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I Started Selling My Body To Men After What Happened To Me –

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I grew up where I saw women selling themselves every night. Once the street lights come on, you’ll see them walking one after the other to the where the lights shine the brightest. They were like light bugs. They dot around the light as if it’s the light that gives them the energy to do what they do. My mom sold food by the streets at night.

I would be next to my mom watching these girls do their business. I spoke to some of them. A few of them became friends and they asked of me whenever they came around to buy stuff. When their dresses were too revealing, my mom would ask me to cover my eyes. I saw her struggle. She didn’t want me there but if I wasn’t, who would help her sell? My mom was doing life all alone with four kids. I was the eldest. My dad disappeared because he couldn’t stand us…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

We were more than he bargained for so when push came to shove, he disappeared and never looked back. My uncle, my father’s elder brother was there for us until he too stopped caring for us. I was a child. I didn’t know why he stopped but I remember my mom warning me never to go to my uncle for assistance. She never said why. She said, “Don’t ever step foot in that your uncle’s house. He’s no longer for us.” When I grew up, I got the whole story from another relative.

My uncle wanted to have an affair with my mom but my mom didn’t want to. One day, he nearly raped my mom when she went there for money my uncle had promised her. That was the point my mom felt the danger in associating with my uncle so she decided to cut us off from him. Once he was gone, life was all about suffering. We were four. It wasn’t easy.

Mom had to do it all alone. I dropped out of school four times before I finally completed SHS. I was a smart kid. I would drop out for a year, go back and still kick the ass of the many subjects we were doing. It was hard but Mom tried her best. Before completing SHS, she told me my education would end at SHS because my other siblings also needed to have a bite of education.

I wasn’t angry. She had done her best and all I could do was applaud her. I knew I didn’t want my education to end at SHS. To me it was the starting point so right after SHS, I travelled to live with an aunt who I thought could help me. She was married to a rich man. She could singlehandedly take care of my education and make my life better but she didn’t.

Once I was there, she added me to her domestic staff. I swept while the househelp slept. I cooked while her children went to school. I washed while she and her husband remained in bed. I woke up with the rooster but I didn’t crow. I watched it crow to announce the morning but my morning had started long ago. I went to her husband and pleaded with him to help me go back to school.

The man listened to me with interesting eyes and said kind words. He discussed the possibility of me going to school and the conversation I had with him with my aunt and my aunt got angry. “How dare you talk about education? Am I the one who gave birth to you? Don’t you know your mother?” The relationship was never the same again. I told my mom I wanted to come home. She told me, “There’s nothing here to come for. You’ll suffer when you come.

You say you’re suffering there but at least you eat good food and sleep in a beautiful house. It’s better than here so make it work for you there.” I wanted more than eating good food. I belonged to a beautiful house but wasn’t part of the home the beautiful house provided. One dawn the rooster crowed without me. I was still in bed thinking of what to do next.

I was in bed until the sun rose. My aunt came to my room with rage. I was too peaceful that day to allow her rage to get to me. She ranted, insulted and physically held my hand and pulled me out of bed. I got up wearing a smile. I knew the next crow of the rooster wouldn’t meet me in that house. I sauntered around the house until evening when they were sleeping.

I parked my things and left the house quietly. I went to live with a friend. I was so unimportant to them that no one came looking for me. She didn’t even tell my mom I’d left the house. The only thing that was going to miss me was the rooster. It had to do life alone without me. No one would care about the significance of its crow. I was gone for good. Just as my mom said, there’s suffering everywhere. You have to choose your poison and hope it doesn’t kill you immediately.

It was hard to eat at my friend’s house. I got a job at a fuel station. The pay couldn’t even pay for my daily transport to work. I got a job as a waitress. The disrespect and maltreatment from customers and owners were enough to stifle the soul of the Invictus. I went to work with my friend. She was working in a hotel so I went with her to just watch her doing her work.

