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Heartbroken Widow Hounded By In-Laws To Return Wedding Ring After Husband’s Passing

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It’s difficult to get over the loss of someone special in your life. It’s crucial to grieve and lament their passing until you’re ready to go on with your life. One sad widow has been fighting to move on from her husband’s death, and her in-laws have been completely unhelpful. They have, in fact, done the exact opposite and made her life a living hell.

The social media user detailed how she lost her longtime partner roughly six months ago in a post to Reddit on July 2, 2021. They had been together for seven years and had been blissfully married for one and a half of those years…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

It’s been extremely difficult for her to grieve the loss of someone she adored, and her in-laws haven’t helped matters by demanding that she hand up the jewelry that Daniel, her late husband, had purchased for her. Daniel had given the nameless woman an engagement ring, wedding ring, and eternity band over the course of their relationship.

The wife, who was still grieving over her husband’s death, couldn’t understand why his family demanded she surrender her jewelry to them. The message has since been removed, but it has been circulating the internet and has created a discussion in response to the widow’s request for help on how to deal with the difficult circumstance.

While some believe it is understandable that the family would want something to remember their son by, others have stood by the widow, who is also grieving.

According to Cafe Mom, the Reddit poster did not provide any information but did say that Daniel perished in an accident. He had previously given her an engagement ring, wedding ring, and eternity band as a wedding anniversary present to commemorate their first year of marriage.

Following Daniel’s untimely demise, the heartbroken wife voiced her heartbreak. Though she did not go into detail about what caused her husband’s death, her anguish was palpable in her post. “It still doesn’t feel real,” she added, “but every day I’m trying to live life the way he’d want me to.”

“I haven’t had much touch with his family since the burial six months ago,” the OP said, “I assume we were all suffering and needed to recover.”

She went on to say that she had received a call from her sister-in-law at the time she was writing her article, and their conversation had surprised her. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

“My SIL wants me to return all the rings to them because they claim Daniel paid for them and they now belong to the family because he died,” the widow added. She was adamant about keeping the rings since they remind her of the finest period of her life. “His family is pressuring me to give them these rings,” she wrote. “I’m not sure if they merely want to sell or own them.”

Being asked to return something of such importance is tremendously distressing for anyone, and she had no idea what to do when she was put in this situation.

To top it off, the OP had not anticipated her husband’s family treating her in this manner only six months after his death. Unfortunately, her family has turned against her. “Daniel and I didn’t have kids,” she added, “so I guess I’m (no) longer family.”

The OP was torn between what to do and whether she was justified in being insulted by their request. When she asked for guidance on what she should do, Reddit users came through and offered their support to the bereaved widow.

According to Cafe Mom, one person said, “Asking for a widow’s wedding bands six months after losing her spouse is extremely messed up.” “He paid for them… as gifts for you,” said another. “And because you were his wife, unless he left you a will, his assets will go to you.”

In the comments, there was a lot of sympathy for the OP, and one person even suggested that she go the legal way and said, “Actually, I’d pay an attorney to issue a cease-and-desist letter for the harassment. Even if these rings were heirlooms, the ex-ILs have no claim to them.” “The brutality to a recent widow is amazing,” the commenter said.

The OP has not provided any updates on her current status or what she ended up doing, but it is encouraging to see that she found assistance from an unlikely source after going through such a difficult period.

 

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I Just Met This Guy, He Took Me To a Hotel When We Got There, What He Did Left Me Outraged

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I walked into an eatery one afternoon to order takeout. While I waited for my food I kept busy with my phone. A man walked up to me with determination on his face. He smiled and said “Hello my name is Victor. I have been trying to get your attention from my table over there (he points to a far-off table). READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

You didn’t even blink in my direction.” I looked at him and said “Sorry I’ve been engrossed with my phone.” He said “I can see that. I suppose that’s how to get your attention, through your phone. Can you give me your number then?” I didn’t mind giving…Read Full Story Here……..

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1999 Toronto Saga: How Former Speaker, Salisu Buhari, Declared False Age and Forged University Certificate

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On the 3rd of June, 1999, Salisu Buhari, a 29-year-old Nigerian businessman who made his fortune dealing in computers, was elected as the speaker of the House of Representatives in Nigeria, a position which constitutionally made him the fourth most important person in Nigeria.

Unknowing to his colleagues, the government and the whole of Nigeria, Salisu Buhari was not qualified for the office he occupied. Few weeks after he was elected, findings revealed that Salisu Buhari, the sixth Speaker of the House of Rep. forged his way to power…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

The News Magazine released an article on the 19th of July, 1999 claiming that Salisu Buhari is seven years younger than the 36 years he claimed to be and that he didn’t attend the University of Toronto in Canada not to talk of graduating from the institution. The News Magazine had more than enough proofs to back their claims thus suppressing all threats made by Salisu Buhari and his lawyers to sue them for libel.

Salisu Buhari
Salisu Buhari

It was made known to the world that Salisu Buhari, the self-acclaimed Toronto University graduate, was actually born in 1970 and not in 1963 which he claimed. This rendered him unqualified to be the Speaker as section 65 subsection 1 of the 1999 constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria disqualified anybody under 30 years from contesting membership of the House of Representatives.

