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We Agreed To Do It Only For Him To Deny The Pregnancy –

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6 days ago

September 28, 2024

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He called to ask me, “Now that you’ve broken up with me, what should I tell your family when we come for the introduction?” The question made me angry. How was a grown man acting as if he did not have a mind of his own? Why did he expect me to feed him the information he should deliver to my parents? It felt like he didn’t want this. His actions during my pregnancy were all the proof I needed to know that he did not want me.

I didn’t want to be stuck with a man who would rather be free of me. So I called his mum and told her, “Please stop forcing your son to marry me. Everything shows your family wants him to be with me but his behavior has proven that I am not who he wants.” She told me to calm down. “Initially, our son had told us the baby was not his. We didn’t want to just take him at his word. This is the reason we came to visit you and the child. When we came, we saw for ourselves that the child looked like him. We reported what we saw to him and he is ready to pay your dowry. We are not the ones forcing him,” she explained…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

The part about this whole thing that pains me is that the man I had the baby with did not come to see his own child. He had to send his family to see the child and confirm if our son was his. This is not a pregnancy that happened by accident. The two of us decided to have the baby together after we had dated for nine months.

We were so in love and in a place where we both wanted a child. I trusted his love for me. I was sure that he would stick to the plan. Yes, usually people get married first and then have a baby. Ours was the other way around. We decided we would get pregnant, then he would meet my family for an introduction, and pay my dowry.

Let me clarify that I did not force this plan down his throat, nor did I manipulate him to agree to it. Two lovers sat together and agreed to this. We did what needed to be done and it did not take long for me to conceive.

I was happy when I missed my period that month and the test results read positive. While I celebrated the gift the heavens blessed us with, Roland was melancholic. “Babe what’s wrong? Why are you not happy that we got what we wanted without trying too hard?” I asked. “It happened too soon,” he responded, “Usually couples try for months before pregnancy happens. But this one was too fast. I don’t think the pregnancy is mine. Maybe you were already carrying another man’s child before we even decided to have a child.” I was shocked he would say this.

I had never cheated on him or even looked at another man since I met him. So why would I give him another man’s child? I tried to reason with him but he wouldn’t talk to me. I asked him to accompany me to the antenatal clinic but he refused. He rather shared his doubts with his mother and then ghosted me for three months.

When he came back, he apologized for his actions and I forgave him. We started talking but didn’t see each other physically. One time I asked him to support me financially, and he ghosted me again. I didn’t chase him. I didn’t call his mother to advise him to be responsible. I turned my attention to myself and my unborn child. I took good care of us. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

By God’s grace, everything went well and I had the baby safely. After delivery, this guy called me sounding angry. “Why didn’t you tell me and my family that you were going to give birth?” he demanded. Honestly, his inconsistency was annoying.

One moment, he was ghosting me because he didn’t want to provide for the care of a child he was sure was not his. Another moment he was accusing me of not telling his family I had the baby. I didn’t want any more of his problems so I stopped picking up his calls.

Two months after the delivery, his mother called to ask if they could visit to see their grandchild. I agreed. My family prepared and welcomed them well. We were expecting Roland to be with them but he didn’t show up. It was his mother and siblings who came to see the baby.

After the informal introductions, his mum told my dad, “Next week we will come with our son for an official introduction, and then we will pay the dowry.” My family didn’t have any objections although we hadn’t heard from the baby daddy himself.

I was tempted to send him a message to confirm what his mum said but I didn’t. He was the one who started texting me after his people left. I thought we were going to speak like two adults but he had something different in mind. Instead of apologising for his absence, he accused me of blocking him, something I didn’t do. He then asked what he should tell my parents now that I had broken up with him. I never broke up with him either. He was the one who decided our child was not his and then ghosted me.

As his mother explained, they’ve seen that the child looks like him so he is ready to pay the dowry. I keep asking myself what would have happened if the child came out looking like me instead. Would he still say the child is his? Would he still want to pay my dowry? I don’t trust him anymore, not after the way he neglected me. He left me to take care of a pregnancy we both agreed to conceive. How can I marry such a man?

This is why am I here with my story today. Is it a good idea to go ahead with the marriage? Or should count my losses and move on with my life as a single mum?

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Farmer Who Killed Women & Use Their Remain As Feed For Animals In Tear During Court Hearing, See Why

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2 days ago

October 3, 2024

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The bail application for three men accused of the brutal murders of Maria Makgato 47, and Lucia Ndlovu 34, has been postponed as the defense seeks access to a key statement from the farm owner. The three accused remain in custody while awaiting further legal proceedings after the hearing was delayed by the Polokwane Regional Court on Tuesday…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

The men are facing charges of murder after the bodies of Makgato and Ndlovu were allegedly thrown into a pigsty at a farm near Mankweng, Limpopo. The disturbing nature of the case has captured national attention with both local communities and the families of the victims seeking justice.

The bail hearing was postponed after the defense filed an appeal to access the statement of the farmer who owns the property where the alleged crime occurred. According to defense attorneys, this statement could provide critical information that may affect their clients’ legal strategy in applying for bail.

The farmer statement is a pivotal piece of evidence in understanding the events leading up to the deaths of the victims said the defense team. We believe it will play a crucial role in ensuring a fair trial and in determining whether our clients should be granted bail.

The prosecution however is expected to oppose the bail application citing the serious nature of the charges and concerns that the accused may flee or interfere with the investigation. They also pointed to the gruesome details of the murders, where the bodies were allegedly disposed of in a pigsty, which they argue reflects the extreme cruelty of the crime. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Community members and the victims families have expressed outrage over the bail application calling for the accused to remain behind bars. Outside the courtroom a small group of protestors gathered holding signs demanding justice for Makgato and Ndlovu. We want to see justice served for the families of these women. Their deaths have shocked us all said one protester outside the Polokwane courthouse.