On my first day with her, I saw prostitutes walking the street doing what they do best. It reminded me of my childhood. Those light bugs and how the light gave them energy to do their work. I missed them and missed my childhood. Before going to bed that night, I’d already chosen the path I was going to walk the next day. Before the street lights came on, I ironed the only dress I thought would look sexy on me. I picked up my friend’s small bag, bought a few condoms with the little I had and walked to the street. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

My friend looked at me and said, “You look like a nun compared to those girls. Who’ll take you seriously?” I answered, “Watch me.” So it started. One man a night, two men a day, one for short and one for the whole night. I was only going to do it for a week, raise some money and start something with it. One month later, I was still there, a little light bug growing to become a mother worm. The money was good. It was so easy to make it and since it was easy to get, you easily let go of it.

I bought more dresses. I bought drinks. I bought drugs. I was learning the tricks to be able to sleep with more men on a night. Six months later, I was sure I was made for prostitution but it took me too long to discover my call. My friend looked at the money I was making and she quit her hotel job to become a light bug. The two of us were unstoppable. We would count our money in the morning and laugh at poverty.

By midday, we would be broke again. It turned out, it wasn’t the light that energized these ladies. It was the sense of broke that made them hit the street every night so they could be rich by morning and go broke again by midday. I sat next to a man in his car who was intrigued by the way I got him to patronize me. He said, “You’re very good at selling.

If you can sell yourself this way, then why don’t you consider selling other things too?” I responded, “It’s easy to sell myself because I’m right here and you know what you’ll get immediately you pick me. All other things are hard to sell.” He asked me to give it a try and see. I asked what I should sell and he answered, “Hawk something. Go from office to office and sell to the guys there.” He gave me an idea. So I started selling things men could buy. Perfume at first. Watches followed.

Khakis and then belts. It turned out a lot of men didn’t want to buy what a lady holds in her hand. They rather want the hand that holds the item. Those I liked, I gave myself to them and they became boyfriends. Through that job, I met a man old enough to be my dad. He slept with me and decided to keep me for himself alone so he gave me a job. That way, I would be in a cage so he could feed me with grains. He wasn’t a bad man. Some days I was scared I was going to kill him.

He didn’t have the energy but always wanted to go three rounds. I started building my dreams from his pocket so I would be somewhere by the time he finally dies on me. I spoke to him about school and he told me he would fund it. I spoke to him about my friend Aggie and he was ready to help her. Aggie got a job too but she later went back to the street because it was free out there. God being so good, this man didn’t die so I was able to complete a certificate course that I used to enter the university.

He was at my graduation. We took a lot of pictures I couldn’t post because of his family. After the university, I was promoted. I was stable and was ready to start a family and have kids of my own. I set my mom up. My siblings were able to dream a dream because I was there for them. The man who came into my life was a pastor. He wanted to marry me but my past and who I had become didn’t allow me to marry him. I told him I wasn’t good for him.

I begged him to let me be that sheep that got missing out of the hundred. He said, “But Jesus left the ninety-nine to pursue that sheep because it was very important to the flock.” I followed him to church. It was in that same church that I met Moses.

The man who a year and a half later married me. This pastor was the officiating minister of our wedding. He didn’t marry me but married me away to a member of his church.

A Chat With The Founder Not too long ago, I was a light bug, circling around lights for energy. Today, I’m here writing this story as a testimony to faith, hard choices and what God decides to use his army for. I’ve done a year already in marriage.

I get scared of the past often. I’m always tempted to regret my past but without my past, this present wouldn’t be here with me. One bad choice after another led me to who I am today so I can only be grateful for the hand that led me away from who I used to be to who I am today

 

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WATCH|| A Man Caught His Wife Red Handed Cheating On Him With Another Man In A Vehicle, See The End

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A dramatic scene unfolded on a quiet suburban street when a man discovered his wife in a compromising situation with another man inside a parked vehicle. The confrontation, which quickly escalated, drew the attention of passersby and sparked heated debates about infidelity and public humiliation.

According to witnesses, the husband, who had been suspicious of his wife’s behavior, followed her after she claimed to be running errands. His worst fears were confirmed when he found her in the embrace of another man in the front seat of a car parked discreetly near a shopping center…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

 

Video footage of the incident, captured by bystanders, shows the visibly enraged husband demanding an explanation as his wife and her alleged lover scramble to cover themselves. The man accused his wife of betraying their marriage vows, while the startled lover pleaded for calm, claiming he was unaware she was married.