Also, it was made known that Salisu Buhari didn’t attend the University of Toronto in Canada not to talk of graduating with a degree in Business Administration in 1990. The University of Toronto, when asked, denied knowing Salisu Buhari. The management said they couldn’t find any record relating to the his name. Carlo Villanueva, an official of the Institution said,

Regarding your request for confirmation of degree for Mr. Ibrahim Salisu Buhari. We have searched our records and could not find anybody with the name you are inquiring with”.

Letter from University of Toronto
Letter from University of Toronto

Also, Salisu claimed that he did his national youth service at Standard Construction in Kano. This was proven false as records at the NYSC secretariat in Abuja could not produce his name among the 1991 corps members who served in the scheme. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Blocked in every way, he had no means of escape. After several open denial of the allegations and threats to sue The News Magazine, Salisu Buhari, on Thursday, July 23, 1999, eventually faced Nigerians and admitted declaring false age and forging certificate. In tears, he said,

“I apologize to you. I apologize to the nation. I apologize to my family and friends for all the distress I have caused them. I was misled in error by the zeal to serve the nation, I hope the nation will forgive me and give me the opportunity to serve again.”

He then resigned and walked into the shadows. In 2013, he made his return to the news and the public space when he was appointed as a member of the governing council of the University of Nigeria by President Goodluck Jonathan’s administration.

Normally, the move garnered a lot of criticism. In a feeble attempt to justify the appointment, the Nigerian government explained that Buhari’s apology had earned him a presidential pardon from President Olusegun Obasanjo.

 

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The Man Called Adegoke Adelabu ‘Penkelemesi’

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Joseph Gbadamosi Adegoke Adelabu alias Adelabu Penkelemesi was a colossal in the political arena of Ibadan and the then Western Region before the independence of Nigeria in 1960.

He was born in Oke-Oluokun, Ibadan, on September 3, 1915 to Mr. Sanusi Ashiyanbi Adelabu and Mrs. Awujola Adelabu. At the tender age of five, Adegoke Adelabu lost his mother and then lived with his paternal aunt. Adegoke Adelabu attended St. David’s C.M.S School in Kudeti, Ibadan from 1925 to 1929; CMS Central School, Mapo, Ibadan in 1930 and Government College, where he was a head boy, from 1931 to 1936…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

In 1936, Adegoke won a U.A.C scholarship to study commerce in Yaba Higher College but eventually left the college six months later to work as an assistant to the UAC Ibadan district manager. After working with UAC for sometime, he was promoted to an Assistant Manager due to his hard and clever work. However, he left UAC in 1937 to start a business of his own which was unsuccessful. He later took up a civil service job, then returned to UAC in 1945 only to leave after a short period to start a textile trading business which was successful.

After acquiring little wealth from his textile business, Adegoke Adelabu got involved in politics. The starting point of his political career was traced to the period when Ibadan lineage chiefs (Mogajis) rose against Salami Agbaje, the then Otun Balogun of Ibadan, from becoming the Olubadan of Ibadan. In 1951, during the local elections, Adelabu and some other political elements formed a new party called the Ibadan People’s Party to challenge the already established Ibadan Progressive Union and fortunately for Adelabu, the new party won all six seats to the Western Regional Assembly. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

However, the Ibadan People’s Party broke apart after an informal alliance with NCNC was proposed by Adelabu. Adegoke Adelabu stayed with NCNC and became the secretary of the party’s Western Province Working Committee. In 1954, Adelabu became the chairman of Ibadan District Council. Also, in the Federal elections of 1954, Adegoke Adelabu won a seat to the House of Representatives and later became the First National Vice President of NCNC and appointed Minister of Social Services. He held this post along with his chairmanship of the Ibadan district council.

He later resigned from both positions after allegations of corruption by the opposition party, Action Group.
In 1956, Adelabu ran for a seat in the regional assembly as the leader of NCNC in the Western Region but his party lost majority seats to Action Group thus making Adelabu the leader of opposition in the Western House of Assembly.
Adegoke Adelabu alias Adelabu Penkelemesi was a strong politician, leader and had his ground, a firm ground, in Ibadan. He was found of using the phrase “Peculiar mess” whenever he address the public. The non-literate segment of his followers who had never heard of the words peculiar and mess and never knew its meaning Yorubanized the phrase into “Penkelemesi” and then added it to his name- Adegoke Adelabu Penkelemesi. The people so much loved Adelabu. He was indeed a ‘man of the people’. OldNaija gathered that when he became the Minister of Labour, he was given an official limousine car which he drove to Ibadan to show his friends and followers and declared that the car belonged to them, not him. Also, when Adelabu was given an official residence in Ikoyi, the most exquisite part of Lagos inhabited mostly by the British and French, he called drummers from his hometown to celebrate the success which the British and French residents found disturbing. Adegoke Adelabu simply said, “If they do not like noise and drumming, they are free to go back to their own country.” Adegoke Adelabu admitted being an egoist in a book he wrote in 1952 titled ‘Africa In Ebullition: Being a handbook of freedom for Nigerian nationalists’.

Adegoke Adelabu and Obafemi Awolowo
Adegoke Adelabu and Obafemi Awolowo

On March 25, 1958, at the age of 43, Adegoke Adelabu met his untimely death in a fatal car accident on the Lagos-Ibadan expressway. His death sparked protest and chaos in Ibadan as many of his supporters claimed he was assassinated by his opponents with juju. Several properties were destroyed and people also lost their lives. The police arrested over 500 persons of whom 102 was charged with murder and others discharged and some, jailed. It was indeed a big loss, a “peculiar miss” for the people of Ibadan.

 

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