The court has yet to announce a new date for the bail hearing, but the legal teams will return to court once the farmer statement is provided. Meanwhile the accused will remain in custody pending further proceedings.

The case has heightened public awareness about violence in rural areas particularly on farms, and has sparked calls for better safety measures in such isolated environments. Both law enforcement and local authorities are under pressure to resolve the case and bring closure to the grieving families.

As the investigation continues attention will focus on the outcome of the bail application and whether the defense access to the farmer statement will change the course of the case.

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WOMAN Walks 20 Miles To Work On Foot, Cop Follows And Uncovers Terrible Secret

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2 days ago

October 3, 2024

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Mandy Jean Beasley, a 40-year-old mother of two, lived in Chicago, Illinois, and worked as a waitress. However, her life took an unexpected turn in the first quarter of 2021 when her company laid off several employees, including her.

This left her in a precarious financial situation as she had to dip into her savings to support her children. She embarked on a challenging job search, but despite her efforts, she struggled to find suitable employment.

After months of searching, she finally found a job opportunity that matched her skills and qualifications. However, there were significant obstacles to overcome. The job paid less than her previous one, and the company’s offices were located 10 miles from her home…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

With no extra money for commuting expenses and a pile of debts from nearly a year of unemployment, Mandy faced a tough decision.

To make ends meet, Mandy chose to walk to and from work, a daily journey of 10 miles each way. Although it was initially a challenging endeavor, she soon adapted to the routine and found solace in her daily walks. However, one gloomy Tuesday morning, everything changed. It was raining, and she noticed a police officer trailing her.

Sergeant Scott Bass from the Nash County Sheriff’s Office had been following her, concerned about her safety and well-being due to the challenging weather conditions. Despite her initial distrust of the police, Sergeant Bass stopped his cruiser and asked her to get into the vehicle, concerned for her safety. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

Mandy was nervous and couldn’t understand why the officer had asked her into his car. Her past experiences with the police had left her wary, but she complied. As she sat in the cruiser, she couldn’t shake her fears about the unknown. Her life had been marked by run-ins with the police, often for reasons beyond her control, and she couldn’t help but wonder how this situation would unfold.

While Mandy trembled with anxiety, Sergeant Bass continued to drive her through the rain without explaining his intentions. She was tormented by the uncertainty and wondered why this was happening on a day when being late for work was not an option. She felt the weight of the situation and questioned why it had to be her.

However, as the journey continued, Sergeant Bass’s intentions became clear. He felt a deep sense of responsibility to help people like Mandy, who were working hard to make ends meet. He decided to offer her a daily ride to work when the weather was inclement, alleviating her long walks in harsh conditions.

Over time, Mandy’s perception of the police changed, as she realized that Sergeant Bass genuinely cared about her well-being and wanted to help. He went above and beyond by providing her with a brand new bicycle to make her daily commute more manageable.

This act of kindness not only changed Mandy’s perception but also touched the hearts of the community, who were proud to have such a generous member of law enforcement in their midst. Sergeant Bass’s compassion and support had a profound impact on Mandy’s life, enabling her to continue working and providing for her children.

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Did An Angel Save Girl From Dying In Hospital?

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2 days ago

October 3, 2024

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Losing a child can be a devastating event, no matter what age.It is, however, universally agreed upon that it is worse when the child is lost at such a young age.

Sadly, this sort of early death is expected for some families, due to the circumstances that their child is involved in.

Despite the advancement of modern medicine, there are still plenty of children who suffer from severe health problems from either a young age or even from birth. These children are often predicted to not survive very long…Click Here To Continue Reading>> …Click Here To Continue Reading>>

In a way, their passing can be considered them finally having rest and relief from their life, which has been an uphill battle all the way.

Most of these children and their families, however, find themselves with plenty to live for.

They fight, they strive, and they try to use everything at their disposal to push forward and see another day.

Alas, this is a war, and sometimes, the inevitable happens.

In the case of North Carolinian Chelsea Banton, she wasn’t expected to see her third day.

A premature baby born five weeks early, Chelsea had a major problem – she had to deal with excessive fluids creating pressure against her brain.

The doctors gave her at most 36 hours to live.

However, the baby girl would defy all odds, and would live to grow up.

Her life, however, did not get any easier after that first major hurdle.

The girl would spend the following 14 years of her short life fighting against one health problem after another.

Infections, life-threatening viruses, fluid retention, shunt revisions, hydrocephalus – you named it, she suffered it at some point.

In the fall of 2008, Chelsea was struck by yet another round of advanced pneumonia, which had developed from a bad cold she caught. READ FULL STORY HERE>>>CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING>>>

This latest bout of illness seemed to be the last one she could handle – the girl was forced to stay in the hospital for seven weeks, completely dependant on life support.

It was at this point that Colleen Banton, her mother, was forced to make a heartbreaking decision.

In the interest of not prolonging her daughter’s suffering, she opted to keep the ventilator off the next time her daughter was strong enough to breathe on her own.

It was essentially plugging the plug for the girl – by this point, Colleen had decided that should her daughter’s time had come, then there was no use in delaying the inevitable.

While praying with friends and family who had come out to support this mother, Colleen was suddenly called over to a nearby monitor by the pediatrician nurse.

There, her attention was directed to the bright light that had appeared in front of the door to the pediatrician unit.