The scene quickly went viral on social media, sparking widespread discussions. Some users expressed sympathy for the betrayed husband, while others criticized the public airing of private matters. “This is heartbreaking, but no one deserves to be humiliated like this, no matter the circumstances,” commented one user.

Psychologists and relationship experts weighed in, urging couples to seek counseling to address marital issues rather than resorting to confrontations that could escalate into violence or public spectacle. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>> READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Meanwhile, local authorities confirmed they were not pursuing any charges, as the altercation did not result in physical harm or property damage. However, they urged community members to handle personal matters privately and respectfully.

Infidelity remains a sensitive and divisive topic in society, often leaving deep emotional scars for those involved. While this incident has provided fodder for gossip and memes, it also highlights the complex dynamics of relationships and the pain betrayal can cause.

As the dust settles, the man’s heartbreaking discovery serves as a cautionary tale of trust, honesty, and the consequences of deceit in intimate relationships.

 

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Meet The 3 Men Who Killed Lucky Dube, Why They Killed Him and What Was Done To Them (Photos).

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Fortunate Man began making music when he was extremely youthful. Before 1984, when he began doing reggae, he made some “mbaqanga” records in Zulu and Afrikaans. Peter Tosh affected these melodies. In South Africa, he was the most popular reggae performer. After he met Bounce Marley and Peter Tosh and changed from mbaqanga to reggae, his Disc Detainee turned into the most famous record in South Africa during the 1980s and 1990s.

There were a ton of deals of the Serious Reggae Business assortment in Ghana. He won in excess of 20 honors at home and abroad. He went through his entire time on earth voyaging. It seemed as though somebody was attempting to take Fortunate Dube’s vehicle when he was killed. He was shot around midnight in an area in Johannesburg. He was 43 years of age. Scott Bobb, who works for us, sends us news from that point…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

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Five men were captured according to his demise, and on Walk 31, 2009, three of them were viewed as liable. The three individuals who went after the reggae vocalist said they shot and killed him when they attempted to take his vehicle since they thought he was Nigerian and didn’t realize he was a reggae artist. Police in South Africa say that three individuals shot the well known reggae craftsman as he dropped off his child in the Rosettenville neighborhood of Johannesburg.

Mpho Maruping, a state observer, said that her significant other had conceded to being important for Dube’s bombed seizing and told her what happened to the multi-grant winning genius. The lady told the Johannesburg High Court about the night Dube was shot while driving his child and little girl to school in Rosettenville. Dube’s family was crying behind the scenes. Maruping and Thabo Maruping are hitched. From the outset, he was blamed for killing Dube, however at that point he turned state’s observer.

 

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17 Years Old Slept in His Friend’s House Then He Woke Up to Find Out the Shock of His Life –

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Cody Dietz, a teenager from York, Pennsylvania, was your ordinary adolescent. As a 17-year-old, he enjoyed spending time with his peers and attending sleepovers on a regular basis. As it occurred, he’d been living a normal life until something happened one night that altered everything.

Cody’s mother, Bonnie, attempted to contact her son on his cell phone and inquire as to when he expected to return home, but he didn’t answer the call. When he didn’t return her call after a short period of time, she realized that something was seriously wrong. She tried calling him over and over again, but he didn’t pick up the phone. Bonnie began to feel apprehensive…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

 

 

More information on Cody’s story can be seen in the following video. Cody’s father’s phone finally rang, but it wasn’t Cody who was on the other end of the line. Cody’s companion informed them that Cody was unable to stand and was murmuring unintelligibly at the time of the incident. While he was holding the phone up to Cody’s mouth, all his father could hear was gurgling noises on the other end of it.

Cody’s parents were aware that something was badly wrong, and an ambulance was dispatched immediately. When the paramedics arrived, they initially thought Cody had suffered a stroke. However, he was later proved incorrect. He was flown to the nearest hospital in a rescue chopper as soon as they discovered him, and it was then that their fears were confirmed.

Dr. Ray Reischwein, the hospital’s neurologist, expressed considerable concern about Cody’s condition, saying, “The timeliness of the diagnosis is critical. Many of the therapies produce the best results when they’re completed within six hours.” Cody’s delay in receiving a diagnosis was approximately 12 hours.

