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I Don’t Want My Husband’s 8-Year-Old Daughter to Live in Our House, He Is Threatening Me With a Divorce

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I’ve been married to my husband Paul for over 3 years now. This is my second marriage, and the same is for Paul. We’re quite happy in our relationship, because it’s mature, stable and transparent. We both have been working hard on achieving that level of mutual understanding and trust that we now have in our family…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

Everything seemed good so far, but there’s a problem that doesn’t allow us to move forward with our happy marriage. And this problem is Paul’s expectations from me towards his child, Ella.

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Paul has a child from his previous marriage. His daughter Ella is 8. Paul was open about the child from the beginning of our relationship. He has Ella every two weeks on weekends. I’ve always told him that’s fine, I have absolutely no problem with it. I believe he can spend time with her as much as he wants, and I won’t make a fuss about it. If he wanted to include me, I would always happily join on activities as well.

But I also made it clear to my husband that I’m not Ella’s parent, that’s him and his ex. Of course, I would look after the girl if she was left with me, I never ignored her. I cooked too when she was with us, and if she wanted to talk or play with me, I’d do that too.
But I refuse to parent her. I was clear about that. If Ella did something that required grounding, for example, I would not be the one to tell her and ground or punish her. That’s a parent’s duty, which I am not.

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10 months ago Paul lost his job and since he couldn’t find a new one fast enough, he got evicted from the apartment he had been living in before we moved in together. He kept that apartment even after our marriage, and we both thought that was fine. I have my own house, and I live in it, Paul lived in that apartment and worked from there, this was the model of marriage we had agreed on, and we did find it convenient. But since he lost that apartment, I told him he can move in with me.

I got a spare room, which I turned into a bedroom for Ella, so she has a comfortable place to stay when she’s with us. Things went totally fine the whole time, just last week Paul sat me down for a serious talk. He told me that his ex-wife found out about his new living situation and since she’s living in an apartment, she told Paul it would be way better if Ella lives full time with us and visits her twice a month.

I was totally furious, and you can probably understand my feelings. Without talking to me first about it, my husband agreed to that and presented it to me like ’Honey, please be happy! Our little girl will be full time with us now’ to which I laughed, cause I thought he was joking. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

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Unfortunately Paul wasn’t joking at all. I turned him down instantly and told him I’m not ok with that, not at all. Though I don’t work from home, I just never wanted kids and that point didn’t change, and Paul had been fine with that before.

My husband tried to guilt-trip me, saying that it’s not ok that Ella has to live in an apartment now. He said he just wants to provide her a better living situation. To which I reminded him that this is my house, not his. So it’s my decision who lives here permanently and not his, especially not behind my back.

Paul got angry and told me that I emasculated him by saying things like this, and I needed to apologize. I quickly got up and brought his suitcase, told him to get his stuff and move out of my house. He said he would file for divorce.

Stella added, “After Paul left, his ex started blowing up my phone. She keeps telling me what an evil person I am to take stability from Ella, and called me a monster. I told her that she’s the mother and providing stability is her burden, not mine. Though I feel like my decision was justified, I still feel guilty about Ella in this situation. What should I do?”

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Interesting facts of chicken egg fertility that you may not know.

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I know you may be wondering how, and here is the explanation Unlike other birds where you find partners, in chickens there is no courtship or romance. A rooster just forces himself on the hen. So what happens is when a rooster mates a hen, his injected semen is stored in numerous sperm storage tubules (SSTs) located in the area where the hen’s uterus joins the vagina. But this only happens provided the hen likes the rooster. If she doesn’t, she can squirt out the semen to avoid hatching his offspring. Therefore a hen may still proceed to lay eggs that are not fertile despite even mating with a rooster every day…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

Even if the hen approves the rooster, some eggs may still not be fertile:

Since the sperm is released shortly after an egg is laid, and each egg takes approximately 25 hours to develop, an egg produced on the day of mating will not be fertile.

An egg laid the next day may or may not be fertile, depending on the timing. An egg laid on the third day definitely should be fertile.

So as you can see your hen can still have the first two or three eggs that are not fertile despite the hen and a rooster having mated.

You don’t need a rooster everyday for the hen to continue laying fertile eggs:

The amount of time during which the hen will continue to lay fertile eggs depends on how much sperm fills the SSTs, which are capable of storing semen from multiple matings and multiple roosters.

Highly productive hens generally remain fertile longer than hens that lay at a slower rate. The average duration of fertility from a single mating is 10 to 14 days.
So it is possible that once your hen has mated with a rooster you can even take the rooster away and you can still have fertile eggs for the next 14 days.

For first time layers if a rooster has mated with a hen, all her eggs are not always fertile: READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Generally speaking, a hen who has mated will be fertile between 7 and 10 days after. It takes that long for the sperm to reach the oviduct where eggs are made. So it is possible that after mating, your hen can still continue to lay eggs that are not fertile for the next 10 days. This is why it is encouraged that for hens that are laying for the first time it is better to eat the eggs for the first two or three weeks instead of attempting to hatch them.

Not all roosters have fertile sperm:

This is a sad one. Just like in humans, even in chickens we also have roosters that are infertile.
Why? Who knows. It’s maybe just something in his genes not working as it should. Again, very like the human condition. There’s not always a rhyme or reason.

NB- This article has been compiled to help people understand why at time they may hear those who provide hatchery services referring to their eggs not having been fertile. We know some have been wondering why the eggs are said not to be fertile yet they have the recommended number of hens and roosters that are also active for that matter.

