiful man I married and feel no desire. It was as if he was made of wood.

Or maybe I was made of wood. Sometimes when we are doing it, it’s nice. But when we finish, I get bruises. That’s why he has to talk, talk, and talk before I give consent to do it. He hates it when this happens but I can’t help it. I have gone to buy some aphrodisiacs to help me get in the mood but it doesn’t work. My husband does a lot of foreplay but I still end up as dry as a cactus by the time he is ready to go all in. When it gets to that point, I don’t want to leave him hanging so I just let him do it anyway, knowing very well that my kitty would end up bruised.

A while ago, I came into contact with an ex-boyfriend of mine. We reminisced about the good old days and the conversation got sexual. While we were talking I realized that I was getting wet so I just cut off communication with him.

As tempting as it was, I didn’t want to go down that rabbit hole. Even though that conversation was wrong, it taught me that my body is not broken. I don’t have a low libido like I believed. I just don’t have sexual feelings for my husband. He is still the good man I married. It’s been two years since we said our marriage vows yet nothing about him has changed. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

I should be basking in marital bliss but here I am, the only way I enjoy Shuperu with my man and not get hurt afterward is if I drink alcohol.

He sat me down the other day and asked me, “What do I do so wrong in the bedroom that you always turn me away when I am in the mood? Sometimes I have to talk and suffer before you let me do it even once.

Do you not love me?” It was hard for me to admit but I couldn’t keep lying to him. I came clean, “Of course I love you. You are all I have ever wanted in a man. I couldn’t have asked for a better husband than you. It’s just that I am not attracted to you sexually.

I am trying to make it work but I don’t feel anything when you touch me.” He was hurt. He told me, “I think you just liked me because I ticked all your boxes. But you don’t actually love me. If you did, the attraction would come naturally.” He blames me for putting us in this situation. Some Myths About Adoption In Ghana You Need To Stop Believing

He said I should have let him go when I knew right from the start that a problem like this existed. He is asking for a separation. “I don’t understand why I should have a wife that I cannot sleep with,” he says. I am just as hurt and sad as he is.

I feel so drained by this issue. I want to know if it is normal that I love my husband but feel nothing for him sexually. Is there a remedy for this problem? If there is anything I can do to resolve this, I will gladly do it. I am so afraid that this thing will result in a divorce.

 

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If You Notice This Bug in Your Home, Call Expert Services Immediately! Do Not Try to Handle It on Your Own! Consider How Dangerous It Can Be

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The insect depicted above is a fearsome beast, ranking as the most dangerous insect on our planet!

To begin, it is critical to recognize that this bug is a carrier of a highly dangerous disease known as «American Trypanosomiasis.» This sickness is a serious hazard to both humans and animals, and it frequently has fatal consequences!

This insect is known as Chagas in some areas.

Texans have direct knowledge of the dangers posed by these venomous insects. It’s incredible to believe that they survive on both human and animal blood.

During their bite, these insects introduce a portion of their saliva into the skin, which is the root cause of fatality…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

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Another surprising discovery is that Chagas bugs serve as assassins. Individuals may not even recognize they are infected in the early stages.

Anaphylactic shock is the most common sign of this condition, and choking fits have been recorded in certain cases.

Initial symptoms are easily confused with those of a regular flu or cold.

If you find this insect in your home, you must immediately contact professional services and seek medical assistance. It is critical to respond quickly!

Please keep in mind that these insects are usually found beneath rocks, in wall cracks, on staircases, in forests, and in general, in natural settings!

 

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Parents already had two young boys and hoped for a baby girl, ‘instead got something much better’!

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All children, whether boys or girls are a blessing, yet, there are some things that only parents of little girls can enjoy. “Sugar and spice and all that’s nice, that’s what little girls are made of.”

Everyone has heard this rhyme, and a truer rhyme has never been sung. Little girls can be sweet as can be, but they each have some spice and have their flavours making them unique and special in their own ways.

Angie and her husband, Geno, already had two young boys when they heard the good news. They were going to have another child. They hoped for a girl, so they couldn’t have been more thrilled when they learned what Angie was carrying in her stomach: not one or two, but three girls! They named the little ones Daniella, Camilla, and Anabella…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

But as with any multiple birth, the was a danger of complications occurring. Two of the fetuses shared a placenta and ran the risk of not developing properly.

Doctors believed that these two babies were at risk of being born with underdeveloped lungs and brain hemorrhaging. Time passed and after a while, the doctors noticed an important detail: one of the two fetuses sharing a placenta wasn’t getting enough little fluid, while the other was getting too much. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Finally when Angie was in week 27 of her pregnancy, she was forced to move to the hospital so she could be under constant supervision. She didn’t want to be away apart from her family, but she didn’t have a choice.

“Anything could happen between now and my due date,” said Angie from her hospital bed. When we meet the family in the video below, it’s almost time for the miracle.

At the 3:54 mark, doctors bring Angie to the maternity ward. It’s time for their three little stars, as Gino calls them, to enter the world. I’ve never seen such a personal depiction of a triplet birth before. It really is a true miracle

 

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Who was this Stranger who allowed a worried 96-year-old woman hold his arm on the plane, carry her bag, and stay with her until she reached her family?

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When an old lady who hadn’t flown in 15 years arrived to see family and was worried about flying, a polite stranger seated next to her offered her his arm to grip, and she was comforted as they held hands the entire flight.

Megan Ashley was flying from San Diego to Nashville when she overheard a conversation between a 96-year-old woman and a young man in the seat next to her.

«The seat next to me on my flight from San Diego to Nashville today was occupied by a 96-year-old lady who hadn’t traveled in 15 years,» Megan wrote in an online post.

The elderly lady was flying to see her family for her birthday but had not flown in 15 years and was concerned. «She wanted to travel to Kansas City to meet her family for her birthday, but she was afraid of flying…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

She told the young man sitting next to her that she hadn’t flown in a long time and asked if she may hold his hand if she was nervous. He eagerly agreed and held her hand to comfort her. «She requested this man’s hand before takeoff and then held him again amid turbulence.» READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

This stranger cheerfully held her hand, let her hang onto him, soothed her by chatting to her, explained everything that was going on, and was just that stranger there for her.

He knew just what to do the entire trip to help.» He helped her up when she needed to use the restroom, and after their trip, he kept her bags for her, walked her to her wheelchair, and waited with her until she reached her family. «He assisted her in getting up to use the restroom and gently followed her down the aisle.» He made me smile the whole way as he comforted her. He was her guardian angel.

He carried her suitcase, assisted her in getting off the aircraft and into the wheelchair, and when she became concerned about where her daughter had gone, he waited with her until she found her daughter, who had been separated from her.”

Megan was brought to tears after seeing the stranger’s kindness and sensitivity for this 96-year-old grandmother.

 

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