In severe condition, Cody was sent to an MRI scan, which revealed that he had suffered a stroke on the left side of his brain. He only had a 20% chance of surviving the situation because of the amount of time that had gone between Cody’s stroke and his arrival at the hospital. Physicians were forced to undertake a difficult surgery that included the removal of the top of his skull in order to relieve the pressure on his brain. They would also reduce Cody’s body to 33 degrees Celsius or 91 degrees Fahrenheit, which is a process that’s commonly utilized on patients having open heart surgery and brain surgery. The cooling of the body minimizes the amount of oxygen consumed by the brain, preventing brain cells from being killed.

Cody spent three weeks in an induced coma following the procedure, during which time his parents feared for his life. During Bonnie’s time spent by her son’s bedside, trying not to lose hope, she recalled that Cody displayed signs of illness a week before suffering a stroke. He’d spoken slowly and garbled his words, and she’d seen that his limbs were twitching constantly throughout the conversation. The reason for this odd behavior had now been identified.

When Cody was brought out of his coma by physicians, the magnitude of the damage caused by the stroke was immediately apparent. The right side of his body was paralyzed, and he was unable to speak or write anymore. Doctors informed the family that their son’s rehabilitation would take a long time, and that they could not expect him to make a full recovery.

After a few weeks, Cody astonished everyone by regaining his ability to talk, and after two years of hard rehabilitation, he was back to his previous level of fitness. Following his horrific experience, Cody’s dedicated himself to educating other teenagers and their parents about the symptoms that can indicate the onset of a forthcoming stroke. “I wish I’d gone to the doctor sooner, but who knows what could have happened,” Cody said.

It’s also his mother, Bonnie, who’s been working tirelessly to raise awareness about the hazards and symptoms to watch out for. These include a feeling of faintness, facial paralysis, slurred speech, and eyesight issues. “My suggestion to parents is to not overlook any signals that their child may be experiencing,” Bonnie cautioned. “The most significant issue with strokes is that they’re extremely difficult for people to notice. It’s common for people to believe that strokes only occur in older people and to disregard the symptoms when they manifest themselves in younger adults and youngsters.”

The unfortunate irony of this is that doctors have actually detected a rise in the number of stroke cases among teenagers and children, and they believe this is due to an increase in the number of people living unhealthy lives. The fact is that many teenagers smoke, drink, and do drugs in the mistaken belief that they’re immortal. Unfortunately, many of them learn the hard way that they’re not, in fact, immortal.

Hopefully, by raising awareness among youth and their parents about the dangers of stroke and learning to recognize the signs and symptoms, strokes can be avoided or, at the very least, dealt with before it’s too late. The onset of a stroke can occur at any stage.

When Cody Dietz failed to awaken the morning after a party, his pals assumed he was suffering from a hangover and allowed him to sleep. They had no idea that their 17-year-old friend had suffered a stroke that may have resulted in his death, but it happened. The father of his friend contacted me and said, “Your son is stumbling around. Can I call 9-1-1?” Cody’s mother, Bonnie Dietz, recalled the events of July 30th, 2008, when Cody was killed. She explained that the boys had been drinking at another location the night before and had gone to his friend’s house thereafter.

A CAT scan performed at York Hospital’s emergency department revealed that her son had suffered a major left brain stroke. He was airlifted to Penn State Milton S. Hershey Medical Center by Life Lion helicopter, whereas neurologist Dr. Ray Reichwein had no time to waste in making critical decisions on his behalf. “The diagnosis must be made within a specific time frame. Many of the treatments are most effective when administered within six hours. Cody’s delay in diagnosis was close to 12 hours,” said Reichwein, who was unable to administer some of the conventional treatments due to the delay in diagnosis. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Cody’s friend’s lack of knowledge is not uncommon. Most adults, let alone teenagers, are unaware that a teenager can suffer a stroke, according to medical professionals. According to the National Center for Health Statistics, stroke is one of the top 10 causes of mortality among children, and the number of children who die from it is increasing.