While the article has been compiled from various sources that we believe to be credible, it is only for general information. For specifics relating to one’s flock we still recommend that farmers use the services of professionals.

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Boy spent 6 years digging hole after fight with parents, but ‘what he did with it caused the world to lose their breath’!

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When he was 14, the boy got into a small argument with his parents after they told him that he couldn’t go into the local village wearing his tracksuit. To channel his frustrations, he stayed back at his home and began attacking the ground in the garden, using his grandfather’s pickaxe.

What he didn’t foresee was that he would continue digging the ground until he created his personal den. What began as a way to manage his anger, ended up becoming a bizarre obsession for 20-year-old Canto, reports Mirror…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

His passion project began 6 years ago, and it is now a full-blow underground structure that is comprised of a living room and bedroom!

Canto has carefully carved steps that lead to his underground masterpiece. An actor by profession, the 20-year-old shared that he doesn’t really remember what had prompted him to channel his rage by digging a hole in the property of his family home in Spain. But he recalls that the process of plowing the ground helped him keep his temper in check and wind down in the evening after school. He would blissfully work on his excavation for several days a week.

Initially, he would only use his hands to do the work, but the process sped up after his friend Andreu brought his pneumatic drill over. Now Canto was no longer alone as Andreu would help him dig the ground. The pair spent nearly 14 hours every week digging up almost 10-foot into the earth.

But he recalls that the process of plowing the ground helped him keep his temper in check and wind down in the evening after school. He would blissfully work on his excavation for several days a week.

Initially, he would only use his hands to do the work, but the process sped up after his friend Andreu brought his pneumatic drill over. Now Canto was no longer alone as Andreu would help him dig the ground. The pair spent nearly 14 hours every week digging up almost 10-foot into the earth.

He didn’t really have a plan as to how his retreat was going to look like, and the layout would often be determined by the obstacles that got in the way of his project. “Sometimes I came across a big stone and it could be frustrating after hours of digging that I had done almost nothing,” shared Canto. In the beginning, Canto used to remove all the rubble and soil using his hands and bucket. However, after Andres got involved in the project, he began studying various excavation techniques and ultimately developed a pulley system to transport the rubble to the surface without exerting too much effort and time. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

After reaching the desired depth, their first challenge was to ensure that the roof wouldn’t collapse. Thus, he strengthened the ceilings using arched entrances and vaulted ceilings with reinforced columns to prevent it from collapsing. The kids clearly knew what it took to go into such critical but enhanced details.

In the beginning, Canto used to remove all the rubble and soil using his hands and bucket. However, after Andres got involved in the project, he began studying various excavation techniques and ultimately developed a pulley system to transport the rubble to the surface without exerting too much effort and time.

After reaching the desired depth, their first challenge was to ensure that the roof wouldn’t collapse. Thus, he strengthened the ceilings using arched entrances and vaulted ceilings with reinforced columns to prevent it from collapsing. The kids clearly knew what it took to go into such critical but enhanced details.

Next, they created two rooms and installed a heating system, a music system, as well as Wi-Fi, which is transmitted by his phone from the cave entrance. Moreover, the underground home is the perfect cooling retreat to escape the heat during the summer months. Now for the best part, this whole project costed him a total of just $60. “It’s great, I have everything I need. It can be tiring to work here as it is wet and there is not much air going around, but I have found my own motivation to keep on digging every day,” he shared.

Now for the best part, this whole project costed him a total of just $60. “It’s great, I have everything I need. It can be tiring to work here as it is wet and there is not much air going around, but I have found my own motivation to keep on digging every day,” he shared.

 

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Boss tried to ravish his worker, but was left in agony ‘after she grabbed a knife and chopped off this body part’!

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Per reports, the woman reportedly turned herself over to the police after slicing off her ‘boss’s part’ when he tried to ra-e her. The woman, who works at a bar revealed that the boss tried to force her into having se* on several occasions in the past.

However, the last time he tried to do so resulted in him having his ‘part chopped off!’ When the woman gave her statement, she said that her boss “had forced her to have non-consensual se-ual relations on several occasions,” per reports…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

The boss reportedly tried to ra-e her again, but the woman resisted the se-ual attack by grabbing a knife and severing his privates. She then called the police herself to inform them of the shocking series of events, according to New York Post. While the man was taken to a hospital, the woman was arrested by the regional police in Spain. Identified only as a Bangladeshi national, the woman is reportedly in her 30s and had been suffering harassment at the hands of her boss for several months.

While the man was taken to a hospital, the woman was arrested by the regional police in Spain. Identified only as a Bangladeshi national, the woman is reportedly in her 30s and had been suffering harassment at the hands of her boss for several months.

Currently, an investigation is being carried out and the detectives are putting the effort to understand the earlier events that led to this drastic step and if the woman’s claims of acting in self-defence is true. A spokesperson for the regional police force said, as quoted by the Daily Mail, “A woman has been arrested for a crime of wounding following an incident around midnight at a bar. The arrest happened in the early hours of this morning.” “

A spokesperson for the regional police force said, as quoted by the Daily Mail, “A woman has been arrested for a crime of wounding following an incident around midnight at a bar. The arrest happened in the early hours of this morning.” “ READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

The woman was the one who contacted police to explain what had happened,” the source went on to say. “She said she had cut off her boss’s pe-is as he tried to se-ually assault her. Her claims are being investigated and the bar owner may be arrested once the hospital say he is well enough to be questioned.” Although doctors performed an emergency operation on the man, it is unclear at the moment whether they were able to successfully reattach the organ.

Although doctors performed an emergency operation on the man, it is unclear at the moment whether they were able to successfully reattach the organ.

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