I’ve been married to my husband Paul for over 3 years now. This is my second marriage, and the same is for Paul. We’re quite happy in our relationship, because it’s mature, stable and transparent. We both have been working hard on achieving that level of mutual understanding and trust that we now have in our family…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>
Everything seemed good so far, but there’s a problem that doesn’t allow us to move forward with our happy marriage. And this problem is Paul’s expectations from me towards his child, Ella.
Paul has a child from his previous marriage. His daughter Ella is 8. Paul was open about the child from the beginning of our relationship. He has Ella every two weeks on weekends. I’ve always told him that’s fine, I have absolutely no problem with it. I believe he can spend time with her as much as he wants, and I won’t make a fuss about it. If he wanted to include me, I would always happily join on activities as well.
But I also made it clear to my husband that I’m not Ella’s parent, that’s him and his ex. Of course, I would look after the girl if she was left with me, I never ignored her. I cooked too when she was with us, and if she wanted to talk or play with me, I’d do that too.
But I refuse to parent her. I was clear about that. If Ella did something that required grounding, for example, I would not be the one to tell her and ground or punish her. That’s a parent’s duty, which I am not.
10 months ago Paul lost his job and since he couldn’t find a new one fast enough, he got evicted from the apartment he had been living in before we moved in together. He kept that apartment even after our marriage, and we both thought that was fine. I have my own house, and I live in it, Paul lived in that apartment and worked from there, this was the model of marriage we had agreed on, and we did find it convenient. But since he lost that apartment, I told him he can move in with me.
I got a spare room, which I turned into a bedroom for Ella, so she has a comfortable place to stay when she’s with us. Things went totally fine the whole time, just last week Paul sat me down for a serious talk. He told me that his ex-wife found out about his new living situation and since she’s living in an apartment, she told Paul it would be way better if Ella lives full time with us and visits her twice a month.
I was totally furious, and you can probably understand my feelings. Without talking to me first about it, my husband agreed to that and presented it to me like ’Honey, please be happy! Our little girl will be full time with us now’ to which I laughed, cause I thought he was joking. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>
Unfortunately Paul wasn’t joking at all. I turned him down instantly and told him I’m not ok with that, not at all. Though I don’t work from home, I just never wanted kids and that point didn’t change, and Paul had been fine with that before.
My husband tried to guilt-trip me, saying that it’s not ok that Ella has to live in an apartment now. He said he just wants to provide her a better living situation. To which I reminded him that this is my house, not his. So it’s my decision who lives here permanently and not his, especially not behind my back.
Paul got angry and told me that I emasculated him by saying things like this, and I needed to apologize. I quickly got up and brought his suitcase, told him to get his stuff and move out of my house. He said he would file for divorce.
Stella added, “After Paul left, his ex started blowing up my phone. She keeps telling me what an evil person I am to take stability from Ella, and called me a monster. I told her that she’s the mother and providing stability is her burden, not mine. Though I feel like my decision was justified, I still feel guilty about Ella in this situation. What should I do?”
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The average white person assumes that the tanned victim may have successfully incited the power – which is typically the police – to behave in this way when confronted with Blacks’ concerns about the violence directed at them.Because of this, some white-dominant jerks in uniform have asserted that Black people would be less aggressive if they dressed better or were friendlier. However, the evidence contradicts these assertions…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>
A cursory look at balanced Blacks in the United States and several documents indicate that the most of them were dressed in suits or coats and met their deaths while moving forward. This went on until one white person chose to take pleasure in their demise and killed them all. Even young children could not escape the fictitious idea of dying in this situation.
Such horrific deeds of wrath had John Hartfield as a legitimate victim. According to reports, the reason for the lynching in 1919 in Ellisville, Mississippi, was his friendship with a white woman. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>
The homicide had been reported the day before in major newspapers. When Hartfield’s execution day arrived, a throng of up to 10,000 people gathered to see him hanged, shot many times, and then torched, his body torn. People who had gathered to see the tragedy were handed bits of his body as keepsake
A disturbing trend of criminal activity has emerged in Bryanston, where two women are alleged to have targeted unsuspecting men after a night out at Nostra, a popular social spot. The suspects, still at large, are accused of spiking the drinks of their victims, rendering them unconscious before proceeding to rob them of valuable possessions…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>
The brazen crimes, classified as house robberies, have left authorities and the community concerned. The women’s modus operandi involves gaining the trust of their victims, often by accompanying them home, before administering the incapacitating substance. Once the men are incapacitated, the suspects allegedly help themselves to cash, bank cards, jewelry, bags, and other valuables, including cologne.
Law enforcement agencies are urging anyone with information regarding the whereabouts of these suspects to come forward. Investigators are working diligently to gather evidence and identify the perpetrators, but the public’s assistance is crucial in bringing them to justice. The police appeal includes requests for witnesses or individuals who may have fallen victim to similar crimes to share their experiences. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>
As the search for the suspects continues, authorities are cautioning men frequenting social venues to be vigilant and protective of their drinks. The cases serve as a stark reminder of the importance of situational awareness and the potential dangers of accepting rides or accompaniment from strangers, regardless of how well-intentioned they may seem. By remaining alert and reporting suspicious activity, the community can help prevent further incidents and ensure the perpetrators face justice.
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A shocking and disturbing incident has left a community reeling after a husband discovered his wife engaging in an illicit affair with his own father-in-law. Instead of seeking answers or confronting the pair, the husband resorted to violence, fatally shooting both his wife and father-in-law. The brutality didn’t end there, as he continued to fire bullets into their lifeless bodies…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>
The senseless act of violence has sparked widespread outrage, with many condemning the husband’s actions as cruel and heartless. The incident raises questions about the societal pressures and emotional triggers that can drive individuals to commit such heinous crimes. While the discovery of infidelity can be devastating, resorting to violence is never an acceptable solution.
Experts emphasize the importance of addressing underlying issues through open communication, counseling, and seeking support from loved ones or professionals. The husband’s failure to engage in constructive dialogue and instead opting for violence has resulted in irreparable harm and loss of life. This tragic event serves as a stark reminder of the devastating consequences of unchecked emotions and impulsive actions. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>
The incident also highlights the need for greater awareness and education on conflict resolution, emotional intelligence, and healthy relationships. The notion that “talk” could have prevented this tragedy resonates deeply. The loss of two lives, including that of a parent, underscores the gravity of this avoidable tragedy. As the community grapples with the aftermath, it is essential to promote non-violent conflict resolution and encourage individuals to seek help when faced with challenging situations.