Reichwein, head of Hershey’s Stroke Program, said that over the past several years, the usual risk factors—things like obesity, hypertension, high cholesterol, type 2 diabetes, smoking, and a more sedentary lifestyle—have become more prevalent in children. Those risk factors are associated with a considerable increase in the rise of a stroke. To make matters worse, most teenagers are unaware of their risk factors, and they’re unaware that certain lifestyle choices, such as smoking, drinking alcohol, using marijuana, or taking birth control pills, can put them at even greater risk of having a stroke, according to Kathy Morrison, manager of Hershey’s Stroke Program.

“Most teenagers are unaware of their risk factors,” she said. “Because teenagers believe they’re indestructible and believe that stroke is mainly a problem for old people, adolescent stroke isn’t even on their radar screen,” according to Morrison, who’s in charge of Hershey’s School Age Stroke Awareness Program.

When Cody’s story is told to kids, they’re very taken aback, she says. “It doesn’t get much more dramatic than this for him.” Cody was suffering from severe brain swelling, and there was nowhere for it to go. In the absence of further intervention, his type of stroke carries an 80% mortality risk, and his was likely close to 100%, said Reichwein, who removed part of Cody’s skull and extended the lining over the surface of the brain to reduce swelling.

Cody was next subjected to therapeutic hypothermia, in which his body was cooled to 33 degrees in order to aid in the survival of injured brain cells and the reduction of edema. After several days, the swelling had subsided to a minor degree. In spite of this, his mother stated, “We weren’t sure whether he would make it for another three weeks. We had a large number of people praying for him. His presence here, I believe, is solely due to the grace of God.”

In the wake of the stroke on his left brain side, Reichwein explained that his speech and understanding were impaired, as was his ability to use his right side and dominant hand. “We have such a positive outcome given the extent of his brain injuries. It’s nothing short of a miracle. I’m not the only one working here. There’s another women in their 20s and 30s who were on the birth control pill are among the young stroke victims seen by Robin Petras, executive and program director at the Central Pennsylvania Aphasia Center in Danville, who says she encounters a significant number of young stroke victims. Taking contraceptives has been linked to a higher risk of stroke than other health risks, in her opinion.

“When someone is young, they don’t necessarily identify the signs of a stroke, especially if they come and go,” according to Reichwein. It’s critical that people understand that strokes may occur at any age and they’re aware of these signs and symptoms, and that they do not disregard them because “time is brain,” as the saying goes.

One of the most common symptoms is a rapid onset of weakness, usually on one side of the body, such as facial drooping or arm weakness. Other symptoms include speech or language difficulties, visual loss or double vision, and a lack of coordination, according to him. A severe headache accompanied by neck stiffness could be an indication of an aneurysm. Heart attacks and strokes are similar in that both include vascular events, but a stroke is different in that it affects the brain rather than the heart, according to Morrison. Because stroke is not painful, people may choose to wait for the symptoms to subside, but this is the worst thing they can do.

Stroke may be prevented in 80% of cases if risk factors are controlled, according to Morrison, who believes that education is extremely crucial. Cody, now 21 years old, and his mother, who live in Lower Windsor Township, York County, share their experience with new workers at the medical center and at hospital grand rounds. Their story is also featured in a movie that’s presented at school in health fair presentations across the country.

“Don’t disregard any signals your youngster may have,” Bonnie Dietz advises parents. “This could be a TIA or mini-stroke,” according to Reichwein. Ignoring a TIA for three months increases the risk of stroke by 20%, according to Reichwein. Cody had multiple variables that put him at risk for a stroke while not having obvious warning signs. A pinhole in his heart and a genetic clotting issue were all hidden from him. He also drank that day during the party. “I wish I’d seen a doctor before my stroke, but who knows?”

Cody had to relearn everything from walking and talking to eating and writing throughout his five-week hospital stay and three-week rehabilitation stay. He still has three weekly sessions of PT, OT, vision, and aqua. Cody struggles to express himself, frustrate him every day, but he remains optimistic that he being present was a plus. His mom is always supportive.

“What has God promised you?” I constantly ask Cody. “Absolutely,” Cody said. “It’s happening.” Thanks for watching.

 

 

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