I’ve been married to my husband Paul for over 3 years now. This is my second marriage, and the same is for Paul. We’re quite happy in our relationship, because it’s mature, stable and transparent. We both have been working hard on achieving that level of mutual understanding and trust that we now have in our family…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>
Everything seemed good so far, but there’s a problem that doesn’t allow us to move forward with our happy marriage. And this problem is Paul’s expectations from me towards his child, Ella.
Paul has a child from his previous marriage. His daughter Ella is 8. Paul was open about the child from the beginning of our relationship. He has Ella every two weeks on weekends. I’ve always told him that’s fine, I have absolutely no problem with it. I believe he can spend time with her as much as he wants, and I won’t make a fuss about it. If he wanted to include me, I would always happily join on activities as well.
But I also made it clear to my husband that I’m not Ella’s parent, that’s him and his ex. Of course, I would look after the girl if she was left with me, I never ignored her. I cooked too when she was with us, and if she wanted to talk or play with me, I’d do that too.
But I refuse to parent her. I was clear about that. If Ella did something that required grounding, for example, I would not be the one to tell her and ground or punish her. That’s a parent’s duty, which I am not.
10 months ago Paul lost his job and since he couldn’t find a new one fast enough, he got evicted from the apartment he had been living in before we moved in together. He kept that apartment even after our marriage, and we both thought that was fine. I have my own house, and I live in it, Paul lived in that apartment and worked from there, this was the model of marriage we had agreed on, and we did find it convenient. But since he lost that apartment, I told him he can move in with me.
I got a spare room, which I turned into a bedroom for Ella, so she has a comfortable place to stay when she’s with us. Things went totally fine the whole time, just last week Paul sat me down for a serious talk. He told me that his ex-wife found out about his new living situation and since she’s living in an apartment, she told Paul it would be way better if Ella lives full time with us and visits her twice a month.
I was totally furious, and you can probably understand my feelings. Without talking to me first about it, my husband agreed to that and presented it to me like ’Honey, please be happy! Our little girl will be full time with us now’ to which I laughed, cause I thought he was joking. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>
Unfortunately Paul wasn’t joking at all. I turned him down instantly and told him I’m not ok with that, not at all. Though I don’t work from home, I just never wanted kids and that point didn’t change, and Paul had been fine with that before.
My husband tried to guilt-trip me, saying that it’s not ok that Ella has to live in an apartment now. He said he just wants to provide her a better living situation. To which I reminded him that this is my house, not his. So it’s my decision who lives here permanently and not his, especially not behind my back.
Paul got angry and told me that I emasculated him by saying things like this, and I needed to apologize. I quickly got up and brought his suitcase, told him to get his stuff and move out of my house. He said he would file for divorce.
Stella added, “After Paul left, his ex started blowing up my phone. She keeps telling me what an evil person I am to take stability from Ella, and called me a monster. I told her that she’s the mother and providing stability is her burden, not mine. Though I feel like my decision was justified, I still feel guilty about Ella in this situation. What should I do?”
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There Are Only Two Genders!’ Trump Vows United State Will Only Recognize Male and Female After Day One Executive Order to ‘End the Transgender Lunacy (Video)
At a MAGA conference in Arizona on Sunday, president-elect Donald Trump gave a speech where he laid out plans for his presidency.
He said that on his very first day in office, he will sign an executive order to stop what he called “transgender lunacy.” Trump declared that the official policy of his government will recognize only two genders: male and female. Trump made several promises about actions he will take on day one. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>
He said he will ban transgender individuals from serving in the military and remove transgender topics from…..Read Full Story Here…………….
On the farm owned by Igor, there was always an atmosphere of love and care for animals, which was felt even from a distance. Here, among green meadows and cozy paddocks, his parents were engaged in breeding cattle and horses, and from early childhood, Igor spent a lot of time caring for horses. These graceful creatures reciprocated his feelings, and real friendships began between them.
At 48 years old, Igor was faced with a difficult and unexpected situation when he learned of a sick foal named Snowball, who was about to be euthanized due to his serious condition and lack of hope for recovery. Despite urgent warnings that this decision was the only correct one, Igor, full of compassion, decided to buy Snowball, hoping to restore his joy in life and give him a chance for recovery…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>
Returning to his farm, Igor immediately began caring for the foal, who needed his attention and love. He called a veterinarian, who, unfortunately, confirmed the sad diagnosis: Snowball’s chances of survival were extremely small, and many were already beginning to lose hope.
However, Igor, despite the gloomy forecasts, was determined to help his new friend. He looked after Snowball every day, devoting all his time and energy to him, caring for his health and well-being. Igor monitored his nutrition, provided comfortable conditions for recovery, and even spent hours next to him, giving him his support. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>
To the surprise of everyone, the foal, showing incredible resilience and fortitude, survived and became a strong and energetic horse that delighted everyone with its presence and energy. Over time, Igor fell ill and was unable to continue caring for the animals, but Snowball, despite his owner’s illness, continued to take care of him, remaining close by.
One day, Igor died of a heart attack, and his family began preparations for the funeral. However, Snowball could not come to terms with the loss of his friend. He threw off the coffin lid and sniffed Igor’s body, showing concern. To the surprise of everyone, Igor woke up and exclaimed that he was almost buried alive. A doctor present at the funeral explained that Igor had experienced catalepsy, a condition in which a person temporarily loses consciousness but remains alive. Snowball became a real savior, who brought his owner back to life and prevented him from leaving for another world.
In a small village, lost among green fields and forests, something unusual happened. One day, early in the morning, an old woman named Maria, known for her kind heart and caring for others, decided to go for a walk with a cart and horse. She was always looking for opportunities to help those in need, but on this day, an unexpected find awaited her.
As Maria drove past one of the fields, something unusual caught her attention. On the ground, among the tall grasses, lay a young man. He looked exhausted and lifeless, and, coming closer, Maria realized that the guy was unconscious. Without hesitation, she called her neighbors for help and then carefully carried him onto her cart…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>
The neighbors, hearing about what had happened, gathered around, looking at the stranger in shock. They immediately called an ambulance. When paramedics arrived, they quickly assessed the young man’s condition and, making sure he was safe, admitted him to a nearby hospital.
The guy came to his senses only a few hours later. Opening his eyes, he saw around him people in white coats and unfamiliar faces. He tried to remember who he was and where he came from, but his head was empty. The only thing he remembered was the kindness of the old woman who found him and brought him to the village.
Meanwhile, the police began an investigation. They tried to find out what happened to the young man, where he came from, and how he ended up in the field. Neighbors, hearing about his plight, began discussing how they could help. Some suggested organizing a fundraiser for his treatment, while others suggested writing to local newspapers, hoping that someone would find out about the missing man. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>
Old Maria often visited him in the hospital. She brought him fruit and books, trying to keep his spirit up. The guy was grateful to her for everything she did, and with each visit, he felt that his life was filled with warmth and hope. Even though he could not remember his past, he began to build new dreams.
With the help of Maria and the locals, he gradually adapted to life in the village, and soon became part of their community. The people around him became his new family, and the old lady became his guardian angel.
The police continued to investigate, and one day, after receiving information about the missing man, they were able to identify him. It turned out that the guy was from a neighboring city and had run away from home, unable to cope with the problems that haunted him. Now, he had the opportunity to start over, and he decided to take this chance.
With the help of the old woman’s kindness and the support of new friends, he was able not only to rebuild his life but also to find his place in the world. In the village, he found not only a home but also the meaning that he had once dreamed of.